Tompkins, Matthew Matthew Paul Tompkins, 37, passed on January 05, 2021. Matthew was born to Gregory Paul Tompkins and Marijo Eaton Tompkins in Grand Rapids, Michigan on December 17, 1983. Matthew had two brothers David and Daniel, one sister Rachel Bersano, brother-in-law Chris Bersano, one neice Avery Bersano, and one aunt Cathy. Matthew's girlfriend was Shonti Masten and they lived together in Kalamazoo, Michigan. Cremation has taken place and a private ceremony will be held.