Robert W. Smith
Mar 6th 1989 - Feb 1st 2008
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Lisa Kulesza
March 9th 2009
razzzie29@comcast.net
Robbie...
I was there as you were taking your first steps, learning to drink from a cup and wanting to be a "big boy". As your babysitter, many many years ago, I got to share the moments that usually only parents see. I am glad to have shared those with you!! You made my Saturday nights, with your happy, smiling face!
r3n
May 21st 2008
danazc@yahoo.com
"R" we will miss you like crazy buddy. I am so sad to have found this out just recently. As Vysion stated below you were a great friend/teammate that we never got to meet in person. I always enjoyed talking with you. We will all miss you "R"!
r3n (Dana)
Vysion
May 21st 2008
Vysion@gmail.com
You are our friend that we never got to meet in person. You will be missed.
RIP 'R'
Brandon Breda
February 12th 2008
warthogmaster@gmail.com
I met Rob only a couple of weeks into our first semester at Michigan Tech. It really wasn't until our hall went paintballing that I got to know him better. Over the weeks we became better friends. He would play Halo 3 with me and others in the hall, known as 'R'. He taught me a lot about computers and other similar tech. However, what I know him most for is just how much time we spent doing stuff together. When one of us wanted subway or some kind of food, both of us would usually go. And when Rob wasn't being lazy that day, we would be my workout partner. We also Argued and debated about one thing or another, just for the fun of it.
He taught me so much about many different things, and in the few months I have known him, he has made a huge impact on my life. I will never forget the fun loving, carefree, and (for the most part) wise person.
May you rest in peace Rob.
Dan Dalquist
February 9th 2008
ddalquist@gmail.com
I had the opportunity to ski with Robert in December. He was participating in the Mont Ripley Ski Patrol "Ski Along" event - an event where we verify incoming patrollers have the skiing skills necessary to be a Patroller. I recall watching Robert ski and thinking "this guy is having fun and will do well.".
Robert - we miss the opportunity to know you. Go with God and enjoy skiing!
February 8th 2008
My first encounter with Robert was in high school. I remember asking him in math class one day why he kept tags on the sleev of a green jacket that he always seemed to wear. He told me that they were ski tags from all the times he had gone skiing. Being clueless, having never skied before, he enthusiastically explained some of his adventures involving skiing and his passion of the slopes.
Eventually, I came to realize that we both shared an interest in computer technology and discussing politics. We would go on discussing and debating various topics of interest for days throughout classes, breaks, and over lunch.
Having conversations with him was always fun. Those halcyon days will be missed.
-V
Fred Garnish
February 8th 2008
derfrocks@hotmail.com
I met Robbie soon after I met his dad Jeff. He was always a good kid with a definite sense of humor but what I'll remember most is what I learned from him. Yes, it relates to skiing. I had the priviledge of having skiied with him on several occasions at Crystal Mountain. His technique impressed me so much that I studied what he was doing and did my best to imitate. I believe his unintended lessons improved my technique significantly. I will remember him whenever I'm on the hill. Thanks Robbie.
Dorothy J. Ledin--Grandma Dotty
February 8th 2008
Remembering Rob
I loved being Rob's grandmother. Rob would visit us for a week each summer from the time he was little. Time spent with Rob was always quality time.
As Rob grew older, time spent with his Grandpa Bob took priority. They spent much time in Grandpa Bob's black Chevrolet pick-up with a chainsaw on the floor on the rider's side and a box of fresh blueberries between them--munching as they rode. They would ride in to Iron River, Wisconsin to pick up the mail.
Grandpa Bob also had a small Caterpillar tractor, an Oliver OC3. Much time was spent attending to the mechanical needs of the the tractor. Rob became adept at helping his grandfather load the tractor onto a trailer.
Rob was never much of a cookie eater but he dearly loved thin buttermilk pancakes, home-made sourdough dininer rolls and popovers. As he grew older his taste for apple pie, Swedish Nut Cake, cream cheese pound cake and carrot cake became apparent.
Conversations with Rob were challenging and stimulating. I remember one time when he was perhaps 7 years old, I was relating a story and he asked for the point of my conversation. I realized then that I was required to be factual in our verbal interchanges.
Following the death of his grandfather, Rob continued to come for his summer visits. We continued to have interesting conversations--sometimes quite spirited.
I recall being concerned about his spiritual condition so I asked him one day if he had ever invited Christ into his life. His answer was to the affirmative with additions I hadn't expected. How thankful I was. Rob was way ahead of me.
Last spring I attended Rob's graduation and also his graduation open house. We went to the Symphony with Dave and Carolyn, and attended Scott and Amy Buege's wedding where Rob was a member of the wedding party. We knew then that he was going to attend Michigan Technical College at Houghton, MI. He was excited about skiing there. That was a favorite sport for Rob.
Rob later told me his next visit would be during spring break. I was elated. I remember in one telephone conversation, I reminded him to be careful when he skiied. His words: "Don't worry , Grandma, I never take chances."
During his last downhill trip, he skiied right into the arms of God, so he'll be spending his Spring Break with his Grandpa Bob.
Am I going to miss him? You know I will but I have the assurance that I will see him again--in Heaven.
Bob and Vikke Longcore
February 7th 2008
longcore_bnv@verizon.net
Hi Robbie, I will always remember you and Chris Mulvey letting my grandson Collin hang out with you guys when you were playing with those remote cars. He thought he was one of the gang. When I told him that you had passed on, that was one of the memories that he had of you. He said I thought he was nice Grandma. Being the next door neighbor both Bob and I watched you grow up into a nice young man. You are going to be greatly missed. Love Bob and Vikke Longcore
Jaimen Vayette
February 7th 2008
I'll never forget the time you gave Robert Bernstein and Joe Brackenrich the Habenero Peppers back in 7th grade and they spit them out then they banned the Hot Peppers from the middle school. (Good times).... I'll never forget the laugh we all had back then either.
