Julie A. Webber
Dec 12th 1953 - Jul 10th 2010
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Chris Olk
July 15th 2010
Where do I begin? Julie was to me a breath of fresh air. I have often said of Julie that if a person is lucky, ~truly lucky~ in their lifetime they will be blessed just once to know a person like Julie. As I write this my heart is aching for that special friend of mine. That friend that showed such strength and character, that friend who was selfless, thoughtful, giving, and kind. I wonder, why her? God must have made a mistake.
I will think of Julie's example of grace for the rest of my living years and I will forever be grateful that I was one of the truly lucky ones to have the honor of being called her friend. (I love you Lucy!)
Nina Davis
July 15th 2010
I was deeply saddened when I learned of Julie's death upon my return home from vacation this Wednesday morning. Julie was a beautiful and sweet-spirited person. She was a part of my unit at DHS for a time, and it was a pleasure to be her supervisor. She was always kind, considerate, compassionate, and understanding, and this carried over to how she viewed the families she serviced at DHS. She was a diligent and hard worker.
I called Julie many times during her illness to see how she was feeling. Her voice would sound just as cheerful and clear as it always had been. She frequently asked if I and others at DHS were praying for her and I assured her that we were. She would tell me that she was not giving up and was going to beat the cancer. In perspective, she did not give up and she did beat the cancer! She is now cancer-free and pain-free at home with her Lord. I will miss Julie!
Barry, it was a pleasure to have met you briefly when I visited Julie at the hospital. I watched your tender loving care of Julie that day. I know you are missing her tremendously. My prayers are with you and the family. May God bless you with peace at this time. May you find comfort and knowing that Julie was deeply loved, made an impact on many lives, and left sweet memories for all who knew her to cherish. Nina.
David Lasser
July 14th 2010
Barry, Jamie, Anthony, and Isaiah, my thoughts and prayers are with all of you right now. I will always treasure the opportunity I was given by Barry and Julie to spend last week with you both. It gave me a chance to help out in a small way with her care, to visit, say good bye, and to tell her how much we all loved her. Fighting an illness such as Julie's is a test of will and character. In both, Julie acquitted herself magnificently. She was a fighter and although she was in a great deal of pain I never heard her complain. In fact, she was always worried about everyone else. A very brave lady indeed. I will miss my sister very much.
I can close my eyes and see Mom and Dad bringing Julie back from the hospital in Redwood City. I was ten, nearly eleven and Mom showed me how to hold her. We were all very excited about our new sister. She was only 7 years old when I left in '61 to join the navy. Little did I know it at the time, but that was the last time I was to live in Muskegon. I did get back on leave for the next few years and I have some wonderful memories of Julie when she was growing up. In June or July of '67, shortly after Dad died Mom and Julie came to California and we (Gerry, me, Zita, Mom, and Julie) all lived in a house on Blake Street in Menlo Park. Mom and Julie stayed a year and we had some great times. Julie really enjoyed Zita's pancit and adobo as she made sure we gave her the recipe later when she had a kitchen in which to cook.
A few years ago Julie took me to her office and I got to know something about the work she did for others. She was indeed a giving person, so concerned to make sure she did right by each assignment she was given. She loved that job, helping others, and she was good at it. It was Julie's interest in our family history, perhaps seven or so years ago that kindled my interest in the subject. With Mom gone a year ago and now Julie, I feel I've got a powerful team behind me, upstairs, as I continue the search for what happened to our ever elusive Gr. Grandmother.
Julie and Barry loved the water, something else that seems to run in our family. Her illness never got her down or dispirited, but she did regret not having more time to enjoy the new boat. The boat sits quietly down at the dock in Muskegon, patiently waiting for Julie's next visit. A visit that will not now occur. But, Barry can enjoy some great memories of his and Julie's years on the water whenever he goes on board.
Barry you were an amazing caregiver to Julie. One could not ask for a better or more qualified one. Your devotion to her during her struggle was quite something to see. I can tell you, that the love you showed, and the care you gave, provided tremendous comfort to her in her last days. Thanks from all of us for being there. My love to you all.
