Arvin W. Anderson
Dec 29th 1939 - Jan 9th 2006
Print All
Dan Melville
February 15th 2006
danmelv@yahoo.com
Last year when I read the article about " Coach " Anderson's work with Goodwill it came as no surprise of his being recognized. It has been 35 years since I played for the Falcons Football team but every once in awhile I reflect on those years and Mr. Anderson always comes to mind as someone who made an impact in my life. He was what a coach should be but unfortunately is lacking too often today. A kind and gentle man who loved and cared for his students and athletes. He impacted so many young people and will always be remembered for his smile and warm personality. His Christian walk was shown many years ago and it is biitersweet knowing he is gone from us. We who life's paths intersected with Mr. Anderson's were enriched and are better for the experience. His reward in heaven is a result of his faith in our Saviour. We were rewarded because we were allowed to know him. His family and close friends know how blessed they are to be part of him. May God bless his family during this time of loss and celebration of his life.
Jan Middleton Switzer
January 26th 2006
janricks5654@comcast.net
I only just became aware of the passing of Arv into the presence of Jesus. Arv was my guidance counselor at EKHS. Several times he comforted me when I ended up in his office in tears over some teenage angst. He was instrumental in getting me involved in Young Life where I came to know Jesus, and I attended Bible Study in his home which helped me to get grounded in my new faith. I can not imagine what my life would be like without knowing Jesus, and I am thankful for everything Arv did that helped me to know and grow in Him. I look forward to seeing him in heaven some day. I am praying for his family.
Craig E. Andeerson
January 26th 2006
ceadma@earthlink.net
I was so saddened to read today on the Covenant Web page of Arv's death. I remembere him from North Park days where we lived together in Burgh Hall. I so enjoyed his friendship. We were both born in '39 and began North Park in 1957. Over the years we have had little contact, but when his mother, moved to Covenant Village in Northbrook, IL a few years ago, our paths crossed again, as my mother also lived there. Our mothers shared the same names (including maiden names): Hazel (Peterson) Anderson. Occasionally their mail would get mixed up. Arv and I met a couple of times when he was down from Michigan to visit his Mom at CV. He was always such a warm, good-natured and gracious human being--so caring of others. The love of Christ shown brightly in his life. Today I can still see his warm smile. To you Nancy and the children, please accept these belated but heartfelt condolences. May the God he loved and served now comfort your hearts and give you peace. He ran the race with joy with faithfulness, and courage. I know how you will miss him. Peace to his memory.
Craig Anderson
Marilyn (Olson) Peterson
January 20th 2006
mormorpete@msn.com
Arv was a friend from college days at North Park. I from Oregon and he from Michigan but our dads were friends. God lived and walked through Arv even through his college days. He was as gentle, kind and loving then, as you describe him of "yesterday". So thankful he has graduated to His Heavenly Home. No more sickness or pain or sorrow. Our prayers are for comfort for Nancy and his family. Marilyn and Gary too.
Jan Kempe
January 19th 2006
Best big brother a girl could have. I am so proud of him...of the way he lived his life and made a difference for so many. I am thankful to God for giving me such an awesome brother.
Lance Byers
January 18th 2006
lance_byers@hotmail.com
I only knew Arv for a short time while working at Goodwill and what a perfect place for a person with so much good will. I remember interviewing with him for another position within GW and we mostly talked of sports and then connected on the fact that he taught and counseled my cousin Loy Vaught at E. Kentwood who later became a successful basketball player for University of Michigan, LA CLippers, Detroit Pistons and finally Washington Wizards. God bless him and his family. He will be missed.
Kim Wietke Galdes
January 18th 2006
pgaldes@juno.com
I was a teacher and coach at EK, where I met Arv. He was a kind and caring man, demonstrating the true heart of an educator. Teachers and students benefitted from his example as a man of God. My sympathy to his family, especially Julie, whom I knew as a student/athlete. Kim
Lee Bishop Nolte
January 16th 2006
noltel@progressiveae.com
Mr. Anderson was my geometry teacher at Kentwood in 1962 and it was the best class I ever had. He was such a good teacher and he was so much fun. I was getting 'A's and argued with him that if I made 100% on every test he should give me an A+ and he said he didn't believe in giving A+'s which made me more determined to score a perfect grade on every assignment and test. After sparing the entire year I finally received my A+. I was a cheerleader so saw him in action every Friday night with the football team and he truly was an inspiration to all of us.
January 15th 2006
Mr. Anderson was my guidance counselor in HS at EKHS (class of 1976). He helped with my class scheduling for my pre-med courses. I attended Calvin College after EKHS and now enjoy a family practice in Muskegon. Praying for you in your loss and know that God is caring for him now.
Tom Watkins
Tom Cowger
January 14th 2006
thomas.cowger@sbcglobal.net
Arv was the first Church Chairman I knew as a young pastor. What a way to start! He was very sensitive toward me, my wife Deb and what life is like serving as a pastor in a busy church. He encouraged me, took time to be with me and listen.He was so wise and kind, On top of it all we could talk sports together, love Jesus and have a good time.