From your friend Jaimen Vayette
Brett Avery
February 7th 2008
brettavery@hotmail.com
"And in the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years,"
--Abraham Lincoln
February 7th 2008
I first met Robbie when he was six years old at a ski weekend with Laketon Bethel church. I got to know Carolyn and saw them skiing at Crystal. Years later I got to meet and know Jeff since he had the good sense to fall in love with my best friend Leslie. Through out the years I have spent time with Robbie skiing , boating, and barbequing. Leslie and I picked him up from Michigan Tech one of the summers he went to science camp and all spent a week together at Leslie's parents cabin in Wisconsin. I was so impressed that Robbie didn't mind spending time with us. He laid on the couch and coached me while I was doing sit-ups (he counted and encouraged). We hiked and went canoeing.
I will miss Robbie and will think of him often. My heart goes out to Jeff, Leslie, Carolyn, and Dave.
Love---Mary
TROY FOSTER
February 7th 2008
FOSTERT@MONASHORES.NET
It's hard to even begin to put it in words..."Robert", I remember saying quite often "are you on task"? "Of course", he would respond. "I'm already finished with my assignment". Robert would always be a quick learner and always kept me on my toes, trying to challenge him with new things. Robert would take all my classes in Architecture, Drafting, and Computer-Aided Design at Mona Shores. I miss talking to him everyday about computers, his weekend ski trips to Crystal, snow conditions, checking the winter radar on the Internet, comparing ski stories from both being on ski teams in high school, and, of course, his challenging debates. I will always remember Robert passing through my classroom at the end of each school day as he liked using my exit- we could see his beloved 4 x 4 from my classroom window, and how proud he was of that vehicle! I remember having many, many conversations with Carolyn about his future and what we should do next to help prepare him, both of us knowing that he was going to be an exceptional Engineer. May God be with you always with the loss of Robert and somehow remembering that God has him in his grip, probably keeping his skis waxed and edges sharpened. I will cherish our memories and being able to connect with him. I will miss him.
much love and saddness-
Troy Foster
Erwin Gutsell
February 7th 2008
erwingutsell@sbcglobal.net
I remember Rob from the Christmas dinner Leslie had last Christmas and Rob and Jeff were there with Betty and me.
I remember Rob as always friendly and polite. I remember him most from the times when he was at our cabin with his father and Leslie. He always tried to be helpful, though his parents remarked when I reported his attitude that he probably is more helpful away from home. One time at the cabin he helped me repair the leather seat on an antique chair that had given way to his father's weight the year before. Rob and I concluded that now it was "Jeff proof".
We will miss seeing Rob grow into manhood.
Mont Ripley Ski Patrol
February 6th 2008
miolsson@mtu.edu
Mont Ripley Ski Patrol is deeply saddened by Rob's passing. He was about to become one of us. His commitment to skiing and to service were attributes that we admired.
We extend our sincere condolence to Rob's family and friends.
Mont Ripley Ski Patrol is humbly honored to be designated as the recipient of contributions In memory of Robert W. Smith through the Michigan Tech Fund.
Mont Ripley Ski Patrol
Trudy Olsson
Mary Nyman
February 6th 2008
marynyman@yahoo.com
My first memory of Rob was when my brother Dave and Carolyn were married. There he was in that cute tuxedo, looking every bit the proud young man. He was kind of quiet, and in our large family one had to be a little more assertive in order to be heard. Trust me, Rob was heard. He had a quiet way about him. He held back, not one to push his way into a conversation. Thus I was a little taken aback when I asked Rob at his graduation party what his plans were for his future. He had it all laid out! He knew how he was going to approach his first interview. This after just graduation from High School. I have no doubt that he has organized Heaven in much the same way. My love to Dave and Carolyn.
Cathy Smith
February 6th 2008
donnaronsmi@aol.com
Robbie was my nephew.I remember being excited when Robbie,Kayo,and Jeff were comming to visit.Robbie and my nephew Scott loved feeding the ducks in Brown Deer park.I miss those times.I wish you were still with us on the earth but know I will see you in heaven again one day.
Pam Howard
February 6th 2008
palstar1@aol.com
Rob was one of my son Chad's best friends. He was like another son to us. He was often at our house. I think he enjoyed the chaos and activity here. With three children of our own and all their friends, there was rarely a quiet moment. Rob went on many of our family vacations; Silver Lake, Crystal Mountain, Boyne Mountain. He also shared in many family traditions; going to the pumpkin patch, new years eve celebrations, tubing at Double JJ, and many summer days at lake Michigan; sea-doing, swimming, and playing volleyball. We feel so blessed to have shared so much fun and laughter and special memories together.
Chad and Rob were known for their intellectual conversations, often arguing for hours over who was right or the best way to fix or do something. Neither willing to back down if they thought they were right. We compared them to the “Grumpy Old Men” from the movie.
Chad and Rob were always there for each other and always had each others back; especially if it were to team up against Chad’s younger brother; Eric, or their friend; Eathen; or to outwit their parents.
We really enjoyed family game night. Chad and Rob’s favorite game was Catch-A-Phrase. When the two of them teamed up, no one could beat them. They enjoyed making the rest of us look a little less intelligent.
We loved Rob, We will miss him, and he will forever be in our hearts.
The Howard’s (Chris, Pam, Andrea, Chad, and Eric)
Kelly Greeby (Agard)
February 6th 2008
Keruk@aol.com
I knew Rob as Robbie. My family and Rob's were neighbors and I used to babysit him. Along with being precocious, Robbie was gentle, kind and happy. He was a pleasure to know - even when he was challenging! I remember walking around the block with him when he was maybe 3 years old and seeing some cracks in the road. Robbie quickly explained to me that those cracks came from expansion and contraction of the concrete when it was hot and cold. What a pleasure he was to babysit. I haven't spoken with him in several years, but it sounds as though he matured into the kind of young man I always knew he would! He is greatly missed.
