Dennis Faucher
Oct 14th 1954 - Jul 14th 2012
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Colleen Palmer
November 11th 2012
We took a moment to drive around Burcham Hills and salute the memories of you today. We had no idea you had passed this summer. We know you will missed. Your welcoming smiles, hugs and hearty greetings made many feel welcome as they entered those doors to the Health Center. You provided rest and healing for the aged and respite for the families who visited. Yours was probably a thankless job on many occasions as the aging process is often fraught with downhill turns. We salute you in our hearts and memories. Soldier on...
Lisa Thelen
July 29th 2012
Dennis, you were a wonderful advocate for our residents and their families, as well as all the staff, I will miss your smile,you will always have a place in my heart, untill we meet again.
Brenda Finch
July 29th 2012
My dear Dennis,
Thank you for being a part of my life when we were with Provincial House/Beverly Enterprises. You were the most remarkable, caring,loving, compassionate person and I am richer for having known you. I will always remember how you planned a special birthday celebration for me at work complete with an office full of balloons and a limousine ride to lunch. You always went the extra mile to make everyone feel special. I worked with many great people and you were a BONUS! Thanks for the memories my friend.
You are a rare jewel and I will think of you often as you will now be making everyone in Heaven feel special as only you can.
Until we meet again...............
James & Le'sleigh Farhat
July 28th 2012
"Death is nothing at all. It does not count.
I have only slipped away into the next room.
Everything remains as it was.The old life that we lived so fondly together is untouched, unchanged. Whatever we were to each other, that we are still. Call me by the old familiar name.
Speak of me in the easy way which you always used.
Put no sorrow in your tone. Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes that we enjoyed together. Play, smile, think of me, pray for me. Let my name be ever the household word that it always was. Let it be spoken without effort
Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same as it ever was.
There is unbroken continuity. Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? I am but waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near, just around the corner.
All is well. Nothing is hurt; nothing is lost. One brief moment and all will be as it was before. How we shall laugh at the trouble of parting, when we meet again". Henry Scott Holland
Carol Dunn
July 27th 2012
My mother was a resident at Burcham Hills for 6 years, the last year in the Health Center. Dennis called me by my name when he saw me. I agree with all the comments printed about Dennis. After my mother's death when I saw Dennis at Burcham Hills or elsewhere he always had time to speak with me. I'll miss his smile and kind words. Carol Dunn
Shaun Smith
July 25th 2012
Dennis,
Thank you for bringing so much joy, kindness, love, generosity, and especially laughter to all of us who have come in contact with you. I too am one of the many who was lucky enough to have known you, and from all of these wonderful, heartfelt stories everyone is telling not only were you an amazing friend to us all, you were truly a remarkable and very special person. I know your spirit will continue to shine on all of us who love you and will miss you beyond words.
Shaun Smith
Jeffrey Sweet
July 25th 2012
The World has lost a Legend, but Heaven has gained one...
Krista Krause
July 25th 2012
Dear Dennis,
You were the best neighbor anyone could wish for. I smile when I think of our early morning middle-of--Cambridge Road chats, each of us in our bath robes, waving to to our
Governors as they headed off to work.
A true friend. How lucky and thankful I am that God put you in my path, yet my heart aches as I miss you so very much. You are irreplaceable.
God Bless You Dennis-
Love,
Krista
Mike Perrelli and Family
July 24th 2012
I miss seeing you Dennis.
Your forever friend and barber.
Janice Lange Gavinski
July 24th 2012
Dear Dennis, I was so looking forward to seeing you at our 40 year class reunion; you were deeply missed. You were a wonderful friend to all of us; your smile and enthusiasm for life will live forever in my heart. I will always remember your parties and your enthusiasm for our outstanding marching band. I can still see you walking the halls of Mona Shores with a classmate on each arm; everyone loved you! It was obvious from reading your life story that you lived an exceptionally full life; you gave so much to so many. Rest in peace dear friend!
Kathy De Witt McKinney
July 24th 2012
Dear Dennis I was so hoping to see you at our 40th Class Reunion. Your smile lights up a room. You will be so missed but thankfully we have our memories.
Mario Izzo
July 23rd 2012
If lucky in our lives,we are able to call someone FRIEND with whom we are able to share all. A very special person we hold deep in our hearts; love and trust to stand by our side, to share both our hopes and our deepest fears. For over thirty years Dennis and I were blessed to have that friendship.
