Evelyn B. Nagler
Sep 19th 1917 - Aug 6th 2005
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Dortha Golen
August 11th 2005
Evelyn was a kind and loving neighbor and friend. I will miss her.
Ron Betzig
August 11th 2005
Evelyn truly cared for people. Without exception, at every meal she would offer her food to those sitting near her. This practice continued as she became confused with Alzheimer's disease and unable to articulate the sentence, "Do you want to have some of mine?" So deep was her desire to give that she would offer her seat even if she could not remember your name.
Most moving for me was how deeply Evelyn sensed my love for Jesus Christ. Although I had not met her when I was baptized in 1989, I once pointed out the place where I had been baptized in the Huron River as we passed over a bridge on US- 23. For several years therafter, even as she was so confused as to say frequently "I've never been here before" while we traveled past places she had seen dozens of times, she would touch my arm or leg and say "your special place" as we passed over that bridge on the Huron River.
Evelyn also gave me the most touching present I've ever received: a portrait of Jesus Christ which she had purchased in Turin, Italy. The portrait is based on the mysterious "Shroud of Turin"-- the possible burial cloth of Jesus Christ which reveals his brutal beating and crucifixion. Although some scholars doubt its authenticity, they cannot explain how the image of this man was produced on only tips of the fibers of the shroud at a time when photographic technology had not been invented. Upon seeing the portrait in her home, I made a brief comment to Evelyn about what a beautiful portrait it was. Months later, on no special occasion, she presented it to me in our home, saying something on the order of, "I just thought you'd like to have it." I look at that portrait every day.
There is no question that Evelyn had a strong relationship with Jesus Christ, and with God the Father, whom she sometimes referred to as "the Guy upstairs." She would often pray, and see her prayers come true. In times of trouble, she would express faith that God would get us through, and He always did. Although Evelyn rarely talked about the difficulties in her life, she had many. Her first husband died suddenly, and she had to divorce her unfaithful second husband, even though she had two young children to raise. She put her heart and soul into raising them, sacrificing and saving money on her nurse's salary so they could both graduate from universities.
I first met Evelyn shortly after her second grandchild, Sean was born, I could see that she had a genuine love for children in particular, and for people in general. She was almost always friendly and encouraging. Often when I Would come to her home alone, she would raise her arms in the air and cheer "hurray" when she saw that it was me at the door. I have never known anyone who greeted me so warmly, and I don't think I ever will. I loved Evelyn Nagler, and I believe she has been greeted recently with open arms by the One who loves her.
Ron Betzig
schlenker family
August 11th 2005
we have had the pleasure of knowing evelyn for many years. she took our kids into her heart and she let them call her grandmere. she was a kind and thoughtful person and she was a joy to talk to. We will never forget her smile. Liz and Frank you will always be in our thoughts.
Chris Heffernan-Szelap
August 11th 2005
I will never forget the wonderful times I shared with Evelyn and Liz at our sorority. Not only was Liz my "little sister", but Evelyn became my "other Mom !" I am so glad that Evelyn's last years were spent with her daughter. There is no more caring, thoughtful, unselfish and loving person in this world. Remember Liz, your Mom and my Dad, and so many other people we loved are now in a wonderful, peaceful place together enjoying a blessed eternal life with no pain or sadness.
Sandy Boettcher
August 10th 2005
What a dear lady she was. She always had a sweet smile on her face whenever I saw her.
And, what a wonderful and sweet daughter she had. I don't know anyone like Liz; Liz took care of her with such sweetness and love that it absolutely amazed me.
May God fill the void in your lives as you miss her. As you know, she is far better off where she is. God's best to the family.
Judy S
August 10th 2005
One of the last times I spent with Evelyn, we were both tired when we got back fom shopping and lunch. We both sat down and put our heads back on the couch. Evelyn said "Want to lie down?" So I did, and she went and got a blanket and overed me up. I told her that it was a long time ince anyone had done that for me, and how sweet she was. She just smiled that sweet dmile of hers.I'll miss our hugs!
Marilene (Mars) Dwyer
August 10th 2005
On my way to or from work I sometimes met Evelyn walking in the neighborhood. She would take my arm and we would walk around the corner or cul-de-sac back home. She had a loving spirit and determined personality. One day I told her my given name, and although she was having trouble speaking, Evelyn moved her hand in a wave-like motion to say it was musical. She was so blessed to live these past years with her devoted daughter Liz and supportive son-in-law Ron and grandchildren, Sarah, Evan and Julia.