Jim Fretheim
January 14th 2006
Arv was a model of what it means to be a Christian servant. I thank God for his witness and compassion for those in need.
Jim Fretheim
Margie Brooks
January 13th 2006
I remember Mr. Anderson from Kentwood High School.(1967) I never had him for a teacher, but always remember him with his kind smile and walking down the hall to classes, He always gave a nod or hello. I remember thinking he must be a very nice man. After reading some of the memories, I'm sure he was... and will be missed. My thoughts and prayers to the Anderson family
Connie Udell
January 13th 2006
udellcor@aquinas.edu
When I think of Arv, this verse from a Hallmark greeting card comes to mind.
CELEBRATION OF LIFE
A life is like a song we write
In our own tone and key,
Each life we touch reflects a note
That forms the melody.
We choose the theme and chorus,
Of the song to bear our name,
And each will have a special sound,
No two can be the same,
So when someone we love departs,
In memory we find
Their song plays on within the hearts
Of those they leave behind.
Arv was a gentle, compasionate spirit with a sense of humor and a big friendly smile. He was a neighbor, a guidance counselor to our three children at Kentwood High School, a
fellow believer, an example of living a Christ centered life.
We will all miss you, but your memory (song) will live on in our hearts.
Paul M. Hillman
January 13th 2006
bwi@aol.com
Tears are sometimes as mighty as words. How can I forget Arv crying as he prayed, read Scripture, or talked about a person in need? He was a man of the heart and passionate about serving God. He was a wonderful encourager. If I were to write the history of my life, Arv would deserve a chapter. He believed in me, supported me, and directed me toward pastoral ministry. After Arv became ill, we had several discussions about death and heaven. While Arv deeply loved his earthly family, he keenly anticipated being with his Lord. That thought sometimes brought him to tears. And when it did, it watered my soul and gave me renewed determination to live for God. His tears have washed over many lives, and now that he is gone, I cry for his company but I know that God is happy—he will have more room for new bottles of tears.
Martha Peterson Modene
January 13th 2006
rondini@netonecom.net
Arv was blessed to belong to an exceptional family. I don't just say this because we were cousins, but because his parents and siblings exhibited many of the same traits that I see mentioned for Arv. The Anderson family used to descend on our house every year at Thanksgiving, along with a host of other relatives. Honestly, this was a family which I was always happy to see arrive. Arv was the kind, gentle, big-hearted kind of cousin that a shy little girl could climb up next to on the couch and snuggle up to and feel comfortable and loved, never a pest or nuisance. Arv did always have a beautiful smile and a wonderful speaking voice (like Uncle Dan) that made one want to just sit and listen to him talk. I always appreciated that Arvin was never afraid to talk of his faith. His life is a living testimony of his love for his Lord. I'm sorry that we lost touch over the last years, but my memories are, and always will be, of the warm and loving man of God that I was blessed to be able to claim as family.
Art Kingsley
January 13th 2006
aking78665@aol
I am sorry to hear of Arvs' passing. I was lucky to have Arv as a Sunday school teacher many years ago. I remember he took our class to a Tigers game, my first. A bunch of us piled into his VW for the trip. We had a wonderful time. I will always think of Arvin fondly, and as someone who made a differance. With sympathy, Art Kingsley
Stephanie Thompson
January 13th 2006
s2thomp@hotmail.com
Arv was an obedient agent of God who, as a neighbor and guidance counselor, led me to apply to North Park even though my heart was desiring to go elsewhere. I did end up at North Park where my life was changed drastically: I met my husband there, was led to attend Seminary and was embraced by a Christian community unlike any other I had experienced. I initially made a decision to follow Christ through the Yough Life program he helped establish at my highschool. His sense of humor and friendship are what drew me to him and his obedience to following the leading of the Holy Spirit is what influenced my life and continues to mark my life today.
Nancy Epstein
January 13th 2006
nmepstein@sbcglobal.net
I feel as though I have known Arv all my life, from the early time at Portage Lake Bible Camp when my mother helped Hazel with cooking and we lived there the whole summer until recently when I saw Arv at First Covenant. Arv always had a special place in my heart. His ready and warm smile and gentleness of spirit was so evident. Even my husband Joel, who only knew Arv in passing, admired and felt this warmth. We will miss him and send our prayers to strengthen you. He is now in the arms of our loving Father and we will see him once again. Praise be to God!
Gary Walter
January 13th 2006
gbwalter@msn.com
Arv always just jumped in and did what needed to be done. His own team spirit caused him to get others on the team as well. He paved the way for churches to join together to plant new churches throughout Michigan and beyond. A great example of an obedient, humble sevant of people and God.