Kate (Kathie Cook) Wilczek
July 23rd 2012
Oh Dennis, I see your beautiful smile as I think of you. How sad I am for me and for all with your passing. I was so planning to dance the night away with you last Saturday, just like we did 41 years ago at our Junior Prom!!! You were such a good friend and it saddens me to know you spent time in Florida and we could have had fun in the sun together. You were a joy to us all and loved dearly. I hold our time together dear to my heart and am so grateful for the wonderful, special, lovely friendship we shared as teenagers. Dennis, I will always love you and cherish my memories of you. See you someday my friend.
Nansie Strobel
July 23rd 2012
Awe, this is difficult for us mere mortals, to no longer have that wonderful soul beckoning you over, making room and patting the seat next to him to sit. That arm that surrounded your shoulder and hugged your heart. It was those moments, that Dennis twinkle of the eye, the look he gave when he saw you, the smile when you parted that assured the next time will be just as fun if not naughty. Dennis is going to be waiting for me to meet up with him, and I’ll be that lucky girl again.
CL Adams/Dave Feight
July 22nd 2012
Happy Trails my friend. We are sure you will spice up heaven when you get there. You sure will be missed by many. You touched so many lives with your kindness, friendship, and personality. We all have many wonderful memories and stories of you. It's been great being a part of your life. See you in the next life.
Leigh J Smith
July 22nd 2012
To my precious friend
You were so very thoughtful to my whole family. Giving us affection and kindness always. Sweet Dennis, may flights of angels send you to your rest. I will love and miss you, and keep you in my heart forever.
Leigh J Smith
Diane K. Burns
July 22nd 2012
So many great memories of Dennis over 3 decades. Numerous adventures in the limosine with Dennis, David and Cindy to fine restaurants around the state of Michigan. We sure did have fun weather it be traveling to yet another great night on the town, sun bathing by the pool on Raby Road or just hanging out talking about the next event. Dennis you will be missed but there is one thing I do know, you and Cindy have already picked up from where the two of you left off. My love to you both xoxo Diane
Janet F.
July 22nd 2012
My mother, Marge, spent the last few years of her life at Burcham Hills in the health center. Dennis was a bright spot in her life and in mine when I visited. He was always friendly and caring and definitely went the extra mile for the residents. I always knew my mother was getting excellent care because
such a kind man was in charge. Thank you, Dennis.
Sincerely, Janet
David G Strattard
July 21st 2012
My beloved Dennis. My partner, my friend, my confidant. Youv'e played so many rolls in my life your absence is unfathonable. The memories we made together as our relationship morphed through its many stages over the years are so treasured words alone can't begin to express the loss I feel. I know you will be watching over all of us who will miss you so much. It was an honor and a privilage to have been a part of your life and to have shared so many happy times. Until we meet again,
Love forever, David
Father Mark Inglot
July 21st 2012
I frequently visited Burcham Hills as pastor of St. Thomas Aquinas/St. John Church & Student Center here is East Lansing. Dennis would join us at St. John's for Mass on many occasions. Dennis' work at Burcham was both a career and a vocation. He ministered to residents, family and visitors. My day was always better after running into Dennis wherever and whenever that might be. He was a blessing to our community and will be
missed. May he rest in peace!
The Rev. Canon Dr. Gwynne Guibord
July 20th 2012
It has been many many years since I last saw Dennis. Too many! Despite the separation of time and distance, Dennis always carried a place in my heart for his graciousness and generosity. His kindness to my sister, Cindy Guibord, during her battle with leukemia and his presence for our family upon her death carried us through a very difficult time. Thank you, Dennis.
And now, the two of you have caught up with each other and must be having one heck of a party!
"Rest eternal grant to Dennis O Lord;
And let perpetual shine upon him.
May the soul of Dennis, and the souls of all departed,
through the mercy of God, reast in peace."
Jim and Teresa Schell
July 20th 2012
We will miss you my friend. We were never able to get that dinner done. That is something we will regret forever. It was your turn to buy. We will miss you more than you could have ever imagined. Love, Jim and Teresa Schell
Paula Barrett - Legard
July 20th 2012
Oh Dennis, what wonderful childhood we had!
I still talk about the Indy 500 sitting on the curb with the Old Lady and Old man masks on!!! Can't remember how many fender benders we caused....
Will miss you dearly
Cindy (Bean) Jakeway
July 20th 2012
I have such wonderful memories of my friend Dennis..his great smile ,laugh and generous spirit.. Even though we didn't see each other very often, when we did it was like we never were apart. He gave the greatest hugs and made you feel like I was the most important person in the room at the time. I will never forget the great parties and the fun times we had laughing, singing stupid songs and just talking!!Dennis you will forever be in my heart.
Jim Convissor
July 20th 2012
Dennis leaves the world a better place due to his love and celebration of others. Dennis leaves a hole in our heart that cannot be filled by anyone else. We are comforted knowing that Dennis was greeted by the many friends and loved ones who went before him. He will never be forgotten.