David
Anthony B
July 14th 2010
You will be missed by family and friends. I couldn't have wished for a better grandmother, she was always their for my birthday parties and we were always together on the holidays. My grandmother was always there for me when i needed to talk or needed advice. I really feel bad that i could not vist you as much, because i was in the hospital for two long weeks and was not able to spend time with my grandmother and just being there for the most part, I wished i couldve been there instead of being trapped in the hospital. But just remember this, I will always love you && we will meet again sometime in the future.
Jennifer Leon
July 13th 2010
Julie's smile was contagious. I'll miss our Monday talks and I know I am not the only one. She brought so much to everyone who was lucky enough to get to know her.
Tammy Gavinski
July 13th 2010
We only got to know Julie a short time ago. Although it took no time at all to realize what an exceptional person Julie was. Her overwhelming zest for life and positive attitude made her a joy to be around and made you want to try to be more like her. She will be deeply missed by everyone that ever knew her. Our hearts goes out to all of Julie’s family and especially our friend Barry.
Gerry
July 13th 2010
Julie was the youngest of four children with over seven years separating her from me the third child. We always had a special place in or hearts for our “baby sister”. Even as a child she seemed to be always happy and a joy to be around.
Living on opposite sides of the continent we did not often see each other but our family bond was always strong. While caring for her during her last two months I have grown to love her even more. She was a strong and caring woman who will be missed by friends and family alike. My heart goes out especially to Barry for the loss of beloved wife and soul mate.
Rae Deane
July 13th 2010
Except for the last 2 months my memories are from brief visits to Muskegon..shopping in Saugatuck, eating at family gatherings and soaking up sun on the boat. Happy. Fun memories of a beautiful, smiling woman. During the last months I came to know a courageous woman fighting for every last breath in hopes of returning to a job she loved and continue in a marriage she adored. My heart goes out to Barry for the loss of his soul-mate.
Honor Julie by living life as she would have...with enthusiasm and loving abandon.
Your sister-in-law (from the Lasser side)
Rae Deane
Marlene Errgang
July 13th 2010
Julie was a wonderful person, talented and loving, and I know that her family has suffered a great loss. All of us are the poorer for Julie's death. She will be sorely missed, both from a personal and professional standpoint. Hey, Julie... I still just might try that yoga!
Judith Happeny DHS
July 13th 2010
I worked with Julie for quite a few years and everything everyone has said about her is so true! She was a very positive and gentle person with seemingly endless energy and I am so sorry she has been taken so early in her beautiful life. My sympathies go out to her family as I know how painful this is for all of you.
Sandy Webber, Sister-in-law
July 12th 2010
Julie was the most kind hearted person I have ever known. Never an unkind word against anyone. She was always happy and ready to do anything fun. It was so hard to see her little body going through all that suffering. She was going to beat it, always saying "If I could just get stronger". The Lord has taken her away to be with him, I guess he just needs her help in some special way. It just won't be the same without her. I miss her so much already. As a family we spent alot of time together. Many trips out East for fabulous family functions. We all loved her! Peace be with Barry as many days will be empty. We are here for you!
Sister-in-law, Sandy Webber
Denise & Bill McDermott
July 12th 2010
Life will not be the same without you.you were one of kind.always in a good mood,never a bad thing to say about anyone.the love you and barry had for each other was like no other.the memories of our ski trips,our partying in key west and our trips to barrys sister on lake george in new york were so much fun and we will never forget them. we promise to take good care of barry our great friend.we love you and will miss you always.
Candy Campbell
July 12th 2010
I'll miss you so much Julie. You were such fun to be around and genuinely a nice, nice person. It hasn't been the same at DHS since you've been off work. I'll always remember our Yoga classes and my God, you were so flexible! It was fun to watch you! And our bus trip to Chicago will never be the same without you.
Barry, we've never met and I'm so sorry for your loss. My condolenscenses to you and all of Julie's family.