Gary Walter
Sally Young
January 12th 2006
YoungFootballNut@aol.com
I am his sister-in-law from Calif. and as a family we have so many wonderful memories of doing fun things together. He paid for my twin and I to fly to Michigan in March for Nancy's birthday and I am so very glad I got to see him then also. We were up very late every night playing games and laughing - he never gave up! I can't believe he is gone, but I have that blessed hope of seeing him again in Heaven - Thank God! Love you all, Jeff, Brian, Julie, and Nancy and I will be praying for you! I am so very sad I could not be there for his "celebration service"!
Amy Miller
January 12th 2006
lukeamy@charter.net
Arv would always tell me I talked too much and I always promised that I would keep it short...he truly loved to tease me because I could never keep it short:) Even when we didn't agree on something, Arv would listen, he always let you know that he valued you. Arv had a story for every occasion, something that was going to teach you something, or make you cry, or laugh--his face would literally light up....I will really miss that. I feel truly blessed to have my life touched by Arv...peace to you Mr. Anderson and peace to your family...
Glen Anderson
January 12th 2006
superswede56@sbcglobal.net
I met Arv the fall of 1957 on the football practice field at North Park College. I was a sophomore lineman and Arv was a freshman center. On the other side of Arv. was another Anderson, Chuck.
For the next 3 years for 10 weeks in the fall we 3 Anderson's had the time of our lives on and off the field. That smile and sparkle in his eyes as we walked back in the huddle for the next play will never be forgotten.
Calvin Mills
January 12th 2006
cmills@goodwillgr.org
Arv was always there when I or anyone else needed anything. He always made you comfortable to talk to him about anything, whether it was work related or personal. Knowing Arv has made me a better person. I will truly miss him.
Alice,Jenni & Bekki
January 12th 2006
We were at Goodwill and he was a nice person to work with. We remember Mr. Anderson as a kind person.
Cliff & Pat Soderlind
January 12th 2006
soderlind@austin.rr.com
Cliff remembers how very kind Arvin was to his brother, Fred.
How he praises God for Arvin's life. Pat fondly remembers working at camp one summer with the Anderson family. What great people! How God's love shone through Arvin's life!
George Waite - GRCC
January 12th 2006
I met Arv soon after he started working for Goodwill and we started to work together as partners to assist adults in learning new skills and getting to work. I appreciated his experience, honesty and commitment to stay focused on our tasks. We found a common theme around sports that we always made a connection with. We always atlked about going golfing but never made it. I will miss Arv. I plan to follow his lead and use his passion for helping students/adults in my everyday work.
Tom Wilkerson
January 12th 2006
tom@wilkast.com
I knew Arv as my high school counselor, football coach, and later we worked together in Kentwood Young Life. As I look back, I am grateful for certain people that I have met along the way. Arv is one of those. My most vivid memories of Arv are on the football field. He had a way of challenging me to be more. The phrase I remember him saying to me is, "Sell Out!" "Don't leave anything out there!" Even today, I can still hear him say that. I know that he motivated me to give more of myself, because you got the sense that Arv was giving all of himself. He pushed you, because he cared about you, and that's what made him a great coach. He was very passionate on the field and I know he was very passionate about his family, his work, and his faith. If you want to know what kind of person Arv was, look at his kids. You will see the legacy of a man that got it right!
Jennifer
January 12th 2006
gnysgrl@yahoo.com
Arv was a very special person to all that he met. I did not know him well but he always gave the feeling that you could just walk and talk if needed. I have a poem that is kept on my refridgerator to remind me of how special everyone that we meet is.
"They say it takes a minute to find a special person,
An hour to appreciate them,
A day to love them,
But then an entire life to forget them."
Arv will never be forgotten.
Kathie Jordan
January 12th 2006
kjordan@goodwillgr.org
Arv is a "Giant of all Giants."I will always remember his incredible selfless spirit. He truely walked the talk and was the greatest person to see the positive in all people. I will never forget Arv telling me " you can accomplish anything you put your heart and mind to." You are so right Arv. Arv was an honest and humble man with a great sense of humor. You will never be forgotten Arv and your legacy will live on forever. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Kathie Jordan
Sue
January 12th 2006
sdobbs@goodwillgr.org
I had the honor and privilege to work with Arv at Goodwill for many years. He truly was an extrodinary man with a huge heart and a world of compassion for those around him (not only to those we serve but every employee as well). As you read all of the above memories and those to follow, it is evident of the impact that Arv made on everyone around him. I will truly miss Arv and my heart goes out to his family and friends!!!
John Van Dyke
January 12th 2006
vandykej@ci.kentwood.mi.us
Mr. Anderson was my math teacher at Kentwood and to this day I still remember when he read a selection from the Bible to us and shared his faith. He truly did live out his belief and was a fine example. I extend my thoughts and prayers to his family.
Tom O'Connell
January 12th 2006
ygtommy@yahoo.com
I had the priviledge of getting to know Arv and family during his Kentwood years; Young Life, football and more.
What a tremendous guy and such a brother of Christ. To Nancy and the entire family; know that we thought the world of Arv and he touched SO many lives in his warm quiet way. God bless you all and thanks for sharing him with our whole Kentwood community.
