Angelo J. "Bernie " Bernardini
Sep 1st 1931 - Mar 22nd 2008
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Marlene Kinnell (Nuyens)
April 20th 2008
kinnellm@comcast.net
My deepest sympathy to in the passing of your dad. I remember Chris and I playing kick the can at your place on so many summer nights. I never remember your dad being grumpy and he never yelled at us even when he probably should have.
Peace to All,
Marlene Kinnell
Bill Taylor
April 10th 2008
bt4_1284@yahoo.com
23 March 2008
Remembrance of Angelo
Although I only saw him a few times, my cousin Angelo was an important member of my family. I think it’s because of the lack of a strong father in my nuclear family, I saw in Angelo the Dad I wished I had.
I remember in the 60’s when Angelo, Judy. Mark, and two little girls came out to visit us in Long Island. Mark and the girls were “little kids” of not much interest to me. Angelo was a man though, a nice man, a warm man, a happy man, a man who played with his kids and somehow I felt that he appreciated me. We all went to the beach once, I had learned to body surf, and I was telling Angelo about it, he was trying it and maybe Mark was, too. Angelo would jump in a wave but not ahead of it enough, and wave would wash over him and he thought he body surfed. I remember standing on the front porch of 65 Carstairs Rd, he had done it and was telling me how much he enjoyed it but I could tell he hadn’t done it right. It’s funny the things you remember.
A few years later I had to register for the draft. Vietnam was on; I took the draft registration very seriously, it was one of the first things I did as an “adult male” and we had to state the name and address of a person other than our parents who would always know where we were. I picked Angelo. I suppose Angelo may have been confused why I would do that if indeed he ever heard about it.
Many years later I was so privileged to visit Angelo in Muskegon. Mark came up, and he and Angelo were so kind to me. Angelo took me around, introduced me to the “sights” in Muskegon (are you laughing now?). I remember well a nice long walk on the pier by Muskegon Bay (?) which was the highlight of my trip there. I can’t tell you exactly why it was the highlight, it was very important to me to meet this good man again in his own environment up there in Muskegon, Michigan, the place I had been to once as a boy and had heard about again and again over the years.
It’s funny the things that are important to you.
Angelo was a good man. Emily and I prayed together that he may rest in peace; that his family may find peace in their remembrance of the many wonderful years they enjoyed of him. I had only a few fleeting glimpses of this wonderful man. I’ll miss him.
Bill Taylor
San Francisco, CA
April 8th 2008
PSElsie@msn.com
Meet Angelo in a previos site we used to play crib in. Had many converstaions about our families and trips he took with his family to Italy. He was an excellent player and we enjoyed trying to beat one another in the game. He will be sorely missed by his "crib" family.
Harrysmate, (Elsie)
Lynn Nolan
April 2nd 2008
IJSTWANT2HAVFUN@aol.com
IT was a Pleasure to Play Angelo in a Game of Cribbage online! We played many of games On World Play! He always talked about his family and the Trips and Share ALOT of Pictures with me! He will be sadly Missed! HE was a True Kind Person! God Bless & I know he is watching over us from Heaven Now!! Hugs Angelo
Karen Fowler
April 1st 2008
mafowler1@comcast.net
Beginning in the1960's and to continue until 1988 Mr. Bernardini was to instruct many of the Fowler Clan from Twin Lake to include two of our children. He never neglected to ask how the "kids" were doing whenever he saw us around town. He would occasionally email me to ask about our kids and wanted to see pictures. So glad I had the opportunity to know him all these years and he will be missed by many.
Howard and Carolyn Bredin
March 28th 2008
bredincj@verizon.net
It was my privilage to teach with "Bernie" for my 32 years at "Puffer". He was truly a great teacher and person. We had many laughs and discussions around the lunch table and many other places. He left a mark for his students and all of us to follow. He will be sorely missed by everyone who had a contact with him.
Sorry this is late - we are in Florida and just learned how to send our message.
Denise McIntire
March 28th 2008
dmcintire@hrblock.com
I have vivd memories of Angelo always calling me kid in the office. I worked with him at H&R Block for 7 years before moving on in the company. Ang was the one person in my life that persuaded me to attend college, I shared with him that no one else in my family had ever gone to college. He said, you can be the first, so I did (little did he know at the time that he would be tutoring me in math). For one whole summer when I was taking all of the math classes I needed for my degree, Angelo tutuored me to good grades. There were many times when I wished he would just give me the answer, I'm sure he wished he would have to because as soon as I finished my work we would play cribbage. But he was very patient and taught me what I needed to know before he whipped the pants off me in cribbage. I will truly miss his guidance and friendship.
SuzAnne Maple
March 27th 2008
suzmap@yahoo.com
I am sorry to hear of the passing of Mr. Bernardini.
Algebra I 196I-RPHS-Grade 9, although I recognized early in the year that was not "into" math I still recall his smile and boomimg cheerful voice. He is part of my memories of RP. He is a landmark and it is hard to imagine that the world goes on without his presence.
Norm Charland
March 27th 2008
phitter@comcast.net
So sorry to learn of Angelo's passing. He was one of my teachers in high school and again at MCC. I always admired his intellect, good nature and can do attitude. From time to time I would receive an email from him. My favorite one contained a link to the photos of his first trip to Italy. Some time after that my wife, Lita, and I ran into Angelo while walking along the Muskegon Channel. He took the time to tell us of his trip and how much he enjoyed the land and spending time with his family. He was a unique man and I will miss his perspective on things we talked about over the years. God bless him.
matt shewey schutter
March 27th 2008
shewdogs@yahoo.com
mr bernardini was a wonderful person that i known my whole life. when i was a growing up i was alays friends with his kids especially his daugther annette and when i got older and the kids came home to visit him,his son mark would take me golfing all of time.he did my taxes for past 3 years and he would help me if i was in trouble with things and i would help him out too,he was like a second dad to me when my parents got divcrocehe will be greatful miss by me.my paryers go to his kids and grandchilden
Donna Scott
March 27th 2008
budonna@verizon.net
To the family of Angelo,
Angelo did our taxes for years. I am the secretary at First Baptist and coordinate our T.V. Ministry. Angelo used to remind me that my T.V. coordinator job cost me money. He would smile at me and say "I know! If you didn't do it no one would" Your father, grandfather shared so many memories of his family and trips. Two years in a row we looked at the pictures of his trip to Italy. He had a great sense of humor and was a man of integrity. I know you will miss him as we all will. My prayers to the family.