Stacy
August 10th 2005
Grandmere was a great person. She always thought of others first. I can remember being a little girl and Grandmere would always put our christmas gifts in the tree. It was fun, and I remeber that she loved food and would always complement the chef, wether they cooked a gourme meal or a frozen dinner. She honestly appretiated us, and we appretiated her. We will miss her dearly and she will always live forever in our hearts!
William C. Scott
August 10th 2005
Thanks for sharing a small part of your mother's life with us at Huron Woods. You and your family will be in our thoughts. If there isa ny thing else we can ever do please call.
Thanks,
William
Evan Betzig
August 10th 2005
Great personality
Ready to help
Always cheerful
Never mad
Dandy with squirrels
Making fusebeads
Ever loving
Really special
Ever kind
Sarah Betzig
August 10th 2005
Grandmere was always willing to share with you. She enjoyed your company and her company was enjoyable. She often laughed and seldom cried. She loved you and she loved to be loved.
Julia Betzig
August 10th 2005
She was allwas willing to sar.
CarolynRose Stone
August 9th 2005
During those last months that Evelyn attended Silver Club, she often seemed happiest when one person would stay with her. I was honored that she sometimes allowed me to do that with her throughout her day.
One restless day, I walked with her until she ran out of steam. She seemed to need a quiet spot so we landed in the empty gameroom.
She allowed me to do her nails (she loved the pink sparkly polishes) and I chatted as I worked about how we shared the same profession of nursing. "Evelyn," I said, "do you remember wearing those white caps?"
She said,"Yep."
"Do you remember how we had to wash and starch them and stick them on the refrigerator to dry? Then sew on the ribbon?
And fold it..."
She didn't let me finish. She wrinkled up her nose, gathered her words and said with comic seriousness, "A big pain..."
I'll miss Evelyn here. Her kisses and fussing over us. I told her often that it was obvious that she was a very good mom.
My thoughts are with her family.
CarolynRose Stone, Program Assistant, Turner Silver Club
Silver Club Staff
August 9th 2005
Evelyn was a favorite of Silver Club, where she has been a member for a year and a half. She had an amazing ability to communicate very well with very few words - by puffing her cheeks out, rubbing her stomach, smiling or frowning. Even a month ago, Evelyn could still make us laugh - her sense of humor never failed. Evelyn's caring nature, her nursing background, were ever present. She would rub our hands to get us warm, pat us, and hug us and gave a great deal of love back to staff. She is much missed, but her memory is cherished.
Dortha Golen
August 11th 2005
Evelyn was a kind and loving neighbor and friend. I will miss her.
Ron Betzig
August 11th 2005
Evelyn truly cared for people. Without exception, at every meal she would offer her food to those sitting near her. This practice continued as she became confused with Alzheimer's disease and unable to articulate the sentence, "Do you want to have some of mine?" So deep was her desire to give that she would offer her seat even if she could not remember your name.
Most moving for me was how deeply Evelyn sensed my love for Jesus Christ. Although I had not met her when I was baptized in 1989, I once pointed out the place where I had been baptized in the Huron River as we passed over a bridge on US- 23. For several years therafter, even as she was so confused as to say frequently "I've never been here before" while we traveled past places she had seen dozens of times, she would touch my arm or leg and say "your special place" as we passed over that bridge on the Huron River.
Evelyn also gave me the most touching present I've ever received: a portrait of Jesus Christ which she had purchased in Turin, Italy. The portrait is based on the mysterious "Shroud of Turin"-- the possible burial cloth of Jesus Christ which reveals his brutal beating and crucifixion. Although some scholars doubt its authenticity, they cannot explain how the image of this man was produced on only tips of the fibers of the shroud at a time when photographic technology had not been invented. Upon seeing the portrait in her home, I made a brief comment to Evelyn about what a beautiful portrait it was. Months later, on no special occasion, she presented it to me in our home, saying something on the order of, "I just thought you'd like to have it." I look at that portrait every day.
There is no question that Evelyn had a strong relationship with Jesus Christ, and with God the Father, whom she sometimes referred to as "the Guy upstairs." She would often pray, and see her prayers come true. In times of trouble, she would express faith that God would get us through, and He always did. Although Evelyn rarely talked about the difficulties in her life, she had many. Her first husband died suddenly, and she had to divorce her unfaithful second husband, even though she had two young children to raise. She put her heart and soul into raising them, sacrificing and saving money on her nurse's salary so they could both graduate from universities.
I first met Evelyn shortly after her second grandchild, Sean was born, I could see that she had a genuine love for children in particular, and for people in general. She was almost always friendly and encouraging. Often when I Would come to her home alone, she would raise her arms in the air and cheer "hurray" when she saw that it was me at the door. I have never known anyone who greeted me so warmly, and I don't think I ever will. I loved Evelyn Nagler, and I believe she has been greeted recently with open arms by the One who loves her.