Tommy O '79
Murray Lindhout
January 12th 2006
SailingBme@yahoo.com
I am a teacher at East Kentwood who had the priveledge of teaching one of his children, Brian, math. Arv was genuine. He cared for all his students as much as his own. He was an inspiration in the life of so many of us here at East Kentwood, not only as a colleage and mentor, but as a friend. We greatly miss him now, but already look forward to our future reunion. God blessed this man, and may God bless his loving family.
Bob Bach
January 12th 2006
bbach@goldrush.com
Arv was a dear friend, valued teammate, and an inspiring example of faith and courage. "We'll understand it, all by and by."
Debra (Gehrke) Parden
January 12th 2006
rdparden@sbcglobal.net
Mr. Anderson was my counselor in High School, and he was the most thoughtful, kindest person I had every meant. He really listen to what I had to say, gave me direction for my life, and never judged me. He always had a smile on his face, it was alway a joy to see him in the hallways at Kentwood High School. Later in life I ran into him at Redeemer Convenant Church in Gaines Twp. and he remembered me! What a memory! He also had my two daughters at the new East Kentwood High School and he remembered them! He always took an interest in your life and what you were doing. You will be missed Mr. Anderson.
Reginald "Tex" Graham
January 11th 2006
grahamrl@ncats.net
Arv was a friend, coworker and a person that I could talk freely to about anything. Arv was always positive and determined to do the best that could possibly be done for the folks that he worked with and for. I feel a deep personal loss and feel selfish about it. My heart and soul go out to Nancy and the family. God Bless
Sara Hillman
January 11th 2006
greeklassie@yahoo.com
I knew Arv best when I was a teenager at Redeemer Covenant Church in the 1990s. He was one of the adults who always took the time to say hello and ask me how I was every week at church. He made me feel loved and a part of the church community. I think that is what he did for a lot of the youth, and I'll always remember his warm smile and sense of humor.
Sharon (Noorthoek) VanDyke
January 11th 2006
sharonvandyke222@yahoo.com
My memories go back a to a 6th grader at Portage Lake Bible Camp with Arv singing at the campfires and giving his testimony. The song i distinctly remember was "Open Up Them Pearly Gates". I don't remember if that was the title, but i sure remember all of the words...I was blessed knowing him all those many years ago when I attended church and camp with Pam George. Just seeing his picture in the paper brought back many precious memories of him and his family and camp. I can still picture his laugh, his humor and i always thought of him as a "gentle giant" among men. May God's love surround all of you in your time of sorrow...God Bless each and everyone of you.
Theresa Vickers
January 11th 2006
steiovickers@aol.com
Arv was a coworker and dear friend of mine at Goodwill. I remember one comment made by one of our supervisors concerning Arv that will always stick in my mind. Even though our supervisor was not a Christian she stated that she always admired Arv for the quiet way he lived his Christianity, showing Christ's love and values not through preaching but through his example and every decision he made, even at work. Arv truly walked the walk. Now Arv is walking with God in heaven, of that I am confident and consoled.
Dawn Scott
January 11th 2006
dscott@goodwillgr.org
Arv actually hired me into Goodwill Industries. I will grateful for him and his sarcastic sense of humor. Never would a smile not be on my face when Arv was around.
Sara Van Drie
January 11th 2006
svandrie@goodwillgr.org
Arv was a coworker for many years at Goodwill and he is missed by all who had the opportunity to know him. Arv brightened everyones day with his humor. One of the many fond memories I have of Arv was.... My office was located down the hallway from his and so I would see him every evening when he left work and every night I would tell him to have a good night and he would always say to me "don't tell me what to do" we would both laugh and wish each other a good night. Arv was role model for me of the true meaning of Christianity and I will carry that with me for a lifetime. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.
Janet Wildeboer
January 11th 2006
jwildeboer@yahoo.com
Mr Anderson was a neighbor, and we knew him from EKH.
Brad Benson
January 11th 2006
BWBigfella@msn.com
I played football at East Kentwood for Coach Anderson from 1977-1979. I will always remember him as a coach who truly cared about his players, and also as a wonderful person. To his family, I am very sorry for your loss, and my thoughts and prayers go out to you.
Joslyn
January 11th 2006
jozziebabe@hotmail.com
My memory is also of Arv at Goodwill. I started working as a receptionist there & Arv always had some comment to make me smile,. (He was always good at bringing a smile to someone's face.) My favorite is when he'd get in the elevator and say "going up!" b/c our elevator only goes down from the receptionist floor. I will truly miss Arv.
Mary Welling-Bonney
January 11th 2006
mwellingbonney@yahoo.com
When i came to work at Goodwill, Arv was my boss. He was so much like my father, it was like getting a chance to be with my dad again. He and I developed a strong working relationship and a stronger friendship. I was truly blessed to have known him. Even after I left there five years ago, we kept in touch by e-mail every now and then. The world is little colder today because he isn't here to warm it with his love and laughter. i will truly miss him and keep him in my heart always.