Donna Scott
Ken Larson
March 27th 2008
kenlarson42@hotmail.com
My condolences to family and friends are rooted in the hope of the Resurrection through faith in Jesus Christ, whose Resurrection we celebrated on the Sunday Angelo left this life for the Life to come. One indelible memory among many is this. The Fall of 1957 found a couple dozen of us sitting in Mr. B’s Plain Geometry class, hearing his stern recitation of the theorems we HAD to MEMORIZE. “Two parallel lines do not meet…” etc. In the following weeks, we bisected lines. We bisected angles, lots of ‘em, even obtuse ones. Then Mr. B gave us a homework assignment I’ve never forgotten. It was a challenge: Go home tonight and see if you can find some way of TRI-secting an angle, using only a compass and a straight edge. I tried and tried. There MUST be a way. The next day this master teacher of teachers taught a life-long lesson. After calling a few students to the board to demonstrate what could only be described as their failure to trisect an angle. Mr. B. smiled. He said, long ago it was proven that it is impossible to trisect an angle using only a compass and a straight edge (Euclid himself maybe ?). Not fair! we said. Not fair giving us an assignment to do something that cannot be done! Then came the life-long lesson. It’s good that you learn early on that there are some problems that cannot be solved, he explained, but you are here to learn to solve problems that do have solutions. How very often in the last 50 years that most valuable lesson has proven true in my life, and, I am sure, in the lives of other students touched by Mr. Bernardini’s lessons. The eulogies we offer are but thanksgivings to the Lord who put him into our lives. –Rev. Ken Larson, class of 1960. S.D.G.
Laurel Dawson
March 27th 2008
dawsonl@monashores.net
I was a friend of Angelo. I knew him from Reeths Puffer through my ex husband, Dan Cihak. Angelo was a friend and a mentor. He had done my taxes for many years and gave friendly advice. I will always appreciate that and have fond memories. He was a nice, kind man.
Karen Briggs Kirkland
March 27th 2008
nwdsgranny1942@yahoo.com
MISTER B was my home room teacher his first year at RP.
And he must of been made of pretty "tuff stuff" to be fresh out of college, and put up with all that we threw his way.
Some days, he would simply turn away from the class, take a few deep breaths, shrug his shoulders, and begin again.
Perhaps , we were his trial by fire!
Our class and the class of 59 hold a joint reunion each August, and it was always a high note of the afternoon to recall those days at school with him. By the way, Mr. B
I never did learn to do ALGEBRA!
I will truly miss this really "neat" man........
Karen Briggs Kirkland,
RPHS class of "60"
Christy (Critchett) Hester
March 26th 2008
cdhesters@aol.com
Back in the early 1980's I had Mr. Bernardini as my math teacher. I remember the kindness he showed me when I lost my grandmother and the goodness that was simply him. As an adult, I enjoyed seeing him at church, hearing his infectious laugh, running into him at breakfast, and receiving his silly emails at home. I always appreciated the interest he showed in my children. He will be missed.
Christy Hester
Julie Fowler Orwig
March 26th 2008
julieorwig@hotmail.com
Of all of the teachers I have had over the years, none could compare to Mr. Bernardini! His zest for life, enthusiasm for math, and devotion to friends and family were such an inspiration to all of his students. When I left high school, I would never see him again although I thought about him many times. He seemed to take an interest in each student and as my brothers and sister, nieces and nephews also became his students, he would ask about each of us. It was truly a privilege to have been in his classroom for 4 years and to have such fond memories to take away. To his wonderful family, I send my sincere condolences. Julie Fowler Orwig
Janice Dunmore
March 26th 2008
dunmoremi@aol.com
It was my priviledge to have worked with Angelo at H & R Block. He was always very special to me and will truly be missed. My prayer and thoughts are with all of you. Janice and Dave Dunmore
Ellen (Erickson) Sugarbaker
March 26th 2008
ESugar2@msn.com
To the family of "Mr. Bernardini,
I would like to send my condolences on the passing of your father. I have not seen him for many many years, but your father was the kind of person that is remembered for a lifetime. I was a student of Reeths Puffer High School, graduated with class of 1961, and I remember your father as being the best math teacher I ever had. He also cared enough about his students to come to our class reunion for a visit....I always thought that was quite exceptional.
I found your father's age to be a bit of a surprise....now that I am 65, I realize how young he was at the time he was teaching our class. He certainly was the teacher that would never be forgotten. Sincerely, Ellen
Liz Campbell & family
March 26th 2008
We met Mr. Bernadini on one of his visits to VA to see his daugthers and grandchildren. We all met up at a park one day when our mutual kids were playing. Even after the very first sentence I feel like we'd known him all our life. Mr. Bernadini had that charming, outgoing personaility that makes you feel like family even if you weren't. We talked about life as an Italian, his trip to Italy and the kids. And when we moms were busy tending to our kids, he make the most of his time at the park by making conversation and joking around with the older ladies at the park whom he'd just introduced himself to. He was quite a charmer! I know he will be missed by everyone whose life he touched. Our prayers are with the family during this difficult time.
Lynette Hester
March 26th 2008
lynette.hester@cmworks.com
To mirrior a lot of what my sister's said, Kathy and Gina. My memories of course are pretty similar. I feel so fortunate to have spent all that time with my Uncle Angelo in Italy. We had the best time. I especially enjoyned watching him talk to not just our relatives but people he would just meet on the street and strkie up a conversations in Itallian. There was always constant laughter through out his conversations I did not understand what he was talking about but it was fun to watch and listen and hear him laugh and truly enjoying himself. He always enjoyned himslelf from the family get together's and cook outs to drinking coffee with his friends and sisters Mary and Angela every Sunday after church. We will all miss him so much
Kathy Evans
March 26th 2008
kevansrcd@aol.com
Uncle Angelo was one of the happiest people I've ever known.