Anthony Black
July 12th 2010
Anthony does not know i am posting this i found it on his facebook here you go Depressed. .my grandmother just passed away an hour ago. R.I.P. I couldnt have wished for a better grandmother, she was my everything, and now i must let go. :( R.I.P. :((
Isaiah Williams
July 12th 2010
you helped us you loved us you shared good times with us you will never die in our minds you will have stories passed on to our childern and there childern you will never be forgotten you will be told of by many and prayed for by angels and your family we will hope love and rember your grace friendship and comfortness your grandson Isaiah Williams
Jaime Barker
July 12th 2010
Even though the lord has taken you away from me & the family at the early age of 56, you will no longer have to suffer the pain that you were going through. You will be missed by so MANY friends, family, & co-workers. You were the BEST mother anyone could of ever asked for. You were ALWAYS kind, caring, passionate, & considerate towards EVERYONE. You had a heart of gold. I will miss you so much but, one day we WILL meet again. Love & miss you, your "baby girl", Jaime.
jackie hopkins
July 12th 2010
barry i am so sorry to hear about the loss of your wife. although i never had the chance to meet her, i have been told that she was a wonderful person.
my thoughts and prayers are with you
Allen and Kathy Rice
July 12th 2010
We count ourselves lucky to have had Julie for a friend, if only for a short time. We met Barry and Julie seven years ago when they became our "dock neighbors" at LYH. We shortly moved to a different slip, but continued to enjoy their friendship and shared some good times at LYH. We're sad we didn't have time to get to know Julie even better. She was truly a beautiful person, inside and out, and loved to have fun! She was such an important and fun member of the "Red Hot Chili Peppers" at our Burrito Nights, as well as a member of the "BVI Fan Club" which we also count ourselves a part of. We think of Julie as a sister in her love for the water, animals, nature -- and especially people. We'll miss you, Julie! The crew of Hot Fudge sends their love.
Jenn Elenbaas
July 12th 2010
All of my memories of Julie are good ones..from the countless ski trips (petosky, lake tahoe, colorado), to hanging at the marinas on the boats in the summertime. Julie couldn't tell me enough how much she wanted Steve and I to travel to the British Virgin Islands with her and Barry to go on a boat trip-- she always said it was the best trip ever, and she knew how much we would enjoy it. I fondly remember our road trip out west when Julie and Barry so graciously let me (19 yrs old at the time) catch a ride with them in their Jeep (a ski trip I didn't want to miss)!! Julie and I discovered our mutual love of The Moody Blues on that trip.. and I swear whenever I hear one of their songs I think of her. I'm really sad I will never see you again Julie, you were the only person that ever got me to try braunschweiger (your version), and that was no easy feat, believe me. Everyone will miss you.. you were such an amazing person.. you loved animals, you loved to laugh, to have fun, you adored your husband..I would say your time here was so well spent. With a sad heart I say bye to you and wave. Your friend, Jenn
holly webber
July 11th 2010
I have so many wonderful memories of my sister-in law Julie. We were fortunenate enough to travel to many places together. Both of us not being the greatest skiers, Julie and myself buddied up in Montana while the rest of the familiy took on the big hills. And believe me at Big Sky there are not any small hills. We have traveled to N.Y.C with some family members and it was after 911 and had photos taken of us with the NYC police dept. and the NYC fire fighters. My favorite trip was with Barry and Julie in the British Virgin Islands. Julie loved to snorkle and there was great snorkling there. There were 6 of us on our Chartered boat with our own Captian. Barry and Julie celebrated their aniversary on this trip and enjoyed a nice evening at the captians restuarant.Julie will be remembered by me for her easy going spirit, open heart, and peaceful nature. You will be missed dearly by me Jules!!!! Love Holly
Joe and Diane Briggs
July 11th 2010
A memory of Julie would not be complete without a reminder of her beautiful smile and her ability to always make others smile. She was truly a beautiful person-inside and out. She was a part of many of the most memorable times we have ever had. It was an honor to be your friend.
Chris Olk
July 15th 2010
Where do I begin? Julie was to me a breath of fresh air. I have often said of Julie that if a person is lucky, ~truly lucky~ in their lifetime they will be blessed just once to know a person like Julie. As I write this my heart is aching for that special friend of mine. That friend that showed such strength and character, that friend who was selfless, thoughtful, giving, and kind. I wonder, why her? God must have made a mistake.
I will think of Julie's example of grace for the rest of my living years and I will forever be grateful that I was one of the truly lucky ones to have the honor of being called her friend. (I love you Lucy!)
Nina Davis
July 15th 2010
I was deeply saddened when I learned of Julie's death upon my return home from vacation this Wednesday morning. Julie was a beautiful and sweet-spirited person. She was a part of my unit at DHS for a time, and it was a pleasure to be her supervisor. She was always kind, considerate, compassionate, and understanding, and this carried over to how she viewed the families she serviced at DHS. She was a diligent and hard worker.