Much love,
Kelly Agard
Beth Podleski
February 6th 2008
bethpodleski@yahoo.com
I did not know Rob, however went to Michigan Tech and heard about this tragedy. My heart-felt thoughts go out to your family for the loss of your child, nephew, grandson, cousin, friend. Sounds like Rob was an amazing person and will be greatly missed. I know time will never make you forget this loss, but hopefully it will help heal the pain.
Deepest regrets!
Beth Podleski
Rebekka
February 6th 2008
SchussBoomer27@aol.com
I first met Rob, a few years ago when he had joined our high school ski team. I had known his family prior to that from church, but never got to know him personally until we began skiing together. Once he opened up to the team and felt comfortable with us, he taught us all so much. He was a great skier and so much fun to have around, whether we were really racing, debating over something stupid, or just relaxing while we waited for a race that day. I remember I saw him over Christmas break at Caberfae. He was always easy to see out on the hills. He was a great person, and I know he will never be forgotten and God will take good care of him. Love you Rob!
Tripp
February 5th 2008
Englishsoccer13@hotmail.com
I met Rob about two years ago when he joined the ski team. He seemed shy at first but knowing all of us we broke him in very quickly. Rob was a great skier and an even better friend. He helped me become a better skier and helped everyone else as well. Rob and I always played jokes on each other and teamed up to play even better ones on others.
But one memory of Rob I will never forget. It was a Saturday morning when Rob, Taylor, Alicia and I headed up for Caberfee at about 7:30am. We all met at The Hop where we could barley move we were so tired but we knew it would be worth it once we hit the slopes. We skied the whole day having a blast as we usually did with each other. On our way home about 8:30-9:00 we got pulled over by the cops going about 70-75 in a 55. We were laughing so hard that we didn't even notice him or that he had been following us for almost a half a mile. Roby was so scared that when he went to stop and pulled over he stalled his truck and almost went into the ditch. When the cop came up and asked him how fast he was going he told the cop he had no idea and that we weren't from around here. The cop ended up letting us go with a warning. When the cop turned around and left, Robby looked at all of us with the biggest grin I've ever seen and said "Yea....that's right... hahaha". We never forgot that night and would bring it up almost every time we all saw each other and every time we talked about it whether his mother was around or not he would always tell us to quiet down, don't tell my mom she'll kill me.
Robby, you were an awesome person, and awesome friend and an awesome skier. But unfortunately, God must have needed a ski buddy up there. But you're in a better place now Rob... and you will be missed by everyone man...Good Times Rob. !Peace!
Love ya man, Tripp
Simone Anderson
February 5th 2008
monie.face@gmail.com
Robert and I lived close to eachother and took the same bus home from school our freshman year of highschool. He would always walk me home and make sure that I had my key to get in. One day when I was locked out he offered to stay with me. On cold days he would offer me his jacket because he knew I got cold easily. Robert was always a gentleman to me, and he will be missed very much. My prayers are with his family and friends!
Love
Love
Love
Courtney Nash
February 5th 2008
nash.court@gmail.com
Robbie was good friends with my brother when we were younger and I always tagged along with them. I can remember him coming over to our house all the time, or going down to the beach in the summer. At one point he taught me how to ride a bike while my brother was off doing something else. Even though I was probably a pest to them since I was the little sister, they let me in on their games and let me tag along. I'll always remember those days and you will be missed greatly by me and my family.
Courtney
Barb Sruba
February 5th 2008
BSPepper523@aol.com
Our daughter Taylor met Rob first, when he joined the Mona Shores/Reeths Puffer ski team. They also had many other ski days together. My husband Joe helped with coaching and knows how much skiing meant to Rob. I met Carolyn around that time and was introduced to her awesome cookies! Just by chance we found out that he and our son Brett were both going to attend Michigan Tech. We hooked them up as roomates. They met each other the day before they left for college. Once we left that day last fall, Rob was a great help to our not so computer minded son. Even though Brett was 19 I think Rob was the older one! They ate together, played together, pulled some tricks on one another, but most of all got along great and became friends as well as roomates. Brett will not replace him..Rob will remain his roomate in spirit the rest of the year...our hearts and prayers are yours Jeff, Carolyn, Dave and family
Jessica Smith
February 5th 2008
xxceterirocksxx@yahoo.com
Robby was my only cousin on my fathers side of the family. Yes, i didnt see him as much as i would have liked to but i still have all of the memories from my grandparents house and up north. But no matter what he is still always in my heart.
But mainly.....Robby i love you and always will and yes i will see you again someday....
love always,
Jessica
Four Candles for You
The first candle represents our grief.
The pain of losing you is intense.
It reminds us of the depth of our love for you.
This second candle represents our courage.
To confront our sorrow,
To comfort each other,
To change our lives.
This third candle we light in your memory.
For the times we laughed,
The times we cried,
The times we were angry with each other,
The silly things you did,
The caring and joy you gave us.
This fourth candle we light for our love.
We light this candle that your light will always shine.
As we enter this holiday season and share this night of remembrance
with our family and friends.
We cherish the special place in our hearts
that will always be reserved for you.
We thank you for the gift
your living brought to each of us.
We love you.
We remember you.
Harley Dyk
February 5th 2008
harleydyk@chartermi.net
Jeffrey and Carolyn,
We probably met at an open house or for Parent Teacher Conferences at MSHS during the 2003/2004 school year. I believe Rob was in my 9th grade geometry class and the Computer Club. I remember him as very inquisitive, yet laid-back, and in some ways more mature than most 9th graders. He was fun to have in class, since he often displayed his dry sense of humor. My heart goes out to you in your loss, may God comfort you.
Susan Mulvey
February 5th 2008
susanmulvey10@aol.com
I've known Rob since he was two. He lived across the street and we visited often - my son, Chris, and Rob became good friends - went to school together, played often. Although I didn't see much of him the last few years, he was always close to my heart. Carolyn asked if I would write a little something about Rob, and this is what I came up with:
To Robbie
"You can discover more bout a person in an
hour of play, than in a year of conversation."