July 19th 2012
"Oh look...Shrimp"-Dennis
R Cole Bouck
July 19th 2012
I am very sad...
This may sound odd, but I can remember the exact date I met Dennis - May 27, 1982 - 30 years ago... That Thursday night was my very first time I ever set foot into a gay bar. 'Trammps' sat where the Lugnuts Stadium is now, and Dennis worked the door, along with Sin Cooper. Dennis was a warm face, and reassuring person for a young Adrian College sophomore stepping into a very different world, back in a very different time. I spent that summer coming back-and-forth between Owosso and Lansing, to hang out in the only place I knew of (and in the only real way there was) to meet other gay people at the time. A foreign concept in today's internet world.
We remained good friends ever since, his presence was always larger than life, and I will miss him a great deal!
Continue on your FABULOUS journey, Dennis! I''ll catch up with you later on!
Esther R.
July 19th 2012
Burcham Hills has lost a treasured member of its' community with the passing of Dennis. He always asked about my family and expressed caring and concern for them. I will miss our friendly chats whenever he visited 3rd floor. Dennis was always particular about our names being posted but we would occasionally forget. Just seeing Dennis on the floor would jog our memory and we would laugh about that! God Bless you, Dennis. We will all miss you.
Judy McQueen
July 19th 2012
Dennis was our long-time friend of many years, and we miss him already. One of our fondest times with him was on a Mexican Riviera cruise which I (Judy) escorted long ago. He kept us all busy, and was often the host of midnight parties on the top deck. He had great style, and clever comments for everyone. He always made events happier with his ready smile and warm hugs. We have lost a most special person who will not be forgotten!
Judy McQueen & Vern Fesco
John Kodeski
July 19th 2012
Dennis was the epicenter of our community. Always a gracious host. Thank you for the many wonderful celebrations kicking off the holiday season with Silver Bells in the City, it will never be the same. Thankfully Dave and I were lucky enough to have dinner with Dennis a few weeks ago and got a full dose of Dennis' charm and wit as only Dennis could deliver. You will be dearly missed my friend. My heart is heavy in this time of reflection and celebration of your magnificent life. I am so proud to have been a part of it along with my children and partner Dave.
We will miss you dearly,
John Kodeski & Dave Foe
Samantha and Lillian Kodeski
TOMMY HOADLEY
July 19th 2012
MY THOUGHTS ARE WITH THOSE LEFT BEHIND. DENNIS WAS SUCH A LARGE AND SOCIAL PRESENSE IN LIFE BRINGING JOY AND A SMILE TO ALL HE ENCOUNTERED. I'M SO GLAD DENNIS WAS ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS WHO MADE IT TO MY RECENT BIRTHDAY DINNER, THE BIRTHDAY WAS THE BEST I HAD IN MANY YEARS. WE HAVE BEEN GOING OUT TO DINNER ATLEAST ONCE A MONTH TO KEEP IN TOUCH AND NOW I'M SO GLAD WE DO. MISSING YOU DEAR FRIEND OF NEARLY 40 YEARS. LOVE TOMMY
Nancy Shea
July 19th 2012
Oh Dennis, how we will miss you! Having worked with you for over 9 years was a great pleasure. You brought a smile to everyone you came in contact with. Your flare for style will definitely be missed as well as your decorating skills. I will mostly miss a very dear friend.
Rev. Kent Lederer
July 19th 2012
Thanks, Dennis, for your ability to bring people together so they enjoyed one another as much as you enjoyed them! We are all the more because of you...surely you were Spirit's light and love expressing!
Israel Velez
July 19th 2012
I had the opportunity to meet and work with Dennis for several years at Burcham Hills. He was a quality person who went out of his way to make everyone feel welcome and important. He was quick with a smile and a kind word. I will miss him and remember him fondly.
Pat & Molly Prichard
July 19th 2012
We were so shocked and saddened in hearing about the passing of Dennis. He was always concerned about everyone elses well being. He continually made sure our mother was taken care of at Burcham Hills going above and beyond as only he could do. He was a generous caring individual and put others first before himself. We are going to miss seeing him and we will forever be grateful for all he has done for us. Our Deepest Sympathy!
Russell Overton
July 19th 2012
Dennis once remarked, “Oh, you’re serving shrimp; it must be a party!” What made that event, and every other event a “party” was not the shrimp, but Dennis. Dennis could walk into a room and create instant revelry. I always knew upon arriving at an event that Dennis’s presence would mean laughter, fun, and the best of times. The smallest gathering of friends instantly became the event of the season when Dennis was there. Events were special not because of any particular occasion, but because Dennis exuded a joyous spirit wherever he went. I have always been amazed at the number of people whose lives he touched and the throngs of people from all walks of life that considered him their friend. I will sorely miss his beaming smile, characteristic laugh, and wry sense of humor. Rest in peace, my friend.