At his core, his faith and strength were always available to help others.
Growing up, he was the family authority on everything from taking care of business to discipline... and when my sisters and I were playing outside with all of our cousins at Uncle Angelo and Aunt Judy's house, we knew to be on good behavior, or else. I guess I never found out what "or else" was, but I knew it was there. Those were really fun times.
We had such a good time on our trip to Italy with Uncle Angelo, Aunt Angela, Uncle Dave, Annette, Gina, Lynette and my mom. We used walkie talkies to talk to each other while driving around in two cars in the small mountain villages in Lucca. We had lots of laughs using the walkie talkies, and it was really great to meet our relatives in Italy for the first time. Upon arriving at one cousin's house, Uncle Angelo immediately started up a conversation (in Italian) with a cousin who was about his age. The two were like old paisonos. They began laughing and talking (loudly) to each other as if they had known each other their entire lives. That was cool.
One thing Uncle Angelo and I had in common was Bob Evans (yes, the restaurant). One day years ago, I had a craving for polenta. So, I ordered corn meal mush (but asked for it grilled, not deep fried, and with melted cheese and some spaghetti sauce with a side of grilled vegetables). The waitress said, "somebody else orders that too!" I immediately knew who that was! I said "that's my Uncle Angelo." Uncle Angelo and I had a good laugh over the fact that we both "special-ordered" Nona's polenta at Bob Evans, not knowing the other had.
I'm glad I have the memories of Uncle Angelo to share with my family and friends. I'll miss running into Uncle Angelo here and there around Muskegon and talking to him at backyard picnics, family reunions and holidays. He was a great guy.
Jan and Gary Mast
March 26th 2008
mastmuskegon@aol.com
We are in Florida and will not be able to attend services for Berni. We were honored to be a colleague, fellow Our Lady of Grace members, parents of three of his former students and friend. He was truly a great man. His spirit lives on and always will. Times he laughed, gave advice,or just listened echo in those memories ofthe lives he touched. In being so remembered his legacy will live on.
Earl and Janet Langler
March 26th 2008
jlangler@triton.net
We met Mr. Berandini at parent teachers conference in the late 70's when our daughter had him for a teacher. He gave me the grade book and said he sure didn't know what to do with her! And when I looked at his grade book she had straight A's. I was offended! what else did he want from this student? I asked him that very question and how he laughed! Wendy met one of you girls at MCC and became friends. And years later as we'd meet on the bus to Little River or in the store he'd still laugh at my 'attitude about my child!' We shall miss Angelo's big hearty laugh and his sparkin' eyes when we'd ask how he did at Little River. Our sympathy to all of you. Earl and Janet Langler
Gina Faino
March 26th 2008
ginafaino@comcast.net
I will always feel so fortunate that my sisters and I were able to experience Italy with my Uncle Angelo. He was such an interseting man to talk to and his big smile and booming laugh always put a smile on my face. My family and I will miss him so much during the Holidays because he was always there and that was just a given. He was such a vibrant presence on earth that I'm sure his spirit must have absolutely soared to heaven. I see him there now singing his funny Italian songs, his big arms wrapped around his parents Amelia and Pasquale. I take alot of comfort in knowing that he was very proud of his five children, that he lived his life to it's fullest but he wasn't afraid to pass on and that he really loved us all.
All loving memories,
Gina Faino
Janet Sutherland
March 26th 2008
Mr. Bernardini was the class advisor for R-P's Class of 1959. I was new to the school in the fall of 1957 and in homeroom he passed out the school handbook. When we all had ours, he slapped his copy on his desk and said "This will be your bible here at school." It was impressive! He was a beloved and revered class advisor and attended many of our gatherings since graduation.
In 1964 I finished college and was hired by Reeths-Puffer High School. It was great to be home again and among the friendly staff as one of them. As a fellow staff member he was always wise, helpful, and direct.
His infectious laughter and firm discipline was a hallmark at the school. Even though he was my colleague at R-P, I could never call him by his first name or nickname. The closest I got was calling him Mr. B. He always laughed at that, but there was no way I could do otherwise.
Earth lost a great person and heaven gained a forthright angel.
He shall be missed by all who knew him.
Reg and Judy Kurtz
March 26th 2008
kurtzju@co.muskegon.mi.us
Reg and I graduated in 1961 and 1962. We still have great admiration for your father. He was a great mentor and friend. You must be so pround of him. He will be greatly missed. Judy "Bordner" Kurtz
Richard F. Lynch
March 26th 2008
Bernie,
It was my great priviledge to work with you from
1965, when I came to Reeths Puffer as principal,
until I retired. You were one of the best, of a fine
group of teachers and I have appreicated our friendship
up until your passing.
Mine and my wife's condolences to your family.
You will be greatly missed.
Richard & Rosilind Lynch
Orlando, FL
Dick Hester
March 26th 2008
cdhesters@aol.com
Angelo was uncle to my three daughters, Kathy, Gina and Lynette, and while he wasn't my uncle, I always referred to him as "Uncle Angelo." It was a title that fit him well...a sort of term of endearment. I will miss our conversations, our e-mails, the unmistakable sound of his laugh, and the many lessons he gave me in Italian. "Resto nel Cielo, Uncle Angelo."
Dick Hester
March 26th 2008
cdhesters@aol.com
Angelo was uncle to my three daughters, Kathy, Gina and Lynette, and while he wasn't my uncle, I always referred to him as "Uncle Angelo." It was a title that fit him well...like a term of endearment. I will miss our conversations, the unmistakable sound of his laugh, his e-mails, and the lessons he gave me in Italian. "Resto nel Cielo, Uncle Angelo."