Ron Betzig
schlenker family
August 11th 2005
we have had the pleasure of knowing evelyn for many years. she took our kids into her heart and she let them call her grandmere. she was a kind and thoughtful person and she was a joy to talk to. We will never forget her smile. Liz and Frank you will always be in our thoughts.
Chris Heffernan-Szelap
August 11th 2005
I will never forget the wonderful times I shared with Evelyn and Liz at our sorority. Not only was Liz my "little sister", but Evelyn became my "other Mom !" I am so glad that Evelyn's last years were spent with her daughter. There is no more caring, thoughtful, unselfish and loving person in this world. Remember Liz, your Mom and my Dad, and so many other people we loved are now in a wonderful, peaceful place together enjoying a blessed eternal life with no pain or sadness.
Sandy Boettcher
August 10th 2005
What a dear lady she was. She always had a sweet smile on her face whenever I saw her.
And, what a wonderful and sweet daughter she had. I don't know anyone like Liz; Liz took care of her with such sweetness and love that it absolutely amazed me.
May God fill the void in your lives as you miss her. As you know, she is far better off where she is. God's best to the family.
Judy S
August 10th 2005
One of the last times I spent with Evelyn, we were both tired when we got back fom shopping and lunch. We both sat down and put our heads back on the couch. Evelyn said "Want to lie down?" So I did, and she went and got a blanket and overed me up. I told her that it was a long time ince anyone had done that for me, and how sweet she was. She just smiled that sweet dmile of hers.I'll miss our hugs!
Marilene (Mars) Dwyer
August 10th 2005
On my way to or from work I sometimes met Evelyn walking in the neighborhood. She would take my arm and we would walk around the corner or cul-de-sac back home. She had a loving spirit and determined personality. One day I told her my given name, and although she was having trouble speaking, Evelyn moved her hand in a wave-like motion to say it was musical. She was so blessed to live these past years with her devoted daughter Liz and supportive son-in-law Ron and grandchildren, Sarah, Evan and Julia.
Stacy
August 10th 2005
Grandmere was a great person. She always thought of others first. I can remember being a little girl and Grandmere would always put our christmas gifts in the tree. It was fun, and I remeber that she loved food and would always complement the chef, wether they cooked a gourme meal or a frozen dinner. She honestly appretiated us, and we appretiated her. We will miss her dearly and she will always live forever in our hearts!
William C. Scott
August 10th 2005
Thanks for sharing a small part of your mother's life with us at Huron Woods. You and your family will be in our thoughts. If there isa ny thing else we can ever do please call.
Thanks,
William
Evan Betzig
August 10th 2005
Great personality
Ready to help
Always cheerful
Never mad
Dandy with squirrels
Making fusebeads
Ever loving
Really special
Ever kind
Sarah Betzig
August 10th 2005
Grandmere was always willing to share with you. She enjoyed your company and her company was enjoyable. She often laughed and seldom cried. She loved you and she loved to be loved.
Julia Betzig
August 10th 2005
She was allwas willing to sar.
CarolynRose Stone
August 9th 2005
During those last months that Evelyn attended Silver Club, she often seemed happiest when one person would stay with her. I was honored that she sometimes allowed me to do that with her throughout her day.
One restless day, I walked with her until she ran out of steam. She seemed to need a quiet spot so we landed in the empty gameroom.
She allowed me to do her nails (she loved the pink sparkly polishes) and I chatted as I worked about how we shared the same profession of nursing. "Evelyn," I said, "do you remember wearing those white caps?"
She said,"Yep."
"Do you remember how we had to wash and starch them and stick them on the refrigerator to dry? Then sew on the ribbon?
And fold it..."
She didn't let me finish. She wrinkled up her nose, gathered her words and said with comic seriousness, "A big pain..."
I'll miss Evelyn here. Her kisses and fussing over us. I told her often that it was obvious that she was a very good mom.
My thoughts are with her family.
CarolynRose Stone, Program Assistant, Turner Silver Club
Silver Club Staff
August 9th 2005
Evelyn was a favorite of Silver Club, where she has been a member for a year and a half. She had an amazing ability to communicate very well with very few words - by puffing her cheeks out, rubbing her stomach, smiling or frowning. Even a month ago, Evelyn could still make us laugh - her sense of humor never failed. Evelyn's caring nature, her nursing background, were ever present. She would rub our hands to get us warm, pat us, and hug us and gave a great deal of love back to staff. She is much missed, but her memory is cherished.