Dan Melville
February 15th 2006
danmelv@yahoo.com
Last year when I read the article about " Coach " Anderson's work with Goodwill it came as no surprise of his being recognized. It has been 35 years since I played for the Falcons Football team but every once in awhile I reflect on those years and Mr. Anderson always comes to mind as someone who made an impact in my life. He was what a coach should be but unfortunately is lacking too often today. A kind and gentle man who loved and cared for his students and athletes. He impacted so many young people and will always be remembered for his smile and warm personality. His Christian walk was shown many years ago and it is biitersweet knowing he is gone from us. We who life's paths intersected with Mr. Anderson's were enriched and are better for the experience. His reward in heaven is a result of his faith in our Saviour. We were rewarded because we were allowed to know him. His family and close friends know how blessed they are to be part of him. May God bless his family during this time of loss and celebration of his life.
Jan Middleton Switzer
January 26th 2006
janricks5654@comcast.net
I only just became aware of the passing of Arv into the presence of Jesus. Arv was my guidance counselor at EKHS. Several times he comforted me when I ended up in his office in tears over some teenage angst. He was instrumental in getting me involved in Young Life where I came to know Jesus, and I attended Bible Study in his home which helped me to get grounded in my new faith. I can not imagine what my life would be like without knowing Jesus, and I am thankful for everything Arv did that helped me to know and grow in Him. I look forward to seeing him in heaven some day. I am praying for his family.
Craig E. Andeerson
January 26th 2006
ceadma@earthlink.net
I was so saddened to read today on the Covenant Web page of Arv's death. I remembere him from North Park days where we lived together in Burgh Hall. I so enjoyed his friendship. We were both born in '39 and began North Park in 1957. Over the years we have had little contact, but when his mother, moved to Covenant Village in Northbrook, IL a few years ago, our paths crossed again, as my mother also lived there. Our mothers shared the same names (including maiden names): Hazel (Peterson) Anderson. Occasionally their mail would get mixed up. Arv and I met a couple of times when he was down from Michigan to visit his Mom at CV. He was always such a warm, good-natured and gracious human being--so caring of others. The love of Christ shown brightly in his life. Today I can still see his warm smile. To you Nancy and the children, please accept these belated but heartfelt condolences. May the God he loved and served now comfort your hearts and give you peace. He ran the race with joy with faithfulness, and courage. I know how you will miss him. Peace to his memory.
Craig Anderson
Marilyn (Olson) Peterson
January 20th 2006
mormorpete@msn.com
Arv was a friend from college days at North Park. I from Oregon and he from Michigan but our dads were friends. God lived and walked through Arv even through his college days. He was as gentle, kind and loving then, as you describe him of "yesterday". So thankful he has graduated to His Heavenly Home. No more sickness or pain or sorrow. Our prayers are for comfort for Nancy and his family. Marilyn and Gary too.
Jan Kempe
January 19th 2006
Best big brother a girl could have. I am so proud of him...of the way he lived his life and made a difference for so many. I am thankful to God for giving me such an awesome brother.
Lance Byers
January 18th 2006
lance_byers@hotmail.com
I only knew Arv for a short time while working at Goodwill and what a perfect place for a person with so much good will. I remember interviewing with him for another position within GW and we mostly talked of sports and then connected on the fact that he taught and counseled my cousin Loy Vaught at E. Kentwood who later became a successful basketball player for University of Michigan, LA CLippers, Detroit Pistons and finally Washington Wizards. God bless him and his family. He will be missed.
Kim Wietke Galdes
January 18th 2006
pgaldes@juno.com
I was a teacher and coach at EK, where I met Arv. He was a kind and caring man, demonstrating the true heart of an educator. Teachers and students benefitted from his example as a man of God. My sympathy to his family, especially Julie, whom I knew as a student/athlete. Kim
Lee Bishop Nolte
January 16th 2006
noltel@progressiveae.com
Mr. Anderson was my geometry teacher at Kentwood in 1962 and it was the best class I ever had. He was such a good teacher and he was so much fun. I was getting 'A's and argued with him that if I made 100% on every test he should give me an A+ and he said he didn't believe in giving A+'s which made me more determined to score a perfect grade on every assignment and test. After sparing the entire year I finally received my A+. I was a cheerleader so saw him in action every Friday night with the football team and he truly was an inspiration to all of us.
January 15th 2006
Mr. Anderson was my guidance counselor in HS at EKHS (class of 1976). He helped with my class scheduling for my pre-med courses. I attended Calvin College after EKHS and now enjoy a family practice in Muskegon. Praying for you in your loss and know that God is caring for him now.
Tom Watkins
Tom Cowger
January 14th 2006
thomas.cowger@sbcglobal.net
Arv was the first Church Chairman I knew as a young pastor. What a way to start! He was very sensitive toward me, my wife Deb and what life is like serving as a pastor in a busy church. He encouraged me, took time to be with me and listen.He was so wise and kind, On top of it all we could talk sports together, love Jesus and have a good time.