Gabrielle & Connie Seifert
March 26th 2008
seifertgabby@aol.com
Dear Bernardini Family. I met your Father a few years ago at US 31 Barbecue. I was with my Mother, both your Dad and my Mom grew up on Jackson Hill and your Dad said that he bowled with my Grandpa Conrad Anderson. What a nice man your Dad was. My Grandma Ella Seifert was Best friends with your Grandma Duff. Your Dad is now bowling forever with my Grandpa Anderson and hopefully they're getting alot of strikes. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Melissa (Schutter) Anderson
March 26th 2008
spengav@hotmail.com
I have had the wonderful gift of of knowing Mr. Bernardidni and his family my whole life. The Bernardini family was a great part of my life not only as neighbors but as close friends. I will always remember the times growing up and being outside and hearing him humming in the yard. I spent alot of time growing up over at his house across the street, with his youngest daughter Annette. After my parents divorced at a young age Annette was my primary care giver when my mom was not home. Mr. Bernardini was always willing to give a helping hand when needed. As I grew older I remember having problems with math, so I would often ask him for help and he was always willing to sit down with me. He was a wonderful man and he will be geatly missed by so many. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire family.
Don Helmus
March 25th 2008
drhelmus@comcast.net
I taught in the room next to Bernie's for 25 years. He was a happy-go-lucky guy, but a tough teacher. He had a good time with his students, but didn't hesitate to get after anyone who didn't do his homework or had the temerity to mess around in his class (My wife can attest to this as Bernie taught her both geometry and algebra/trig). I didn't know what I was hearing the first time I heard that booming voice getting after some naughty kid. I loved to hear his humming, and every couple of days he would break out into "O, solo mio" with the gusto of an Italian opera star. I'm so glad that he finally made it to Italy. He will be sorely missed.
Cinn (Cindy) Smith
March 25th 2008
cinna@together.net
When I think of Angelo, I thought of this story. He made a difference to many people, as most teachers do. I, too, had him as one of the wonderful teachers in my life. But I saw him make my mom so happy the these last couple of decades and that was good. He will be missed. cinn
The Star Thrower
adapted from The Star Thrower by Loren Eiseley 1907 - 1977
Once upon a time, there was a wise man who used to go to the ocean to do his writing. He had a habit of walking on the beach before he began his work.
One day, as he was walking along the shore, he looked down the beach and saw a human figure moving like a dancer. He smiled to himself at the thought of someone who would dance to the day, and so, he walked faster to catch up.
As he got closer, he noticed that the figure was that of a young man, and that what he was doing was not dancing at all. The young man was reaching down to the shore, picking up small objects, and throwing them into the ocean.
He came closer still and called out "Good morning! May I ask what it is that you are doing?"
The young man paused, looked up, and replied "Throwing starfish into the ocean."
"I must ask, then, why are you throwing starfish into the ocean?" asked the somewhat startled wise man.
To this, the young man replied, "The sun is up and the tide is going out. If I don't throw them in, they'll die."
Upon hearing this, the wise man commented, "But, young man, do you not realize that there are miles and miles of beach and there are starfish all along every mile? You can't possibly make a difference!"
At this, the young man bent down, picked up yet another starfish, and threw it into the ocean. As it met the water, he said,
"It made a difference for that one."
Thanks for the difference you made in all of the lives you touch! cinn
Jim and Jean Alderink
March 25th 2008
alderinks@comcast.net
Dear Mark-
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Your dad's memories will be with you forever! With our deep sympathies,
Jim and Jean Alderink
Susan Scofield Vallie
March 25th 2008
skvallie@Yahoo.com
Dear Family of Mr. Bernadini,
It was my great priviledge to have your Dad as a math instructor almost 40 years ago. He was smart and helpful and generally an all around nice guy. I was saddened to hear of his death. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Susan Vallie
Barbara Moore
March 25th 2008
bmoore38@cox.net
Fortune smiled on me in 1961 when I walked into RPHS. My room was right next door to a teacher named Bernardini. I knew he was a character when I used to watch and listen to him most noon hours as he called his mother, rattling on in Italian and talking with his hands. Bernie (as I came to know him) became my mentor, my hero, my sounding board (and I did sound off), my older "brother," and my friend. We weathered many storms along with a lot of others of the "Old Guard" and finally retired together in 1993. I have been blessed by knowing him and am so happy that we kept our friendship alive through 15 years of retirement. I'll miss him. Arrivederci, Bernie.
Sid Kushner
March 25th 2008
slkushner@aol.com
DAMN YOU ANGIE FOR LEAVING ME LIKE THIS. I WAS`NT DONE PLAYING CARDS WITH YOU YET OR OUR TRIPS TO LITTLE RIVER WERE`NT DONE YET. ONE OF THE GREATEST JOYS OF MY LIFE WAS HAVING THE PLEASURE OF KNOWING YOU.HOPEFULLY WE WILL MEET AGAIN AND HAVE ANOTHER POKER GAME.I WILL LEAVE A DECK OF CARDS WITH YOU BECAUSE YOU KNOW ME I`D PROBABLY FORGET THEM.SAVE A SEAT FOR ME AT THE TABLE O.K. SID
Mark Jastrzembski
March 25th 2008
MadMarkJ@aol.com
I had the great fortune to know "MISTER" Bernardini as a student of his in about four math classes at Reeths Puffer High School, because I sought him out as my math instructor. He was truly a master teacher, knowledgeable in his subject material, effective in his ability to communicate that information and willing to offer his time to those of us that had a difficult time understanding the problem and solution. He taught people how to think.
As a substitute teacher Mr. B often asked for me to fill in and I appreciated his detailed lesson plans.
I frequently ran into Angelo after his retirement and found him to be engaging and fun to be around. I'm going to miss his great laugh and gentle humor.
Greg Marczak
March 25th 2008
greg.marczak@muskegoncc.edu
Given all the people you meet in life, a few always stand out. Angelo, (Mr. Bernadini) was a great teacher and as I reminisce, a very good man. 20 years after high school, I had the opportunity to talk to him on several occassions and found that Angelo and I shared my common ideas about teaching. Most of these included integrity and respect for the student, as well as a realization, that great work comes from great effort. I feel very fortunate to have known Angelo.
Molly Drost Hayes
March 25th 2008
mollyjo49@hotmail.com
Dear Bernardini Family,
I have such fond memories of your parents. I saw your Dad many times in the last few years. He always had a big hug and a smile for me.He would always tell me about the "kids" and where you all lived and what accomplishments you all had made. He was so proud of all of you!!! He was a great guy!! He will be missed by all that knew him!! My prayers are with all of you during this time of great saddness. Cherish the memories and just think Judy and Angelo together again. What a reunion!!!