Jamie Kurtis
July 19th 2012
What do you say about a person who is part of the memories of your life? I can't remember not knowing Dennis. Always the perfect host and the life of every party. Here was a person who took the time to know an individual and lift them up by saying just the right thing. It is hard to think of Lansing without such an extraordianry person. I along with many will miss him greatly. Farewell my friend.
Gary Troia
July 19th 2012
I only knew Dennis for a few short years, so I was not as fortunate as many of his close friends who knew him much longer, which is a terrible loss for me. Dennis had such charm and magnetism that was a delight to experience, and he always had kind words for everyone he encountered. We need more individuals like Dennis in our world, but the one and only is gone and I will miss him.
craig stevens corey
July 19th 2012
Dennis was the first person to volunteer his services to Kent Love and me, when we launched Suits AND the City (an after-work networking business mixer) back in 2004. We were running the show by ourselves and were in dire need of help. Dennis was a natural, and his effusive personality helped to draw patrons to the monthly venues. After Kent and i both stepped down, Dennis remained on as a vital part of the organization and became the face of Suits AND the City with his monthly announcements. He had become in fact "the heart and soul" of the effort. I visited Dennis at the hospital two days before his death, and he was looking forward to going home in a day, or two. I never imagined it would be the last time I would ever see him. His absence is a painful reminder of what a wonderful guy he was. -Craig Stevens Corey
Bryan L. Crenshaw
July 19th 2012
Dennis was always a person that if you were down, his presence would lift you up. He never said a bad word about anyone, and was always willing to listen to those who needed and ear. I will always remember his smile and compassion that he gave to others.
Heaven has received a great person and he will be greatly missed here on earth.
Bryan
John & Vicki Boyd
July 19th 2012
We will never forget the many kindnesses and patience you showed toward our stepfather, Tom Tabler, and particularly our Mom, Jane Tabler, during Tom's continuing stay at Burcham. BH will never look so cheery at holiday times without your exquisite taste and touch. We will all miss you very much.
Cheryl Spalding
July 19th 2012
Dennis was my boss for nine years but he will be my friend forever. He was a great person who will surely be missed by many. Always had a hello for anyone who passed his office. Burcham has lost a treasure as have all of us. Rest in peace my wonderful friend. I love you.
Eric Spalding
July 19th 2012
Dennis was a great guy and a great boss, he always knew everyones name and always said hi and asked how you are doing, Burcham Hills will never be the same without him. Rest in peace Dennis.
CHERYL CROOKS
July 18th 2012
THE LOVE OF MY LIFE, I WILL MISS YOU!
CHER
Mike & Kara Johnson
July 18th 2012
Dennis, a guy who always had a smile on his face. We will never forget your generosity, especially sponsoring our wedding reception at the Country Club. Many memories that will last a lifetime. You'll be missed, friend.
July 18th 2012
Dennis Thank you for all the party and social events you hosted.
They added so much to your friends life.
Stan Van Kolken and Garry Miller
July 18th 2012
Dennis - larger than life - the host with the most - hit of any party - a friend for over three decades - you'll be missed.
Michael Beebe
July 18th 2012
Dear Dennis,
Rest in peace my wonderful friend. I will always remember your bright and cheery smile. You lit up the room of any social event you ever attended. I am so fortunate to have had you as my friend.
Danelle Lofton
July 18th 2012
Dennis was one of the greatest people that I have ever known; He had given people such as myself so many oppurtunities in life; He saw the good in people and brought that out: He truley was heaven sent. He was my friend,my Daddy and most of all my whole heart. He loved life and lived it to the fullest no regrets: He was Charlie and I was one of his Angels; He will forever be missed and no one can take his place. I will always keep his memory alive and he will forever remain in my heart. Dennis will always be my shining star.
Beth Secord
July 18th 2012
Working with Dennis and getting to know him on a personal level is something that I will always cherish. He was more than a coworker- he was a wonderful friend. I will never forget his ability to throw a fabulous party and entertain everyone in the room. His love for the staff and residents at Burcham Hills shined through in his efforts. He left us too soon and we will grieve the loss of our "Daddy Dennis"
Debbie Dault Mogdis
July 18th 2012
How can you say goodbye to a cousin / friend ~ I will miss you Denny,. Although we didn't get to see each other very often, the times we had were great and memorable. May you rest in peace, my friend!