Plato
You entered our lives as a toddler -
You leave as a young adult.
The road from there to here -
Oh, what a journey!
Roller skating - tumbles, scratches and bandages;
Swimming - diving, suntans, sand castles;
Biking - training wheels, racing, repairing;
Legos - small pieces, large designs, creativity;
Sleepovers - pjs, mac and cheese, brush your teeth;
Birthdays - cake and presents, how many candles?
Winter - snowmen, snow forts, sledding down the hill;
School - lessons, conformity, press on our Indigo child;
Recess - sandbox, soccer, nature trail;
Rockets - research, design and blast off!
Construction - wood, nails, where are the tools?
Electronics - tear apart, put back together, building
computers!
Driving - tentative, gears grinding, polish the wheels!
Skiing - snow and gear - finding your groove!
The final run . . .
We played, we laughed, we grew -
Oh, what a journey!
Thank you for letting us be a part of your journey!
Love to you always - Dick, Susan and Chris Mulvey
"The Good Shepherd calls his own sheep by name
and leads them out." John 10:3
Welcome home, Robbie, Welcome home.
Maureen Granat
February 5th 2008
granat@msu.edu
I only met Rob once, through my cousin, David Gerdes. Dave and Carolyn had come up to Houghton for parents' weekend last October and we made a date for dinner. I remember telling Dave that if Rob needed anything locally, I'd be glad to help. Rob impressed me as being a sweet, intelligent thoughtful young man, a credit to his family. Dave and Carolyn, our hearts go out to you; we are so sorry for your loss.
Maureen and Bruce
Alicia Vander Leest
February 5th 2008
avanderl@nmu.edu
I met Robbie two years ago when he joined our ski team. At first he seemed pretty quiet but when he finally opened up I decided that whe NEEDED to be friends. I didn't see him much because I went to Reeths-Puffer but we still became good friends.
Robbie is one of the reasons that I am still ski racing in college. Last season he always used to pick on me, saying I wasn't trying hard enough. Every time i got into the starting gate the rest of the team would cheer for me, but Robbie would always just say "why don't you try harder this time?!" I mistook this for meanness but he later told me that he only did this as encouragement. He also was the one that taught me how to ski with out snow plowing. He told me i looked ridiculous and then showed me what to do. I always wanted to ski just like him.
Everyone that knew him will miss him terribly. But I figure God took him for a reason: he needed a new skiing buddy.
Kim Scott
February 5th 2008
wowhairandbodycare@comcast.net
I first met and became friends with Carolyn through singing together on the praise team at church, but I didn't really know Rob until he started coming to me for his haircuts a couple of years ago. He seemed quiet and reserved to me at first, but after a couple of visits, he started to open up, and I discovered that he had a rather dry sense of humor. He liked to tell funny little stories about his classes, teachers, school activities, and skiing (of course).
One that comes to mind was from last winter. He had driven to school and was running late. He couldn't find a parking place close to the entrance, and he noticed that there were a couple of spots up front that were unused, but had a snowbank filling them from when the lot had been plowed. Well, he decided he was going to use the spot anyway, and parked his truck up the snowbank! He said that the principal hadn't appreciated his creative parking techniques...but it made perfect sense to Rob.
I'm thinking that God is going to have His hands full with His newest angel...
Shannan Conrad
February 5th 2008
conrads@monashores.net
Rob is a student I will never forget. He sure kept me on my toes at times! Rob was bright beyond his years. He had a passion for history and loved learning and contributing in my class. He always had a story, comment or contribution.
He loved to be right and catch me off guard...what a great way to make me a better teacher :) I will miss his spunk always! My heart is with all of you.
Kris & Julie Thorsen
February 4th 2008
Rob attended our churh and when we saw he had on a shirt that said Vail. That caught Kris's eye, because we coach the RP/MS downhill ski team. So we talked to Carolyn and asked her if he skied and would be interested in racing on our newly formed team. Of course he was, and he was such a pleasure to have aboard and get to know. He surely could ski and was asset to our team. Racing and skiing was his passion forsure! We could always spot Rob up at Caberfae Ski resort when he came up there to ski for fun, whether he was boarding or skiing. He will surely be missed by all the ski team and coaches.
Pam Montambo
February 4th 2008
psgm420@gmail.com
You don't know me but I want to offer an ear. I lost my son, Keith three years ago. The loss of a child is unlike any other grief. My husband and I will be starting a local grief support group for parents very soon. If you are intersted in this or just need to talk to someone that understands, please e-mail me.
Right now, take it one moment at a time. My thoughts and heart are with you.
Pam Montambo
Amy Buege
February 4th 2008
gerdesa2000@yahoo.com
I remember meeting Rob the Spring before our parents were married. The meeting was a little awkward as expected, neither of us quite knew what to think of each other, but we began to bond over a family dinner. (Can I just insert here that Rob was often the source of stimulating, and often agonizing, conversations as a child). The as the wedding drew closer I was asked to pick-up Rob from school since the parents were still busy making their wedding arrangements. I was happy to help out and headed toward the school.
Frustrated after missing the drive way to the school twice, I pulled in to find Rob waiting by the curb with a few of his classmates. Rolling down the window I yelled, "Hey Rob!" and in response I heard one of his little friends say, "Rob, who is that?". Rob shouted back, "That's my new sister!" as he came running over to the car. And that was it. That just did it for me, I was sold. That was the moment I knew that our new family would be great and I would love Rob like a true brother. And I couldn't help but smile as he hopped in the car and closed the door.
I don't think Rob ever knew how much his eight-year-old words warmed my heart. And if you had asked him, he probably would not have been able to recall the memory. But I can easily say that it was one of those moments for me; the kind of moment that turns your world a little bit, throws your life off its course and into a wonderfully new and special direction.