I called Julie many times during her illness to see how she was feeling. Her voice would sound just as cheerful and clear as it always had been. She frequently asked if I and others at DHS were praying for her and I assured her that we were. She would tell me that she was not giving up and was going to beat the cancer. In perspective, she did not give up and she did beat the cancer! She is now cancer-free and pain-free at home with her Lord. I will miss Julie!
Barry, it was a pleasure to have met you briefly when I visited Julie at the hospital. I watched your tender loving care of Julie that day. I know you are missing her tremendously. My prayers are with you and the family. May God bless you with peace at this time. May you find comfort and knowing that Julie was deeply loved, made an impact on many lives, and left sweet memories for all who knew her to cherish. Nina.
David Lasser
July 14th 2010
Barry, Jamie, Anthony, and Isaiah, my thoughts and prayers are with all of you right now. I will always treasure the opportunity I was given by Barry and Julie to spend last week with you both. It gave me a chance to help out in a small way with her care, to visit, say good bye, and to tell her how much we all loved her. Fighting an illness such as Julie's is a test of will and character. In both, Julie acquitted herself magnificently. She was a fighter and although she was in a great deal of pain I never heard her complain. In fact, she was always worried about everyone else. A very brave lady indeed. I will miss my sister very much.
I can close my eyes and see Mom and Dad bringing Julie back from the hospital in Redwood City. I was ten, nearly eleven and Mom showed me how to hold her. We were all very excited about our new sister. She was only 7 years old when I left in '61 to join the navy. Little did I know it at the time, but that was the last time I was to live in Muskegon. I did get back on leave for the next few years and I have some wonderful memories of Julie when she was growing up. In June or July of '67, shortly after Dad died Mom and Julie came to California and we (Gerry, me, Zita, Mom, and Julie) all lived in a house on Blake Street in Menlo Park. Mom and Julie stayed a year and we had some great times. Julie really enjoyed Zita's pancit and adobo as she made sure we gave her the recipe later when she had a kitchen in which to cook.
A few years ago Julie took me to her office and I got to know something about the work she did for others. She was indeed a giving person, so concerned to make sure she did right by each assignment she was given. She loved that job, helping others, and she was good at it. It was Julie's interest in our family history, perhaps seven or so years ago that kindled my interest in the subject. With Mom gone a year ago and now Julie, I feel I've got a powerful team behind me, upstairs, as I continue the search for what happened to our ever elusive Gr. Grandmother.
Julie and Barry loved the water, something else that seems to run in our family. Her illness never got her down or dispirited, but she did regret not having more time to enjoy the new boat. The boat sits quietly down at the dock in Muskegon, patiently waiting for Julie's next visit. A visit that will not now occur. But, Barry can enjoy some great memories of his and Julie's years on the water whenever he goes on board.
Barry you were an amazing caregiver to Julie. One could not ask for a better or more qualified one. Your devotion to her during her struggle was quite something to see. I can tell you, that the love you showed, and the care you gave, provided tremendous comfort to her in her last days. Thanks from all of us for being there. My love to you all.
David
Anthony B
July 14th 2010
You will be missed by family and friends. I couldn't have wished for a better grandmother, she was always their for my birthday parties and we were always together on the holidays. My grandmother was always there for me when i needed to talk or needed advice. I really feel bad that i could not vist you as much, because i was in the hospital for two long weeks and was not able to spend time with my grandmother and just being there for the most part, I wished i couldve been there instead of being trapped in the hospital. But just remember this, I will always love you && we will meet again sometime in the future.
Jennifer Leon
July 13th 2010
Julie's smile was contagious. I'll miss our Monday talks and I know I am not the only one. She brought so much to everyone who was lucky enough to get to know her.
Tammy Gavinski
July 13th 2010
We only got to know Julie a short time ago. Although it took no time at all to realize what an exceptional person Julie was. Her overwhelming zest for life and positive attitude made her a joy to be around and made you want to try to be more like her. She will be deeply missed by everyone that ever knew her. Our hearts goes out to all of Julie’s family and especially our friend Barry.