Jim Fretheim
January 14th 2006
Arv was a model of what it means to be a Christian servant. I thank God for his witness and compassion for those in need.
Jim Fretheim
Margie Brooks
January 13th 2006
I remember Mr. Anderson from Kentwood High School.(1967) I never had him for a teacher, but always remember him with his kind smile and walking down the hall to classes, He always gave a nod or hello. I remember thinking he must be a very nice man. After reading some of the memories, I'm sure he was... and will be missed. My thoughts and prayers to the Anderson family
Connie Udell
January 13th 2006
udellcor@aquinas.edu
When I think of Arv, this verse from a Hallmark greeting card comes to mind.
CELEBRATION OF LIFE
A life is like a song we write
In our own tone and key,
Each life we touch reflects a note
That forms the melody.
We choose the theme and chorus,
Of the song to bear our name,
And each will have a special sound,
No two can be the same,
So when someone we love departs,
In memory we find
Their song plays on within the hearts
Of those they leave behind.
Arv was a gentle, compasionate spirit with a sense of humor and a big friendly smile. He was a neighbor, a guidance counselor to our three children at Kentwood High School, a
fellow believer, an example of living a Christ centered life.
We will all miss you, but your memory (song) will live on in our hearts.
Paul M. Hillman
January 13th 2006
bwi@aol.com
Tears are sometimes as mighty as words. How can I forget Arv crying as he prayed, read Scripture, or talked about a person in need? He was a man of the heart and passionate about serving God. He was a wonderful encourager. If I were to write the history of my life, Arv would deserve a chapter. He believed in me, supported me, and directed me toward pastoral ministry. After Arv became ill, we had several discussions about death and heaven. While Arv deeply loved his earthly family, he keenly anticipated being with his Lord. That thought sometimes brought him to tears. And when it did, it watered my soul and gave me renewed determination to live for God. His tears have washed over many lives, and now that he is gone, I cry for his company but I know that God is happy—he will have more room for new bottles of tears.
Martha Peterson Modene
January 13th 2006
rondini@netonecom.net
Arv was blessed to belong to an exceptional family. I don't just say this because we were cousins, but because his parents and siblings exhibited many of the same traits that I see mentioned for Arv. The Anderson family used to descend on our house every year at Thanksgiving, along with a host of other relatives. Honestly, this was a family which I was always happy to see arrive. Arv was the kind, gentle, big-hearted kind of cousin that a shy little girl could climb up next to on the couch and snuggle up to and feel comfortable and loved, never a pest or nuisance. Arv did always have a beautiful smile and a wonderful speaking voice (like Uncle Dan) that made one want to just sit and listen to him talk. I always appreciated that Arvin was never afraid to talk of his faith. His life is a living testimony of his love for his Lord. I'm sorry that we lost touch over the last years, but my memories are, and always will be, of the warm and loving man of God that I was blessed to be able to claim as family.
Art Kingsley
January 13th 2006
aking78665@aol
I am sorry to hear of Arvs' passing. I was lucky to have Arv as a Sunday school teacher many years ago. I remember he took our class to a Tigers game, my first. A bunch of us piled into his VW for the trip. We had a wonderful time. I will always think of Arvin fondly, and as someone who made a differance. With sympathy, Art Kingsley
Stephanie Thompson
January 13th 2006
s2thomp@hotmail.com
Arv was an obedient agent of God who, as a neighbor and guidance counselor, led me to apply to North Park even though my heart was desiring to go elsewhere. I did end up at North Park where my life was changed drastically: I met my husband there, was led to attend Seminary and was embraced by a Christian community unlike any other I had experienced. I initially made a decision to follow Christ through the Yough Life program he helped establish at my highschool. His sense of humor and friendship are what drew me to him and his obedience to following the leading of the Holy Spirit is what influenced my life and continues to mark my life today.
Nancy Epstein
January 13th 2006
nmepstein@sbcglobal.net
I feel as though I have known Arv all my life, from the early time at Portage Lake Bible Camp when my mother helped Hazel with cooking and we lived there the whole summer until recently when I saw Arv at First Covenant. Arv always had a special place in my heart. His ready and warm smile and gentleness of spirit was so evident. Even my husband Joel, who only knew Arv in passing, admired and felt this warmth. We will miss him and send our prayers to strengthen you. He is now in the arms of our loving Father and we will see him once again. Praise be to God!
Gary Walter
January 13th 2006
gbwalter@msn.com
Arv always just jumped in and did what needed to be done. His own team spirit caused him to get others on the team as well. He paved the way for churches to join together to plant new churches throughout Michigan and beyond. A great example of an obedient, humble sevant of people and God.