Lisa Kulesza
March 9th 2009
razzzie29@comcast.net
Robbie...
I was there as you were taking your first steps, learning to drink from a cup and wanting to be a "big boy". As your babysitter, many many years ago, I got to share the moments that usually only parents see. I am glad to have shared those with you!! You made my Saturday nights, with your happy, smiling face!
r3n
May 21st 2008
danazc@yahoo.com
"R" we will miss you like crazy buddy. I am so sad to have found this out just recently. As Vysion stated below you were a great friend/teammate that we never got to meet in person. I always enjoyed talking with you. We will all miss you "R"!
r3n (Dana)
Vysion
May 21st 2008
Vysion@gmail.com
You are our friend that we never got to meet in person. You will be missed.
RIP 'R'
Brandon Breda
February 12th 2008
warthogmaster@gmail.com
I met Rob only a couple of weeks into our first semester at Michigan Tech. It really wasn't until our hall went paintballing that I got to know him better. Over the weeks we became better friends. He would play Halo 3 with me and others in the hall, known as 'R'. He taught me a lot about computers and other similar tech. However, what I know him most for is just how much time we spent doing stuff together. When one of us wanted subway or some kind of food, both of us would usually go. And when Rob wasn't being lazy that day, we would be my workout partner. We also Argued and debated about one thing or another, just for the fun of it.
He taught me so much about many different things, and in the few months I have known him, he has made a huge impact on my life. I will never forget the fun loving, carefree, and (for the most part) wise person.
May you rest in peace Rob.
Dan Dalquist
February 9th 2008
ddalquist@gmail.com
I had the opportunity to ski with Robert in December. He was participating in the Mont Ripley Ski Patrol "Ski Along" event - an event where we verify incoming patrollers have the skiing skills necessary to be a Patroller. I recall watching Robert ski and thinking "this guy is having fun and will do well.".
Robert - we miss the opportunity to know you. Go with God and enjoy skiing!
February 8th 2008
My first encounter with Robert was in high school. I remember asking him in math class one day why he kept tags on the sleev of a green jacket that he always seemed to wear. He told me that they were ski tags from all the times he had gone skiing. Being clueless, having never skied before, he enthusiastically explained some of his adventures involving skiing and his passion of the slopes.
Eventually, I came to realize that we both shared an interest in computer technology and discussing politics. We would go on discussing and debating various topics of interest for days throughout classes, breaks, and over lunch.
Having conversations with him was always fun. Those halcyon days will be missed.
-V
Fred Garnish
February 8th 2008
derfrocks@hotmail.com
I met Robbie soon after I met his dad Jeff. He was always a good kid with a definite sense of humor but what I'll remember most is what I learned from him. Yes, it relates to skiing. I had the priviledge of having skiied with him on several occasions at Crystal Mountain. His technique impressed me so much that I studied what he was doing and did my best to imitate. I believe his unintended lessons improved my technique significantly. I will remember him whenever I'm on the hill. Thanks Robbie.
Dorothy J. Ledin--Grandma Dotty
February 8th 2008
Remembering Rob
I loved being Rob's grandmother. Rob would visit us for a week each summer from the time he was little. Time spent with Rob was always quality time.
As Rob grew older, time spent with his Grandpa Bob took priority. They spent much time in Grandpa Bob's black Chevrolet pick-up with a chainsaw on the floor on the rider's side and a box of fresh blueberries between them--munching as they rode. They would ride in to Iron River, Wisconsin to pick up the mail.
Grandpa Bob also had a small Caterpillar tractor, an Oliver OC3. Much time was spent attending to the mechanical needs of the the tractor. Rob became adept at helping his grandfather load the tractor onto a trailer.
Rob was never much of a cookie eater but he dearly loved thin buttermilk pancakes, home-made sourdough dininer rolls and popovers. As he grew older his taste for apple pie, Swedish Nut Cake, cream cheese pound cake and carrot cake became apparent.
Conversations with Rob were challenging and stimulating. I remember one time when he was perhaps 7 years old, I was relating a story and he asked for the point of my conversation. I realized then that I was required to be factual in our verbal interchanges.
Following the death of his grandfather, Rob continued to come for his summer visits. We continued to have interesting conversations--sometimes quite spirited.
I recall being concerned about his spiritual condition so I asked him one day if he had ever invited Christ into his life. His answer was to the affirmative with additions I hadn't expected. How thankful I was. Rob was way ahead of me.
Last spring I attended Rob's graduation and also his graduation open house. We went to the Symphony with Dave and Carolyn, and attended Scott and Amy Buege's wedding where Rob was a member of the wedding party. We knew then that he was going to attend Michigan Technical College at Houghton, MI. He was excited about skiing there. That was a favorite sport for Rob.
Rob later told me his next visit would be during spring break. I was elated. I remember in one telephone conversation, I reminded him to be careful when he skiied. His words: "Don't worry , Grandma, I never take chances."
During his last downhill trip, he skiied right into the arms of God, so he'll be spending his Spring Break with his Grandpa Bob.
Am I going to miss him? You know I will but I have the assurance that I will see him again--in Heaven.
Bob and Vikke Longcore
February 7th 2008
longcore_bnv@verizon.net
Hi Robbie, I will always remember you and Chris Mulvey letting my grandson Collin hang out with you guys when you were playing with those remote cars. He thought he was one of the gang. When I told him that you had passed on, that was one of the memories that he had of you. He said I thought he was nice Grandma. Being the next door neighbor both Bob and I watched you grow up into a nice young man. You are going to be greatly missed. Love Bob and Vikke Longcore
Jaimen Vayette
February 7th 2008
I'll never forget the time you gave Robert Bernstein and Joe Brackenrich the Habenero Peppers back in 7th grade and they spit them out then they banned the Hot Peppers from the middle school. (Good times).... I'll never forget the laugh we all had back then either.