Marlene Kinnell (Nuyens)
April 20th 2008
kinnellm@comcast.net
My deepest sympathy to in the passing of your dad. I remember Chris and I playing kick the can at your place on so many summer nights. I never remember your dad being grumpy and he never yelled at us even when he probably should have.
Peace to All,
Marlene Kinnell
Bill Taylor
April 10th 2008
bt4_1284@yahoo.com
23 March 2008
Remembrance of Angelo
Although I only saw him a few times, my cousin Angelo was an important member of my family. I think it’s because of the lack of a strong father in my nuclear family, I saw in Angelo the Dad I wished I had.
I remember in the 60’s when Angelo, Judy. Mark, and two little girls came out to visit us in Long Island. Mark and the girls were “little kids” of not much interest to me. Angelo was a man though, a nice man, a warm man, a happy man, a man who played with his kids and somehow I felt that he appreciated me. We all went to the beach once, I had learned to body surf, and I was telling Angelo about it, he was trying it and maybe Mark was, too. Angelo would jump in a wave but not ahead of it enough, and wave would wash over him and he thought he body surfed. I remember standing on the front porch of 65 Carstairs Rd, he had done it and was telling me how much he enjoyed it but I could tell he hadn’t done it right. It’s funny the things you remember.
A few years later I had to register for the draft. Vietnam was on; I took the draft registration very seriously, it was one of the first things I did as an “adult male” and we had to state the name and address of a person other than our parents who would always know where we were. I picked Angelo. I suppose Angelo may have been confused why I would do that if indeed he ever heard about it.
Many years later I was so privileged to visit Angelo in Muskegon. Mark came up, and he and Angelo were so kind to me. Angelo took me around, introduced me to the “sights” in Muskegon (are you laughing now?). I remember well a nice long walk on the pier by Muskegon Bay (?) which was the highlight of my trip there. I can’t tell you exactly why it was the highlight, it was very important to me to meet this good man again in his own environment up there in Muskegon, Michigan, the place I had been to once as a boy and had heard about again and again over the years.
It’s funny the things that are important to you.
Angelo was a good man. Emily and I prayed together that he may rest in peace; that his family may find peace in their remembrance of the many wonderful years they enjoyed of him. I had only a few fleeting glimpses of this wonderful man. I’ll miss him.
Bill Taylor
San Francisco, CA
April 8th 2008
PSElsie@msn.com
Meet Angelo in a previos site we used to play crib in. Had many converstaions about our families and trips he took with his family to Italy. He was an excellent player and we enjoyed trying to beat one another in the game. He will be sorely missed by his "crib" family.
Harrysmate, (Elsie)
Lynn Nolan
April 2nd 2008
IJSTWANT2HAVFUN@aol.com
IT was a Pleasure to Play Angelo in a Game of Cribbage online! We played many of games On World Play! He always talked about his family and the Trips and Share ALOT of Pictures with me! He will be sadly Missed! HE was a True Kind Person! God Bless & I know he is watching over us from Heaven Now!! Hugs Angelo
Karen Fowler
April 1st 2008
mafowler1@comcast.net
Beginning in the1960's and to continue until 1988 Mr. Bernardini was to instruct many of the Fowler Clan from Twin Lake to include two of our children. He never neglected to ask how the "kids" were doing whenever he saw us around town. He would occasionally email me to ask about our kids and wanted to see pictures. So glad I had the opportunity to know him all these years and he will be missed by many.
Howard and Carolyn Bredin
March 28th 2008
bredincj@verizon.net
It was my privilage to teach with "Bernie" for my 32 years at "Puffer". He was truly a great teacher and person. We had many laughs and discussions around the lunch table and many other places. He left a mark for his students and all of us to follow. He will be sorely missed by everyone who had a contact with him.
Sorry this is late - we are in Florida and just learned how to send our message.
Denise McIntire
March 28th 2008
dmcintire@hrblock.com
I have vivd memories of Angelo always calling me kid in the office. I worked with him at H&R Block for 7 years before moving on in the company. Ang was the one person in my life that persuaded me to attend college, I shared with him that no one else in my family had ever gone to college. He said, you can be the first, so I did (little did he know at the time that he would be tutoring me in math). For one whole summer when I was taking all of the math classes I needed for my degree, Angelo tutuored me to good grades. There were many times when I wished he would just give me the answer, I'm sure he wished he would have to because as soon as I finished my work we would play cribbage. But he was very patient and taught me what I needed to know before he whipped the pants off me in cribbage. I will truly miss his guidance and friendship.
SuzAnne Maple
March 27th 2008
suzmap@yahoo.com
I am sorry to hear of the passing of Mr. Bernardini.
Algebra I 196I-RPHS-Grade 9, although I recognized early in the year that was not "into" math I still recall his smile and boomimg cheerful voice. He is part of my memories of RP. He is a landmark and it is hard to imagine that the world goes on without his presence.
Norm Charland
March 27th 2008
phitter@comcast.net
So sorry to learn of Angelo's passing. He was one of my teachers in high school and again at MCC. I always admired his intellect, good nature and can do attitude. From time to time I would receive an email from him. My favorite one contained a link to the photos of his first trip to Italy. Some time after that my wife, Lita, and I ran into Angelo while walking along the Muskegon Channel. He took the time to tell us of his trip and how much he enjoyed the land and spending time with his family. He was a unique man and I will miss his perspective on things we talked about over the years. God bless him.
matt shewey schutter
March 27th 2008
shewdogs@yahoo.com
mr bernardini was a wonderful person that i known my whole life. when i was a growing up i was alays friends with his kids especially his daugther annette and when i got older and the kids came home to visit him,his son mark would take me golfing all of time.he did my taxes for past 3 years and he would help me if i was in trouble with things and i would help him out too,he was like a second dad to me when my parents got divcrocehe will be greatful miss by me.my paryers go to his kids and grandchilden
Donna Scott
March 27th 2008
budonna@verizon.net
To the family of Angelo,
Angelo did our taxes for years. I am the secretary at First Baptist and coordinate our T.V. Ministry. Angelo used to remind me that my T.V. coordinator job cost me money. He would smile at me and say "I know! If you didn't do it no one would" Your father, grandfather shared so many memories of his family and trips. Two years in a row we looked at the pictures of his trip to Italy. He had a great sense of humor and was a man of integrity. I know you will miss him as we all will. My prayers to the family.