Gary Walter
Sally Young
January 12th 2006
YoungFootballNut@aol.com
I am his sister-in-law from Calif. and as a family we have so many wonderful memories of doing fun things together. He paid for my twin and I to fly to Michigan in March for Nancy's birthday and I am so very glad I got to see him then also. We were up very late every night playing games and laughing - he never gave up! I can't believe he is gone, but I have that blessed hope of seeing him again in Heaven - Thank God! Love you all, Jeff, Brian, Julie, and Nancy and I will be praying for you! I am so very sad I could not be there for his "celebration service"!
Amy Miller
January 12th 2006
lukeamy@charter.net
Arv would always tell me I talked too much and I always promised that I would keep it short...he truly loved to tease me because I could never keep it short:) Even when we didn't agree on something, Arv would listen, he always let you know that he valued you. Arv had a story for every occasion, something that was going to teach you something, or make you cry, or laugh--his face would literally light up....I will really miss that. I feel truly blessed to have my life touched by Arv...peace to you Mr. Anderson and peace to your family...
Glen Anderson
January 12th 2006
superswede56@sbcglobal.net
I met Arv the fall of 1957 on the football practice field at North Park College. I was a sophomore lineman and Arv was a freshman center. On the other side of Arv. was another Anderson, Chuck.
For the next 3 years for 10 weeks in the fall we 3 Anderson's had the time of our lives on and off the field. That smile and sparkle in his eyes as we walked back in the huddle for the next play will never be forgotten.
Calvin Mills
January 12th 2006
cmills@goodwillgr.org
Arv was always there when I or anyone else needed anything. He always made you comfortable to talk to him about anything, whether it was work related or personal. Knowing Arv has made me a better person. I will truly miss him.
Alice,Jenni & Bekki
January 12th 2006
We were at Goodwill and he was a nice person to work with. We remember Mr. Anderson as a kind person.
Cliff & Pat Soderlind
January 12th 2006
soderlind@austin.rr.com
Cliff remembers how very kind Arvin was to his brother, Fred.
How he praises God for Arvin's life. Pat fondly remembers working at camp one summer with the Anderson family. What great people! How God's love shone through Arvin's life!
George Waite - GRCC
January 12th 2006
I met Arv soon after he started working for Goodwill and we started to work together as partners to assist adults in learning new skills and getting to work. I appreciated his experience, honesty and commitment to stay focused on our tasks. We found a common theme around sports that we always made a connection with. We always atlked about going golfing but never made it. I will miss Arv. I plan to follow his lead and use his passion for helping students/adults in my everyday work.
Tom Wilkerson
January 12th 2006
tom@wilkast.com
I knew Arv as my high school counselor, football coach, and later we worked together in Kentwood Young Life. As I look back, I am grateful for certain people that I have met along the way. Arv is one of those. My most vivid memories of Arv are on the football field. He had a way of challenging me to be more. The phrase I remember him saying to me is, "Sell Out!" "Don't leave anything out there!" Even today, I can still hear him say that. I know that he motivated me to give more of myself, because you got the sense that Arv was giving all of himself. He pushed you, because he cared about you, and that's what made him a great coach. He was very passionate on the field and I know he was very passionate about his family, his work, and his faith. If you want to know what kind of person Arv was, look at his kids. You will see the legacy of a man that got it right!
Jennifer
January 12th 2006
gnysgrl@yahoo.com
Arv was a very special person to all that he met. I did not know him well but he always gave the feeling that you could just walk and talk if needed. I have a poem that is kept on my refridgerator to remind me of how special everyone that we meet is.
"They say it takes a minute to find a special person,
An hour to appreciate them,
A day to love them,
But then an entire life to forget them."
Arv will never be forgotten.
Kathie Jordan
January 12th 2006
kjordan@goodwillgr.org
Arv is a "Giant of all Giants."I will always remember his incredible selfless spirit. He truely walked the talk and was the greatest person to see the positive in all people. I will never forget Arv telling me " you can accomplish anything you put your heart and mind to." You are so right Arv. Arv was an honest and humble man with a great sense of humor. You will never be forgotten Arv and your legacy will live on forever. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Kathie Jordan
Sue
January 12th 2006
sdobbs@goodwillgr.org
I had the honor and privilege to work with Arv at Goodwill for many years. He truly was an extrodinary man with a huge heart and a world of compassion for those around him (not only to those we serve but every employee as well). As you read all of the above memories and those to follow, it is evident of the impact that Arv made on everyone around him. I will truly miss Arv and my heart goes out to his family and friends!!!
John Van Dyke
January 12th 2006
vandykej@ci.kentwood.mi.us
Mr. Anderson was my math teacher at Kentwood and to this day I still remember when he read a selection from the Bible to us and shared his faith. He truly did live out his belief and was a fine example. I extend my thoughts and prayers to his family.
Tom O'Connell
January 12th 2006
ygtommy@yahoo.com
I had the priviledge of getting to know Arv and family during his Kentwood years; Young Life, football and more.
What a tremendous guy and such a brother of Christ. To Nancy and the entire family; know that we thought the world of Arv and he touched SO many lives in his warm quiet way. God bless you all and thanks for sharing him with our whole Kentwood community.