From your friend Jaimen Vayette
Brett Avery
February 7th 2008
brettavery@hotmail.com
"And in the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years,"
--Abraham Lincoln
February 7th 2008
I first met Robbie when he was six years old at a ski weekend with Laketon Bethel church. I got to know Carolyn and saw them skiing at Crystal. Years later I got to meet and know Jeff since he had the good sense to fall in love with my best friend Leslie. Through out the years I have spent time with Robbie skiing , boating, and barbequing. Leslie and I picked him up from Michigan Tech one of the summers he went to science camp and all spent a week together at Leslie's parents cabin in Wisconsin. I was so impressed that Robbie didn't mind spending time with us. He laid on the couch and coached me while I was doing sit-ups (he counted and encouraged). We hiked and went canoeing.
I will miss Robbie and will think of him often. My heart goes out to Jeff, Leslie, Carolyn, and Dave.
Love---Mary
TROY FOSTER
February 7th 2008
FOSTERT@MONASHORES.NET
It's hard to even begin to put it in words..."Robert", I remember saying quite often "are you on task"? "Of course", he would respond. "I'm already finished with my assignment". Robert would always be a quick learner and always kept me on my toes, trying to challenge him with new things. Robert would take all my classes in Architecture, Drafting, and Computer-Aided Design at Mona Shores. I miss talking to him everyday about computers, his weekend ski trips to Crystal, snow conditions, checking the winter radar on the Internet, comparing ski stories from both being on ski teams in high school, and, of course, his challenging debates. I will always remember Robert passing through my classroom at the end of each school day as he liked using my exit- we could see his beloved 4 x 4 from my classroom window, and how proud he was of that vehicle! I remember having many, many conversations with Carolyn about his future and what we should do next to help prepare him, both of us knowing that he was going to be an exceptional Engineer. May God be with you always with the loss of Robert and somehow remembering that God has him in his grip, probably keeping his skis waxed and edges sharpened. I will cherish our memories and being able to connect with him. I will miss him.
much love and saddness-
Troy Foster
Erwin Gutsell
February 7th 2008
erwingutsell@sbcglobal.net
I remember Rob from the Christmas dinner Leslie had last Christmas and Rob and Jeff were there with Betty and me.
I remember Rob as always friendly and polite. I remember him most from the times when he was at our cabin with his father and Leslie. He always tried to be helpful, though his parents remarked when I reported his attitude that he probably is more helpful away from home. One time at the cabin he helped me repair the leather seat on an antique chair that had given way to his father's weight the year before. Rob and I concluded that now it was "Jeff proof".
We will miss seeing Rob grow into manhood.
Mont Ripley Ski Patrol
February 6th 2008
miolsson@mtu.edu
Mont Ripley Ski Patrol is deeply saddened by Rob's passing. He was about to become one of us. His commitment to skiing and to service were attributes that we admired.
We extend our sincere condolence to Rob's family and friends.
Mont Ripley Ski Patrol is humbly honored to be designated as the recipient of contributions In memory of Robert W. Smith through the Michigan Tech Fund.
Mont Ripley Ski Patrol
Trudy Olsson
Mary Nyman
February 6th 2008
marynyman@yahoo.com
My first memory of Rob was when my brother Dave and Carolyn were married. There he was in that cute tuxedo, looking every bit the proud young man. He was kind of quiet, and in our large family one had to be a little more assertive in order to be heard. Trust me, Rob was heard. He had a quiet way about him. He held back, not one to push his way into a conversation. Thus I was a little taken aback when I asked Rob at his graduation party what his plans were for his future. He had it all laid out! He knew how he was going to approach his first interview. This after just graduation from High School. I have no doubt that he has organized Heaven in much the same way. My love to Dave and Carolyn.
Cathy Smith
February 6th 2008
donnaronsmi@aol.com
Robbie was my nephew.I remember being excited when Robbie,Kayo,and Jeff were comming to visit.Robbie and my nephew Scott loved feeding the ducks in Brown Deer park.I miss those times.I wish you were still with us on the earth but know I will see you in heaven again one day.
Pam Howard
February 6th 2008
palstar1@aol.com
Rob was one of my son Chad's best friends. He was like another son to us. He was often at our house. I think he enjoyed the chaos and activity here. With three children of our own and all their friends, there was rarely a quiet moment. Rob went on many of our family vacations; Silver Lake, Crystal Mountain, Boyne Mountain. He also shared in many family traditions; going to the pumpkin patch, new years eve celebrations, tubing at Double JJ, and many summer days at lake Michigan; sea-doing, swimming, and playing volleyball. We feel so blessed to have shared so much fun and laughter and special memories together.
Chad and Rob were known for their intellectual conversations, often arguing for hours over who was right or the best way to fix or do something. Neither willing to back down if they thought they were right. We compared them to the “Grumpy Old Men” from the movie.
Chad and Rob were always there for each other and always had each others back; especially if it were to team up against Chad’s younger brother; Eric, or their friend; Eathen; or to outwit their parents.
We really enjoyed family game night. Chad and Rob’s favorite game was Catch-A-Phrase. When the two of them teamed up, no one could beat them. They enjoyed making the rest of us look a little less intelligent.
We loved Rob, We will miss him, and he will forever be in our hearts.
The Howard’s (Chris, Pam, Andrea, Chad, and Eric)
Kelly Greeby (Agard)
February 6th 2008
Keruk@aol.com
I knew Rob as Robbie. My family and Rob's were neighbors and I used to babysit him. Along with being precocious, Robbie was gentle, kind and happy. He was a pleasure to know - even when he was challenging! I remember walking around the block with him when he was maybe 3 years old and seeing some cracks in the road. Robbie quickly explained to me that those cracks came from expansion and contraction of the concrete when it was hot and cold. What a pleasure he was to babysit. I haven't spoken with him in several years, but it sounds as though he matured into the kind of young man I always knew he would! He is greatly missed.