Donna Scott
Ken Larson
March 27th 2008
kenlarson42@hotmail.com
My condolences to family and friends are rooted in the hope of the Resurrection through faith in Jesus Christ, whose Resurrection we celebrated on the Sunday Angelo left this life for the Life to come. One indelible memory among many is this. The Fall of 1957 found a couple dozen of us sitting in Mr. B’s Plain Geometry class, hearing his stern recitation of the theorems we HAD to MEMORIZE. “Two parallel lines do not meet…” etc. In the following weeks, we bisected lines. We bisected angles, lots of ‘em, even obtuse ones. Then Mr. B gave us a homework assignment I’ve never forgotten. It was a challenge: Go home tonight and see if you can find some way of TRI-secting an angle, using only a compass and a straight edge. I tried and tried. There MUST be a way. The next day this master teacher of teachers taught a life-long lesson. After calling a few students to the board to demonstrate what could only be described as their failure to trisect an angle. Mr. B. smiled. He said, long ago it was proven that it is impossible to trisect an angle using only a compass and a straight edge (Euclid himself maybe ?). Not fair! we said. Not fair giving us an assignment to do something that cannot be done! Then came the life-long lesson. It’s good that you learn early on that there are some problems that cannot be solved, he explained, but you are here to learn to solve problems that do have solutions. How very often in the last 50 years that most valuable lesson has proven true in my life, and, I am sure, in the lives of other students touched by Mr. Bernardini’s lessons. The eulogies we offer are but thanksgivings to the Lord who put him into our lives. –Rev. Ken Larson, class of 1960. S.D.G.
Laurel Dawson
March 27th 2008
dawsonl@monashores.net
I was a friend of Angelo. I knew him from Reeths Puffer through my ex husband, Dan Cihak. Angelo was a friend and a mentor. He had done my taxes for many years and gave friendly advice. I will always appreciate that and have fond memories. He was a nice, kind man.
Karen Briggs Kirkland
March 27th 2008
nwdsgranny1942@yahoo.com
MISTER B was my home room teacher his first year at RP.
And he must of been made of pretty "tuff stuff" to be fresh out of college, and put up with all that we threw his way.
Some days, he would simply turn away from the class, take a few deep breaths, shrug his shoulders, and begin again.
Perhaps , we were his trial by fire!
Our class and the class of 59 hold a joint reunion each August, and it was always a high note of the afternoon to recall those days at school with him. By the way, Mr. B
I never did learn to do ALGEBRA!
I will truly miss this really "neat" man........
Karen Briggs Kirkland,
RPHS class of "60"
Christy (Critchett) Hester
March 26th 2008
cdhesters@aol.com
Back in the early 1980's I had Mr. Bernardini as my math teacher. I remember the kindness he showed me when I lost my grandmother and the goodness that was simply him. As an adult, I enjoyed seeing him at church, hearing his infectious laugh, running into him at breakfast, and receiving his silly emails at home. I always appreciated the interest he showed in my children. He will be missed.
Christy Hester
Julie Fowler Orwig
March 26th 2008
julieorwig@hotmail.com
Of all of the teachers I have had over the years, none could compare to Mr. Bernardini! His zest for life, enthusiasm for math, and devotion to friends and family were such an inspiration to all of his students. When I left high school, I would never see him again although I thought about him many times. He seemed to take an interest in each student and as my brothers and sister, nieces and nephews also became his students, he would ask about each of us. It was truly a privilege to have been in his classroom for 4 years and to have such fond memories to take away. To his wonderful family, I send my sincere condolences. Julie Fowler Orwig
Janice Dunmore
March 26th 2008
dunmoremi@aol.com
It was my priviledge to have worked with Angelo at H & R Block. He was always very special to me and will truly be missed. My prayer and thoughts are with all of you. Janice and Dave Dunmore
Ellen (Erickson) Sugarbaker
March 26th 2008
ESugar2@msn.com
To the family of "Mr. Bernardini,
I would like to send my condolences on the passing of your father. I have not seen him for many many years, but your father was the kind of person that is remembered for a lifetime. I was a student of Reeths Puffer High School, graduated with class of 1961, and I remember your father as being the best math teacher I ever had. He also cared enough about his students to come to our class reunion for a visit....I always thought that was quite exceptional.
I found your father's age to be a bit of a surprise....now that I am 65, I realize how young he was at the time he was teaching our class. He certainly was the teacher that would never be forgotten. Sincerely, Ellen
Liz Campbell & family
March 26th 2008
We met Mr. Bernadini on one of his visits to VA to see his daugthers and grandchildren. We all met up at a park one day when our mutual kids were playing. Even after the very first sentence I feel like we'd known him all our life. Mr. Bernadini had that charming, outgoing personaility that makes you feel like family even if you weren't. We talked about life as an Italian, his trip to Italy and the kids. And when we moms were busy tending to our kids, he make the most of his time at the park by making conversation and joking around with the older ladies at the park whom he'd just introduced himself to. He was quite a charmer! I know he will be missed by everyone whose life he touched. Our prayers are with the family during this difficult time.
Lynette Hester
March 26th 2008
lynette.hester@cmworks.com
To mirrior a lot of what my sister's said, Kathy and Gina. My memories of course are pretty similar. I feel so fortunate to have spent all that time with my Uncle Angelo in Italy. We had the best time. I especially enjoyned watching him talk to not just our relatives but people he would just meet on the street and strkie up a conversations in Itallian. There was always constant laughter through out his conversations I did not understand what he was talking about but it was fun to watch and listen and hear him laugh and truly enjoying himself. He always enjoyned himslelf from the family get together's and cook outs to drinking coffee with his friends and sisters Mary and Angela every Sunday after church. We will all miss him so much
Kathy Evans
March 26th 2008
kevansrcd@aol.com
Uncle Angelo was one of the happiest people I've ever known.
At his core, his faith and strength were always available to help others.