Tommy O '79
Murray Lindhout
January 12th 2006
SailingBme@yahoo.com
I am a teacher at East Kentwood who had the priveledge of teaching one of his children, Brian, math. Arv was genuine. He cared for all his students as much as his own. He was an inspiration in the life of so many of us here at East Kentwood, not only as a colleage and mentor, but as a friend. We greatly miss him now, but already look forward to our future reunion. God blessed this man, and may God bless his loving family.
Bob Bach
January 12th 2006
bbach@goldrush.com
Arv was a dear friend, valued teammate, and an inspiring example of faith and courage. "We'll understand it, all by and by."
Debra (Gehrke) Parden
January 12th 2006
rdparden@sbcglobal.net
Mr. Anderson was my counselor in High School, and he was the most thoughtful, kindest person I had every meant. He really listen to what I had to say, gave me direction for my life, and never judged me. He always had a smile on his face, it was alway a joy to see him in the hallways at Kentwood High School. Later in life I ran into him at Redeemer Convenant Church in Gaines Twp. and he remembered me! What a memory! He also had my two daughters at the new East Kentwood High School and he remembered them! He always took an interest in your life and what you were doing. You will be missed Mr. Anderson.
Reginald "Tex" Graham
January 11th 2006
grahamrl@ncats.net
Arv was a friend, coworker and a person that I could talk freely to about anything. Arv was always positive and determined to do the best that could possibly be done for the folks that he worked with and for. I feel a deep personal loss and feel selfish about it. My heart and soul go out to Nancy and the family. God Bless
Sara Hillman
January 11th 2006
greeklassie@yahoo.com
I knew Arv best when I was a teenager at Redeemer Covenant Church in the 1990s. He was one of the adults who always took the time to say hello and ask me how I was every week at church. He made me feel loved and a part of the church community. I think that is what he did for a lot of the youth, and I'll always remember his warm smile and sense of humor.
Sharon (Noorthoek) VanDyke
January 11th 2006
sharonvandyke222@yahoo.com
My memories go back a to a 6th grader at Portage Lake Bible Camp with Arv singing at the campfires and giving his testimony. The song i distinctly remember was "Open Up Them Pearly Gates". I don't remember if that was the title, but i sure remember all of the words...I was blessed knowing him all those many years ago when I attended church and camp with Pam George. Just seeing his picture in the paper brought back many precious memories of him and his family and camp. I can still picture his laugh, his humor and i always thought of him as a "gentle giant" among men. May God's love surround all of you in your time of sorrow...God Bless each and everyone of you.
Theresa Vickers
January 11th 2006
steiovickers@aol.com
Arv was a coworker and dear friend of mine at Goodwill. I remember one comment made by one of our supervisors concerning Arv that will always stick in my mind. Even though our supervisor was not a Christian she stated that she always admired Arv for the quiet way he lived his Christianity, showing Christ's love and values not through preaching but through his example and every decision he made, even at work. Arv truly walked the walk. Now Arv is walking with God in heaven, of that I am confident and consoled.
Dawn Scott
January 11th 2006
dscott@goodwillgr.org
Arv actually hired me into Goodwill Industries. I will grateful for him and his sarcastic sense of humor. Never would a smile not be on my face when Arv was around.
Sara Van Drie
January 11th 2006
svandrie@goodwillgr.org
Arv was a coworker for many years at Goodwill and he is missed by all who had the opportunity to know him. Arv brightened everyones day with his humor. One of the many fond memories I have of Arv was.... My office was located down the hallway from his and so I would see him every evening when he left work and every night I would tell him to have a good night and he would always say to me "don't tell me what to do" we would both laugh and wish each other a good night. Arv was role model for me of the true meaning of Christianity and I will carry that with me for a lifetime. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.
Janet Wildeboer
January 11th 2006
jwildeboer@yahoo.com
Mr Anderson was a neighbor, and we knew him from EKH.
Brad Benson
January 11th 2006
BWBigfella@msn.com
I played football at East Kentwood for Coach Anderson from 1977-1979. I will always remember him as a coach who truly cared about his players, and also as a wonderful person. To his family, I am very sorry for your loss, and my thoughts and prayers go out to you.
Joslyn
January 11th 2006
jozziebabe@hotmail.com
My memory is also of Arv at Goodwill. I started working as a receptionist there & Arv always had some comment to make me smile,. (He was always good at bringing a smile to someone's face.) My favorite is when he'd get in the elevator and say "going up!" b/c our elevator only goes down from the receptionist floor. I will truly miss Arv.
Mary Welling-Bonney
January 11th 2006
mwellingbonney@yahoo.com
When i came to work at Goodwill, Arv was my boss. He was so much like my father, it was like getting a chance to be with my dad again. He and I developed a strong working relationship and a stronger friendship. I was truly blessed to have known him. Even after I left there five years ago, we kept in touch by e-mail every now and then. The world is little colder today because he isn't here to warm it with his love and laughter. i will truly miss him and keep him in my heart always.