Much love,
Kelly Agard
Beth Podleski
February 6th 2008
bethpodleski@yahoo.com
I did not know Rob, however went to Michigan Tech and heard about this tragedy. My heart-felt thoughts go out to your family for the loss of your child, nephew, grandson, cousin, friend. Sounds like Rob was an amazing person and will be greatly missed. I know time will never make you forget this loss, but hopefully it will help heal the pain.
Deepest regrets!
Beth Podleski
Rebekka
February 6th 2008
SchussBoomer27@aol.com
I first met Rob, a few years ago when he had joined our high school ski team. I had known his family prior to that from church, but never got to know him personally until we began skiing together. Once he opened up to the team and felt comfortable with us, he taught us all so much. He was a great skier and so much fun to have around, whether we were really racing, debating over something stupid, or just relaxing while we waited for a race that day. I remember I saw him over Christmas break at Caberfae. He was always easy to see out on the hills. He was a great person, and I know he will never be forgotten and God will take good care of him. Love you Rob!
Tripp
February 5th 2008
Englishsoccer13@hotmail.com
I met Rob about two years ago when he joined the ski team. He seemed shy at first but knowing all of us we broke him in very quickly. Rob was a great skier and an even better friend. He helped me become a better skier and helped everyone else as well. Rob and I always played jokes on each other and teamed up to play even better ones on others.
But one memory of Rob I will never forget. It was a Saturday morning when Rob, Taylor, Alicia and I headed up for Caberfee at about 7:30am. We all met at The Hop where we could barley move we were so tired but we knew it would be worth it once we hit the slopes. We skied the whole day having a blast as we usually did with each other. On our way home about 8:30-9:00 we got pulled over by the cops going about 70-75 in a 55. We were laughing so hard that we didn't even notice him or that he had been following us for almost a half a mile. Roby was so scared that when he went to stop and pulled over he stalled his truck and almost went into the ditch. When the cop came up and asked him how fast he was going he told the cop he had no idea and that we weren't from around here. The cop ended up letting us go with a warning. When the cop turned around and left, Robby looked at all of us with the biggest grin I've ever seen and said "Yea....that's right... hahaha". We never forgot that night and would bring it up almost every time we all saw each other and every time we talked about it whether his mother was around or not he would always tell us to quiet down, don't tell my mom she'll kill me.
Robby, you were an awesome person, and awesome friend and an awesome skier. But unfortunately, God must have needed a ski buddy up there. But you're in a better place now Rob... and you will be missed by everyone man...Good Times Rob. !Peace!
Love ya man, Tripp
Simone Anderson
February 5th 2008
monie.face@gmail.com
Robert and I lived close to eachother and took the same bus home from school our freshman year of highschool. He would always walk me home and make sure that I had my key to get in. One day when I was locked out he offered to stay with me. On cold days he would offer me his jacket because he knew I got cold easily. Robert was always a gentleman to me, and he will be missed very much. My prayers are with his family and friends!
Love
Love
Love
Courtney Nash
February 5th 2008
nash.court@gmail.com
Robbie was good friends with my brother when we were younger and I always tagged along with them. I can remember him coming over to our house all the time, or going down to the beach in the summer. At one point he taught me how to ride a bike while my brother was off doing something else. Even though I was probably a pest to them since I was the little sister, they let me in on their games and let me tag along. I'll always remember those days and you will be missed greatly by me and my family.
Courtney
Barb Sruba
February 5th 2008
BSPepper523@aol.com
Our daughter Taylor met Rob first, when he joined the Mona Shores/Reeths Puffer ski team. They also had many other ski days together. My husband Joe helped with coaching and knows how much skiing meant to Rob. I met Carolyn around that time and was introduced to her awesome cookies! Just by chance we found out that he and our son Brett were both going to attend Michigan Tech. We hooked them up as roomates. They met each other the day before they left for college. Once we left that day last fall, Rob was a great help to our not so computer minded son. Even though Brett was 19 I think Rob was the older one! They ate together, played together, pulled some tricks on one another, but most of all got along great and became friends as well as roomates. Brett will not replace him..Rob will remain his roomate in spirit the rest of the year...our hearts and prayers are yours Jeff, Carolyn, Dave and family
Jessica Smith
February 5th 2008
xxceterirocksxx@yahoo.com
Robby was my only cousin on my fathers side of the family. Yes, i didnt see him as much as i would have liked to but i still have all of the memories from my grandparents house and up north. But no matter what he is still always in my heart.
But mainly.....Robby i love you and always will and yes i will see you again someday....
love always,
Jessica
Four Candles for You
The first candle represents our grief.
The pain of losing you is intense.
It reminds us of the depth of our love for you.
This second candle represents our courage.
To confront our sorrow,
To comfort each other,
To change our lives.
This third candle we light in your memory.
For the times we laughed,
The times we cried,
The times we were angry with each other,
The silly things you did,
The caring and joy you gave us.
This fourth candle we light for our love.
We light this candle that your light will always shine.
As we enter this holiday season and share this night of remembrance
with our family and friends.
We cherish the special place in our hearts
that will always be reserved for you.
We thank you for the gift
your living brought to each of us.
We love you.
We remember you.
Harley Dyk
February 5th 2008
harleydyk@chartermi.net
Jeffrey and Carolyn,
We probably met at an open house or for Parent Teacher Conferences at MSHS during the 2003/2004 school year. I believe Rob was in my 9th grade geometry class and the Computer Club. I remember him as very inquisitive, yet laid-back, and in some ways more mature than most 9th graders. He was fun to have in class, since he often displayed his dry sense of humor. My heart goes out to you in your loss, may God comfort you.
Susan Mulvey
February 5th 2008
susanmulvey10@aol.com
I've known Rob since he was two. He lived across the street and we visited often - my son, Chris, and Rob became good friends - went to school together, played often. Although I didn't see much of him the last few years, he was always close to my heart. Carolyn asked if I would write a little something about Rob, and this is what I came up with:
To Robbie
"You can discover more bout a person in an
hour of play, than in a year of conversation."