Colleen Palmer
November 11th 2012
We took a moment to drive around Burcham Hills and salute the memories of you today. We had no idea you had passed this summer. We know you will missed. Your welcoming smiles, hugs and hearty greetings made many feel welcome as they entered those doors to the Health Center. You provided rest and healing for the aged and respite for the families who visited. Yours was probably a thankless job on many occasions as the aging process is often fraught with downhill turns. We salute you in our hearts and memories. Soldier on...
Lisa Thelen
July 29th 2012
Dennis, you were a wonderful advocate for our residents and their families, as well as all the staff, I will miss your smile,you will always have a place in my heart, untill we meet again.
Brenda Finch
July 29th 2012
My dear Dennis,
Thank you for being a part of my life when we were with Provincial House/Beverly Enterprises. You were the most remarkable, caring,loving, compassionate person and I am richer for having known you. I will always remember how you planned a special birthday celebration for me at work complete with an office full of balloons and a limousine ride to lunch. You always went the extra mile to make everyone feel special. I worked with many great people and you were a BONUS! Thanks for the memories my friend.
You are a rare jewel and I will think of you often as you will now be making everyone in Heaven feel special as only you can.
Until we meet again...............
James & Le'sleigh Farhat
July 28th 2012
"Death is nothing at all. It does not count.
I have only slipped away into the next room.
Everything remains as it was.The old life that we lived so fondly together is untouched, unchanged. Whatever we were to each other, that we are still. Call me by the old familiar name.
Speak of me in the easy way which you always used.
Put no sorrow in your tone. Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes that we enjoyed together. Play, smile, think of me, pray for me. Let my name be ever the household word that it always was. Let it be spoken without effort
Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same as it ever was.
There is unbroken continuity. Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? I am but waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near, just around the corner.
All is well. Nothing is hurt; nothing is lost. One brief moment and all will be as it was before. How we shall laugh at the trouble of parting, when we meet again". Henry Scott Holland
Carol Dunn
July 27th 2012
My mother was a resident at Burcham Hills for 6 years, the last year in the Health Center. Dennis called me by my name when he saw me. I agree with all the comments printed about Dennis. After my mother's death when I saw Dennis at Burcham Hills or elsewhere he always had time to speak with me. I'll miss his smile and kind words. Carol Dunn
Shaun Smith
July 25th 2012
Dennis,
Thank you for bringing so much joy, kindness, love, generosity, and especially laughter to all of us who have come in contact with you. I too am one of the many who was lucky enough to have known you, and from all of these wonderful, heartfelt stories everyone is telling not only were you an amazing friend to us all, you were truly a remarkable and very special person. I know your spirit will continue to shine on all of us who love you and will miss you beyond words.
Shaun Smith
Jeffrey Sweet
July 25th 2012
The World has lost a Legend, but Heaven has gained one...
Krista Krause
July 25th 2012
Dear Dennis,
You were the best neighbor anyone could wish for. I smile when I think of our early morning middle-of--Cambridge Road chats, each of us in our bath robes, waving to to our
Governors as they headed off to work.
A true friend. How lucky and thankful I am that God put you in my path, yet my heart aches as I miss you so very much. You are irreplaceable.
God Bless You Dennis-
Love,
Krista
Mike Perrelli and Family
July 24th 2012
I miss seeing you Dennis.
Your forever friend and barber.
Janice Lange Gavinski
July 24th 2012
Dear Dennis, I was so looking forward to seeing you at our 40 year class reunion; you were deeply missed. You were a wonderful friend to all of us; your smile and enthusiasm for life will live forever in my heart. I will always remember your parties and your enthusiasm for our outstanding marching band. I can still see you walking the halls of Mona Shores with a classmate on each arm; everyone loved you! It was obvious from reading your life story that you lived an exceptionally full life; you gave so much to so many. Rest in peace dear friend!
Kathy De Witt McKinney
July 24th 2012
Dear Dennis I was so hoping to see you at our 40th Class Reunion. Your smile lights up a room. You will be so missed but thankfully we have our memories.
Mario Izzo
July 23rd 2012
If lucky in our lives,we are able to call someone FRIEND with whom we are able to share all. A very special person we hold deep in our hearts; love and trust to stand by our side, to share both our hopes and our deepest fears. For over thirty years Dennis and I were blessed to have that friendship.