Growing up, he was the family authority on everything from taking care of business to discipline... and when my sisters and I were playing outside with all of our cousins at Uncle Angelo and Aunt Judy's house, we knew to be on good behavior, or else. I guess I never found out what "or else" was, but I knew it was there. Those were really fun times.
We had such a good time on our trip to Italy with Uncle Angelo, Aunt Angela, Uncle Dave, Annette, Gina, Lynette and my mom. We used walkie talkies to talk to each other while driving around in two cars in the small mountain villages in Lucca. We had lots of laughs using the walkie talkies, and it was really great to meet our relatives in Italy for the first time. Upon arriving at one cousin's house, Uncle Angelo immediately started up a conversation (in Italian) with a cousin who was about his age. The two were like old paisonos. They began laughing and talking (loudly) to each other as if they had known each other their entire lives. That was cool.
One thing Uncle Angelo and I had in common was Bob Evans (yes, the restaurant). One day years ago, I had a craving for polenta. So, I ordered corn meal mush (but asked for it grilled, not deep fried, and with melted cheese and some spaghetti sauce with a side of grilled vegetables). The waitress said, "somebody else orders that too!" I immediately knew who that was! I said "that's my Uncle Angelo." Uncle Angelo and I had a good laugh over the fact that we both "special-ordered" Nona's polenta at Bob Evans, not knowing the other had.
I'm glad I have the memories of Uncle Angelo to share with my family and friends. I'll miss running into Uncle Angelo here and there around Muskegon and talking to him at backyard picnics, family reunions and holidays. He was a great guy.
Jan and Gary Mast
March 26th 2008
mastmuskegon@aol.com
We are in Florida and will not be able to attend services for Berni. We were honored to be a colleague, fellow Our Lady of Grace members, parents of three of his former students and friend. He was truly a great man. His spirit lives on and always will. Times he laughed, gave advice,or just listened echo in those memories ofthe lives he touched. In being so remembered his legacy will live on.
Earl and Janet Langler
March 26th 2008
jlangler@triton.net
We met Mr. Berandini at parent teachers conference in the late 70's when our daughter had him for a teacher. He gave me the grade book and said he sure didn't know what to do with her! And when I looked at his grade book she had straight A's. I was offended! what else did he want from this student? I asked him that very question and how he laughed! Wendy met one of you girls at MCC and became friends. And years later as we'd meet on the bus to Little River or in the store he'd still laugh at my 'attitude about my child!' We shall miss Angelo's big hearty laugh and his sparkin' eyes when we'd ask how he did at Little River. Our sympathy to all of you. Earl and Janet Langler
Gina Faino
March 26th 2008
ginafaino@comcast.net
I will always feel so fortunate that my sisters and I were able to experience Italy with my Uncle Angelo. He was such an interseting man to talk to and his big smile and booming laugh always put a smile on my face. My family and I will miss him so much during the Holidays because he was always there and that was just a given. He was such a vibrant presence on earth that I'm sure his spirit must have absolutely soared to heaven. I see him there now singing his funny Italian songs, his big arms wrapped around his parents Amelia and Pasquale. I take alot of comfort in knowing that he was very proud of his five children, that he lived his life to it's fullest but he wasn't afraid to pass on and that he really loved us all.
All loving memories,
Gina Faino
Janet Sutherland
March 26th 2008
Mr. Bernardini was the class advisor for R-P's Class of 1959. I was new to the school in the fall of 1957 and in homeroom he passed out the school handbook. When we all had ours, he slapped his copy on his desk and said "This will be your bible here at school." It was impressive! He was a beloved and revered class advisor and attended many of our gatherings since graduation.
In 1964 I finished college and was hired by Reeths-Puffer High School. It was great to be home again and among the friendly staff as one of them. As a fellow staff member he was always wise, helpful, and direct.
His infectious laughter and firm discipline was a hallmark at the school. Even though he was my colleague at R-P, I could never call him by his first name or nickname. The closest I got was calling him Mr. B. He always laughed at that, but there was no way I could do otherwise.
Earth lost a great person and heaven gained a forthright angel.
He shall be missed by all who knew him.
Reg and Judy Kurtz
March 26th 2008
kurtzju@co.muskegon.mi.us
Reg and I graduated in 1961 and 1962. We still have great admiration for your father. He was a great mentor and friend. You must be so pround of him. He will be greatly missed. Judy "Bordner" Kurtz
Richard F. Lynch
March 26th 2008
Bernie,
It was my great priviledge to work with you from
1965, when I came to Reeths Puffer as principal,
until I retired. You were one of the best, of a fine
group of teachers and I have appreicated our friendship
up until your passing.
Mine and my wife's condolences to your family.
You will be greatly missed.
Richard & Rosilind Lynch
Orlando, FL
Dick Hester
March 26th 2008
cdhesters@aol.com
Angelo was uncle to my three daughters, Kathy, Gina and Lynette, and while he wasn't my uncle, I always referred to him as "Uncle Angelo." It was a title that fit him well...a sort of term of endearment. I will miss our conversations, our e-mails, the unmistakable sound of his laugh, and the many lessons he gave me in Italian. "Resto nel Cielo, Uncle Angelo."
Dick Hester
March 26th 2008
cdhesters@aol.com
Angelo was uncle to my three daughters, Kathy, Gina and Lynette, and while he wasn't my uncle, I always referred to him as "Uncle Angelo." It was a title that fit him well...like a term of endearment. I will miss our conversations, the unmistakable sound of his laugh, his e-mails, and the lessons he gave me in Italian. "Resto nel Cielo, Uncle Angelo."