Plato
You entered our lives as a toddler -
You leave as a young adult.
The road from there to here -
Oh, what a journey!
Roller skating - tumbles, scratches and bandages;
Swimming - diving, suntans, sand castles;
Biking - training wheels, racing, repairing;
Legos - small pieces, large designs, creativity;
Sleepovers - pjs, mac and cheese, brush your teeth;
Birthdays - cake and presents, how many candles?
Winter - snowmen, snow forts, sledding down the hill;
School - lessons, conformity, press on our Indigo child;
Recess - sandbox, soccer, nature trail;
Rockets - research, design and blast off!
Construction - wood, nails, where are the tools?
Electronics - tear apart, put back together, building
computers!
Driving - tentative, gears grinding, polish the wheels!
Skiing - snow and gear - finding your groove!
The final run . . .
We played, we laughed, we grew -
Oh, what a journey!
Thank you for letting us be a part of your journey!
Love to you always - Dick, Susan and Chris Mulvey
"The Good Shepherd calls his own sheep by name
and leads them out." John 10:3
Welcome home, Robbie, Welcome home.
Maureen Granat
February 5th 2008
granat@msu.edu
I only met Rob once, through my cousin, David Gerdes. Dave and Carolyn had come up to Houghton for parents' weekend last October and we made a date for dinner. I remember telling Dave that if Rob needed anything locally, I'd be glad to help. Rob impressed me as being a sweet, intelligent thoughtful young man, a credit to his family. Dave and Carolyn, our hearts go out to you; we are so sorry for your loss.
Maureen and Bruce
Alicia Vander Leest
February 5th 2008
avanderl@nmu.edu
I met Robbie two years ago when he joined our ski team. At first he seemed pretty quiet but when he finally opened up I decided that whe NEEDED to be friends. I didn't see him much because I went to Reeths-Puffer but we still became good friends.
Robbie is one of the reasons that I am still ski racing in college. Last season he always used to pick on me, saying I wasn't trying hard enough. Every time i got into the starting gate the rest of the team would cheer for me, but Robbie would always just say "why don't you try harder this time?!" I mistook this for meanness but he later told me that he only did this as encouragement. He also was the one that taught me how to ski with out snow plowing. He told me i looked ridiculous and then showed me what to do. I always wanted to ski just like him.
Everyone that knew him will miss him terribly. But I figure God took him for a reason: he needed a new skiing buddy.
Kim Scott
February 5th 2008
wowhairandbodycare@comcast.net
I first met and became friends with Carolyn through singing together on the praise team at church, but I didn't really know Rob until he started coming to me for his haircuts a couple of years ago. He seemed quiet and reserved to me at first, but after a couple of visits, he started to open up, and I discovered that he had a rather dry sense of humor. He liked to tell funny little stories about his classes, teachers, school activities, and skiing (of course).
One that comes to mind was from last winter. He had driven to school and was running late. He couldn't find a parking place close to the entrance, and he noticed that there were a couple of spots up front that were unused, but had a snowbank filling them from when the lot had been plowed. Well, he decided he was going to use the spot anyway, and parked his truck up the snowbank! He said that the principal hadn't appreciated his creative parking techniques...but it made perfect sense to Rob.
I'm thinking that God is going to have His hands full with His newest angel...
Shannan Conrad
February 5th 2008
conrads@monashores.net
Rob is a student I will never forget. He sure kept me on my toes at times! Rob was bright beyond his years. He had a passion for history and loved learning and contributing in my class. He always had a story, comment or contribution.
He loved to be right and catch me off guard...what a great way to make me a better teacher :) I will miss his spunk always! My heart is with all of you.
Kris & Julie Thorsen
February 4th 2008
Rob attended our churh and when we saw he had on a shirt that said Vail. That caught Kris's eye, because we coach the RP/MS downhill ski team. So we talked to Carolyn and asked her if he skied and would be interested in racing on our newly formed team. Of course he was, and he was such a pleasure to have aboard and get to know. He surely could ski and was asset to our team. Racing and skiing was his passion forsure! We could always spot Rob up at Caberfae Ski resort when he came up there to ski for fun, whether he was boarding or skiing. He will surely be missed by all the ski team and coaches.
Pam Montambo
February 4th 2008
psgm420@gmail.com
You don't know me but I want to offer an ear. I lost my son, Keith three years ago. The loss of a child is unlike any other grief. My husband and I will be starting a local grief support group for parents very soon. If you are intersted in this or just need to talk to someone that understands, please e-mail me.
Right now, take it one moment at a time. My thoughts and heart are with you.
Pam Montambo
Amy Buege
February 4th 2008
gerdesa2000@yahoo.com
I remember meeting Rob the Spring before our parents were married. The meeting was a little awkward as expected, neither of us quite knew what to think of each other, but we began to bond over a family dinner. (Can I just insert here that Rob was often the source of stimulating, and often agonizing, conversations as a child). The as the wedding drew closer I was asked to pick-up Rob from school since the parents were still busy making their wedding arrangements. I was happy to help out and headed toward the school.
Frustrated after missing the drive way to the school twice, I pulled in to find Rob waiting by the curb with a few of his classmates. Rolling down the window I yelled, "Hey Rob!" and in response I heard one of his little friends say, "Rob, who is that?". Rob shouted back, "That's my new sister!" as he came running over to the car. And that was it. That just did it for me, I was sold. That was the moment I knew that our new family would be great and I would love Rob like a true brother. And I couldn't help but smile as he hopped in the car and closed the door.
I don't think Rob ever knew how much his eight-year-old words warmed my heart. And if you had asked him, he probably would not have been able to recall the memory. But I can easily say that it was one of those moments for me; the kind of moment that turns your world a little bit, throws your life off its course and into a wonderfully new and special direction.