Kate (Kathie Cook) Wilczek
July 23rd 2012
Oh Dennis, I see your beautiful smile as I think of you. How sad I am for me and for all with your passing. I was so planning to dance the night away with you last Saturday, just like we did 41 years ago at our Junior Prom!!! You were such a good friend and it saddens me to know you spent time in Florida and we could have had fun in the sun together. You were a joy to us all and loved dearly. I hold our time together dear to my heart and am so grateful for the wonderful, special, lovely friendship we shared as teenagers. Dennis, I will always love you and cherish my memories of you. See you someday my friend.
Nansie Strobel
July 23rd 2012
Awe, this is difficult for us mere mortals, to no longer have that wonderful soul beckoning you over, making room and patting the seat next to him to sit. That arm that surrounded your shoulder and hugged your heart. It was those moments, that Dennis twinkle of the eye, the look he gave when he saw you, the smile when you parted that assured the next time will be just as fun if not naughty. Dennis is going to be waiting for me to meet up with him, and I’ll be that lucky girl again.
CL Adams/Dave Feight
July 22nd 2012
Happy Trails my friend. We are sure you will spice up heaven when you get there. You sure will be missed by many. You touched so many lives with your kindness, friendship, and personality. We all have many wonderful memories and stories of you. It's been great being a part of your life. See you in the next life.
Leigh J Smith
July 22nd 2012
To my precious friend
You were so very thoughtful to my whole family. Giving us affection and kindness always. Sweet Dennis, may flights of angels send you to your rest. I will love and miss you, and keep you in my heart forever.
Leigh J Smith
Diane K. Burns
July 22nd 2012
So many great memories of Dennis over 3 decades. Numerous adventures in the limosine with Dennis, David and Cindy to fine restaurants around the state of Michigan. We sure did have fun weather it be traveling to yet another great night on the town, sun bathing by the pool on Raby Road or just hanging out talking about the next event. Dennis you will be missed but there is one thing I do know, you and Cindy have already picked up from where the two of you left off. My love to you both xoxo Diane
Janet F.
July 22nd 2012
My mother, Marge, spent the last few years of her life at Burcham Hills in the health center. Dennis was a bright spot in her life and in mine when I visited. He was always friendly and caring and definitely went the extra mile for the residents. I always knew my mother was getting excellent care because
such a kind man was in charge. Thank you, Dennis.
Sincerely, Janet
David G Strattard
July 21st 2012
My beloved Dennis. My partner, my friend, my confidant. Youv'e played so many rolls in my life your absence is unfathonable. The memories we made together as our relationship morphed through its many stages over the years are so treasured words alone can't begin to express the loss I feel. I know you will be watching over all of us who will miss you so much. It was an honor and a privilage to have been a part of your life and to have shared so many happy times. Until we meet again,
Love forever, David
Father Mark Inglot
July 21st 2012
I frequently visited Burcham Hills as pastor of St. Thomas Aquinas/St. John Church & Student Center here is East Lansing. Dennis would join us at St. John's for Mass on many occasions. Dennis' work at Burcham was both a career and a vocation. He ministered to residents, family and visitors. My day was always better after running into Dennis wherever and whenever that might be. He was a blessing to our community and will be
missed. May he rest in peace!
The Rev. Canon Dr. Gwynne Guibord
July 20th 2012
It has been many many years since I last saw Dennis. Too many! Despite the separation of time and distance, Dennis always carried a place in my heart for his graciousness and generosity. His kindness to my sister, Cindy Guibord, during her battle with leukemia and his presence for our family upon her death carried us through a very difficult time. Thank you, Dennis.
And now, the two of you have caught up with each other and must be having one heck of a party!
"Rest eternal grant to Dennis O Lord;
And let perpetual shine upon him.
May the soul of Dennis, and the souls of all departed,
through the mercy of God, reast in peace."
Jim and Teresa Schell
July 20th 2012
We will miss you my friend. We were never able to get that dinner done. That is something we will regret forever. It was your turn to buy. We will miss you more than you could have ever imagined. Love, Jim and Teresa Schell
Paula Barrett - Legard
July 20th 2012
Oh Dennis, what wonderful childhood we had!
I still talk about the Indy 500 sitting on the curb with the Old Lady and Old man masks on!!! Can't remember how many fender benders we caused....
Will miss you dearly
Cindy (Bean) Jakeway
July 20th 2012
I have such wonderful memories of my friend Dennis..his great smile ,laugh and generous spirit.. Even though we didn't see each other very often, when we did it was like we never were apart. He gave the greatest hugs and made you feel like I was the most important person in the room at the time. I will never forget the great parties and the fun times we had laughing, singing stupid songs and just talking!!Dennis you will forever be in my heart.
Jim Convissor
July 20th 2012
Dennis leaves the world a better place due to his love and celebration of others. Dennis leaves a hole in our heart that cannot be filled by anyone else. We are comforted knowing that Dennis was greeted by the many friends and loved ones who went before him. He will never be forgotten.