Gabrielle & Connie Seifert
March 26th 2008
seifertgabby@aol.com
Dear Bernardini Family. I met your Father a few years ago at US 31 Barbecue. I was with my Mother, both your Dad and my Mom grew up on Jackson Hill and your Dad said that he bowled with my Grandpa Conrad Anderson. What a nice man your Dad was. My Grandma Ella Seifert was Best friends with your Grandma Duff. Your Dad is now bowling forever with my Grandpa Anderson and hopefully they're getting alot of strikes. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Melissa (Schutter) Anderson
March 26th 2008
spengav@hotmail.com
I have had the wonderful gift of of knowing Mr. Bernardidni and his family my whole life. The Bernardini family was a great part of my life not only as neighbors but as close friends. I will always remember the times growing up and being outside and hearing him humming in the yard. I spent alot of time growing up over at his house across the street, with his youngest daughter Annette. After my parents divorced at a young age Annette was my primary care giver when my mom was not home. Mr. Bernardini was always willing to give a helping hand when needed. As I grew older I remember having problems with math, so I would often ask him for help and he was always willing to sit down with me. He was a wonderful man and he will be geatly missed by so many. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire family.
Don Helmus
March 25th 2008
drhelmus@comcast.net
I taught in the room next to Bernie's for 25 years. He was a happy-go-lucky guy, but a tough teacher. He had a good time with his students, but didn't hesitate to get after anyone who didn't do his homework or had the temerity to mess around in his class (My wife can attest to this as Bernie taught her both geometry and algebra/trig). I didn't know what I was hearing the first time I heard that booming voice getting after some naughty kid. I loved to hear his humming, and every couple of days he would break out into "O, solo mio" with the gusto of an Italian opera star. I'm so glad that he finally made it to Italy. He will be sorely missed.
Cinn (Cindy) Smith
March 25th 2008
cinna@together.net
When I think of Angelo, I thought of this story. He made a difference to many people, as most teachers do. I, too, had him as one of the wonderful teachers in my life. But I saw him make my mom so happy the these last couple of decades and that was good. He will be missed. cinn
The Star Thrower
adapted from The Star Thrower by Loren Eiseley 1907 - 1977
Once upon a time, there was a wise man who used to go to the ocean to do his writing. He had a habit of walking on the beach before he began his work.
One day, as he was walking along the shore, he looked down the beach and saw a human figure moving like a dancer. He smiled to himself at the thought of someone who would dance to the day, and so, he walked faster to catch up.
As he got closer, he noticed that the figure was that of a young man, and that what he was doing was not dancing at all. The young man was reaching down to the shore, picking up small objects, and throwing them into the ocean.
He came closer still and called out "Good morning! May I ask what it is that you are doing?"
The young man paused, looked up, and replied "Throwing starfish into the ocean."
"I must ask, then, why are you throwing starfish into the ocean?" asked the somewhat startled wise man.
To this, the young man replied, "The sun is up and the tide is going out. If I don't throw them in, they'll die."
Upon hearing this, the wise man commented, "But, young man, do you not realize that there are miles and miles of beach and there are starfish all along every mile? You can't possibly make a difference!"
At this, the young man bent down, picked up yet another starfish, and threw it into the ocean. As it met the water, he said,
"It made a difference for that one."
Thanks for the difference you made in all of the lives you touch! cinn
Jim and Jean Alderink
March 25th 2008
alderinks@comcast.net
Dear Mark-
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Your dad's memories will be with you forever! With our deep sympathies,
Jim and Jean Alderink
Susan Scofield Vallie
March 25th 2008
skvallie@Yahoo.com
Dear Family of Mr. Bernadini,
It was my great priviledge to have your Dad as a math instructor almost 40 years ago. He was smart and helpful and generally an all around nice guy. I was saddened to hear of his death. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Susan Vallie
Barbara Moore
March 25th 2008
bmoore38@cox.net
Fortune smiled on me in 1961 when I walked into RPHS. My room was right next door to a teacher named Bernardini. I knew he was a character when I used to watch and listen to him most noon hours as he called his mother, rattling on in Italian and talking with his hands. Bernie (as I came to know him) became my mentor, my hero, my sounding board (and I did sound off), my older "brother," and my friend. We weathered many storms along with a lot of others of the "Old Guard" and finally retired together in 1993. I have been blessed by knowing him and am so happy that we kept our friendship alive through 15 years of retirement. I'll miss him. Arrivederci, Bernie.
Sid Kushner
March 25th 2008
slkushner@aol.com
DAMN YOU ANGIE FOR LEAVING ME LIKE THIS. I WAS`NT DONE PLAYING CARDS WITH YOU YET OR OUR TRIPS TO LITTLE RIVER WERE`NT DONE YET. ONE OF THE GREATEST JOYS OF MY LIFE WAS HAVING THE PLEASURE OF KNOWING YOU.HOPEFULLY WE WILL MEET AGAIN AND HAVE ANOTHER POKER GAME.I WILL LEAVE A DECK OF CARDS WITH YOU BECAUSE YOU KNOW ME I`D PROBABLY FORGET THEM.SAVE A SEAT FOR ME AT THE TABLE O.K. SID
Mark Jastrzembski
March 25th 2008
MadMarkJ@aol.com
I had the great fortune to know "MISTER" Bernardini as a student of his in about four math classes at Reeths Puffer High School, because I sought him out as my math instructor. He was truly a master teacher, knowledgeable in his subject material, effective in his ability to communicate that information and willing to offer his time to those of us that had a difficult time understanding the problem and solution. He taught people how to think.
As a substitute teacher Mr. B often asked for me to fill in and I appreciated his detailed lesson plans.
I frequently ran into Angelo after his retirement and found him to be engaging and fun to be around. I'm going to miss his great laugh and gentle humor.
Greg Marczak
March 25th 2008
greg.marczak@muskegoncc.edu
Given all the people you meet in life, a few always stand out. Angelo, (Mr. Bernadini) was a great teacher and as I reminisce, a very good man. 20 years after high school, I had the opportunity to talk to him on several occassions and found that Angelo and I shared my common ideas about teaching. Most of these included integrity and respect for the student, as well as a realization, that great work comes from great effort. I feel very fortunate to have known Angelo.
Molly Drost Hayes
March 25th 2008
mollyjo49@hotmail.com
Dear Bernardini Family,
I have such fond memories of your parents. I saw your Dad many times in the last few years. He always had a big hug and a smile for me.He would always tell me about the "kids" and where you all lived and what accomplishments you all had made. He was so proud of all of you!!! He was a great guy!! He will be missed by all that knew him!! My prayers are with all of you during this time of great saddness. Cherish the memories and just think Judy and Angelo together again. What a reunion!!!