July 19th 2012
"Oh look...Shrimp"-Dennis
R Cole Bouck
July 19th 2012
I am very sad...
This may sound odd, but I can remember the exact date I met Dennis - May 27, 1982 - 30 years ago... That Thursday night was my very first time I ever set foot into a gay bar. 'Trammps' sat where the Lugnuts Stadium is now, and Dennis worked the door, along with Sin Cooper. Dennis was a warm face, and reassuring person for a young Adrian College sophomore stepping into a very different world, back in a very different time. I spent that summer coming back-and-forth between Owosso and Lansing, to hang out in the only place I knew of (and in the only real way there was) to meet other gay people at the time. A foreign concept in today's internet world.
We remained good friends ever since, his presence was always larger than life, and I will miss him a great deal!
Continue on your FABULOUS journey, Dennis! I''ll catch up with you later on!
Esther R.
July 19th 2012
Burcham Hills has lost a treasured member of its' community with the passing of Dennis. He always asked about my family and expressed caring and concern for them. I will miss our friendly chats whenever he visited 3rd floor. Dennis was always particular about our names being posted but we would occasionally forget. Just seeing Dennis on the floor would jog our memory and we would laugh about that! God Bless you, Dennis. We will all miss you.
Judy McQueen
July 19th 2012
Dennis was our long-time friend of many years, and we miss him already. One of our fondest times with him was on a Mexican Riviera cruise which I (Judy) escorted long ago. He kept us all busy, and was often the host of midnight parties on the top deck. He had great style, and clever comments for everyone. He always made events happier with his ready smile and warm hugs. We have lost a most special person who will not be forgotten!
Judy McQueen & Vern Fesco
John Kodeski
July 19th 2012
Dennis was the epicenter of our community. Always a gracious host. Thank you for the many wonderful celebrations kicking off the holiday season with Silver Bells in the City, it will never be the same. Thankfully Dave and I were lucky enough to have dinner with Dennis a few weeks ago and got a full dose of Dennis' charm and wit as only Dennis could deliver. You will be dearly missed my friend. My heart is heavy in this time of reflection and celebration of your magnificent life. I am so proud to have been a part of it along with my children and partner Dave.
We will miss you dearly,
John Kodeski & Dave Foe
Samantha and Lillian Kodeski
TOMMY HOADLEY
July 19th 2012
MY THOUGHTS ARE WITH THOSE LEFT BEHIND. DENNIS WAS SUCH A LARGE AND SOCIAL PRESENSE IN LIFE BRINGING JOY AND A SMILE TO ALL HE ENCOUNTERED. I'M SO GLAD DENNIS WAS ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS WHO MADE IT TO MY RECENT BIRTHDAY DINNER, THE BIRTHDAY WAS THE BEST I HAD IN MANY YEARS. WE HAVE BEEN GOING OUT TO DINNER ATLEAST ONCE A MONTH TO KEEP IN TOUCH AND NOW I'M SO GLAD WE DO. MISSING YOU DEAR FRIEND OF NEARLY 40 YEARS. LOVE TOMMY
Nancy Shea
July 19th 2012
Oh Dennis, how we will miss you! Having worked with you for over 9 years was a great pleasure. You brought a smile to everyone you came in contact with. Your flare for style will definitely be missed as well as your decorating skills. I will mostly miss a very dear friend.
Rev. Kent Lederer
July 19th 2012
Thanks, Dennis, for your ability to bring people together so they enjoyed one another as much as you enjoyed them! We are all the more because of you...surely you were Spirit's light and love expressing!
Israel Velez
July 19th 2012
I had the opportunity to meet and work with Dennis for several years at Burcham Hills. He was a quality person who went out of his way to make everyone feel welcome and important. He was quick with a smile and a kind word. I will miss him and remember him fondly.
Pat & Molly Prichard
July 19th 2012
We were so shocked and saddened in hearing about the passing of Dennis. He was always concerned about everyone elses well being. He continually made sure our mother was taken care of at Burcham Hills going above and beyond as only he could do. He was a generous caring individual and put others first before himself. We are going to miss seeing him and we will forever be grateful for all he has done for us. Our Deepest Sympathy!
Russell Overton
July 19th 2012
Dennis once remarked, “Oh, you’re serving shrimp; it must be a party!” What made that event, and every other event a “party” was not the shrimp, but Dennis. Dennis could walk into a room and create instant revelry. I always knew upon arriving at an event that Dennis’s presence would mean laughter, fun, and the best of times. The smallest gathering of friends instantly became the event of the season when Dennis was there. Events were special not because of any particular occasion, but because Dennis exuded a joyous spirit wherever he went. I have always been amazed at the number of people whose lives he touched and the throngs of people from all walks of life that considered him their friend. I will sorely miss his beaming smile, characteristic laugh, and wry sense of humor. Rest in peace, my friend.
Jamie Kurtis
July 19th 2012
What do you say about a person who is part of the memories of your life? I can't remember not knowing Dennis. Always the perfect host and the life of every party. Here was a person who took the time to know an individual and lift them up by saying just the right thing. It is hard to think of Lansing without such an extraordianry person. I along with many will miss him greatly. Farewell my friend.
Gary Troia
July 19th 2012
I only knew Dennis for a few short years, so I was not as fortunate as many of his close friends who knew him much longer, which is a terrible loss for me. Dennis had such charm and magnetism that was a delight to experience, and he always had kind words for everyone he encountered. We need more individuals like Dennis in our world, but the one and only is gone and I will miss him.
craig stevens corey
July 19th 2012
Dennis was the first person to volunteer his services to Kent Love and me, when we launched Suits AND the City (an after-work networking business mixer) back in 2004. We were running the show by ourselves and were in dire need of help. Dennis was a natural, and his effusive personality helped to draw patrons to the monthly venues. After Kent and i both stepped down, Dennis remained on as a vital part of the organization and became the face of Suits AND the City with his monthly announcements. He had become in fact "the heart and soul" of the effort. I visited Dennis at the hospital two days before his death, and he was looking forward to going home in a day, or two. I never imagined it would be the last time I would ever see him. His absence is a painful reminder of what a wonderful guy he was. -Craig Stevens Corey
Bryan L. Crenshaw
July 19th 2012
Dennis was always a person that if you were down, his presence would lift you up. He never said a bad word about anyone, and was always willing to listen to those who needed and ear. I will always remember his smile and compassion that he gave to others.
Heaven has received a great person and he will be greatly missed here on earth.
Bryan
John & Vicki Boyd
July 19th 2012
We will never forget the many kindnesses and patience you showed toward our stepfather, Tom Tabler, and particularly our Mom, Jane Tabler, during Tom's continuing stay at Burcham. BH will never look so cheery at holiday times without your exquisite taste and touch. We will all miss you very much.
Cheryl Spalding
July 19th 2012
Dennis was my boss for nine years but he will be my friend forever. He was a great person who will surely be missed by many. Always had a hello for anyone who passed his office. Burcham has lost a treasure as have all of us. Rest in peace my wonderful friend. I love you.
Eric Spalding
July 19th 2012
Dennis was a great guy and a great boss, he always knew everyones name and always said hi and asked how you are doing, Burcham Hills will never be the same without him. Rest in peace Dennis.
CHERYL CROOKS
July 18th 2012
THE LOVE OF MY LIFE, I WILL MISS YOU!
CHER
Mike & Kara Johnson
July 18th 2012
Dennis, a guy who always had a smile on his face. We will never forget your generosity, especially sponsoring our wedding reception at the Country Club. Many memories that will last a lifetime. You'll be missed, friend.
July 18th 2012
Dennis Thank you for all the party and social events you hosted.
They added so much to your friends life.
Stan Van Kolken and Garry Miller
July 18th 2012
Dennis - larger than life - the host with the most - hit of any party - a friend for over three decades - you'll be missed.
Michael Beebe
July 18th 2012
Dear Dennis,
Rest in peace my wonderful friend. I will always remember your bright and cheery smile. You lit up the room of any social event you ever attended. I am so fortunate to have had you as my friend.
Danelle Lofton
July 18th 2012
Dennis was one of the greatest people that I have ever known; He had given people such as myself so many oppurtunities in life; He saw the good in people and brought that out: He truley was heaven sent. He was my friend,my Daddy and most of all my whole heart. He loved life and lived it to the fullest no regrets: He was Charlie and I was one of his Angels; He will forever be missed and no one can take his place. I will always keep his memory alive and he will forever remain in my heart. Dennis will always be my shining star.
Beth Secord
July 18th 2012
Working with Dennis and getting to know him on a personal level is something that I will always cherish. He was more than a coworker- he was a wonderful friend. I will never forget his ability to throw a fabulous party and entertain everyone in the room. His love for the staff and residents at Burcham Hills shined through in his efforts. He left us too soon and we will grieve the loss of our "Daddy Dennis"
Debbie Dault Mogdis
July 18th 2012
How can you say goodbye to a cousin / friend ~ I will miss you Denny,. Although we didn't get to see each other very often, the times we had were great and memorable. May you rest in peace, my friend!