Gerry
July 13th 2010
Julie was the youngest of four children with over seven years separating her from me the third child. We always had a special place in or hearts for our “baby sister”. Even as a child she seemed to be always happy and a joy to be around.
Living on opposite sides of the continent we did not often see each other but our family bond was always strong. While caring for her during her last two months I have grown to love her even more. She was a strong and caring woman who will be missed by friends and family alike. My heart goes out especially to Barry for the loss of beloved wife and soul mate.
Rae Deane
July 13th 2010
Except for the last 2 months my memories are from brief visits to Muskegon..shopping in Saugatuck, eating at family gatherings and soaking up sun on the boat. Happy. Fun memories of a beautiful, smiling woman. During the last months I came to know a courageous woman fighting for every last breath in hopes of returning to a job she loved and continue in a marriage she adored. My heart goes out to Barry for the loss of his soul-mate.
Honor Julie by living life as she would have...with enthusiasm and loving abandon.
Your sister-in-law (from the Lasser side)
Rae Deane
Marlene Errgang
July 13th 2010
Julie was a wonderful person, talented and loving, and I know that her family has suffered a great loss. All of us are the poorer for Julie's death. She will be sorely missed, both from a personal and professional standpoint. Hey, Julie... I still just might try that yoga!
Judith Happeny DHS
July 13th 2010
I worked with Julie for quite a few years and everything everyone has said about her is so true! She was a very positive and gentle person with seemingly endless energy and I am so sorry she has been taken so early in her beautiful life. My sympathies go out to her family as I know how painful this is for all of you.
Sandy Webber, Sister-in-law
July 12th 2010
Julie was the most kind hearted person I have ever known. Never an unkind word against anyone. She was always happy and ready to do anything fun. It was so hard to see her little body going through all that suffering. She was going to beat it, always saying "If I could just get stronger". The Lord has taken her away to be with him, I guess he just needs her help in some special way. It just won't be the same without her. I miss her so much already. As a family we spent alot of time together. Many trips out East for fabulous family functions. We all loved her! Peace be with Barry as many days will be empty. We are here for you!
Sister-in-law, Sandy Webber
Denise & Bill McDermott
July 12th 2010
Life will not be the same without you.you were one of kind.always in a good mood,never a bad thing to say about anyone.the love you and barry had for each other was like no other.the memories of our ski trips,our partying in key west and our trips to barrys sister on lake george in new york were so much fun and we will never forget them. we promise to take good care of barry our great friend.we love you and will miss you always.
Candy Campbell
July 12th 2010
I'll miss you so much Julie. You were such fun to be around and genuinely a nice, nice person. It hasn't been the same at DHS since you've been off work. I'll always remember our Yoga classes and my God, you were so flexible! It was fun to watch you! And our bus trip to Chicago will never be the same without you.
Barry, we've never met and I'm so sorry for your loss. My condolenscenses to you and all of Julie's family.
Anthony Black
July 12th 2010
Anthony does not know i am posting this i found it on his facebook here you go Depressed. .my grandmother just passed away an hour ago. R.I.P. I couldnt have wished for a better grandmother, she was my everything, and now i must let go. :( R.I.P. :((
Isaiah Williams
July 12th 2010
you helped us you loved us you shared good times with us you will never die in our minds you will have stories passed on to our childern and there childern you will never be forgotten you will be told of by many and prayed for by angels and your family we will hope love and rember your grace friendship and comfortness your grandson Isaiah Williams
Jaime Barker
July 12th 2010
Even though the lord has taken you away from me & the family at the early age of 56, you will no longer have to suffer the pain that you were going through. You will be missed by so MANY friends, family, & co-workers. You were the BEST mother anyone could of ever asked for. You were ALWAYS kind, caring, passionate, & considerate towards EVERYONE. You had a heart of gold. I will miss you so much but, one day we WILL meet again. Love & miss you, your "baby girl", Jaime.
jackie hopkins
July 12th 2010
barry i am so sorry to hear about the loss of your wife. although i never had the chance to meet her, i have been told that she was a wonderful person.
my thoughts and prayers are with you
Allen and Kathy Rice
July 12th 2010
We count ourselves lucky to have had Julie for a friend, if only for a short time. We met Barry and Julie seven years ago when they became our "dock neighbors" at LYH. We shortly moved to a different slip, but continued to enjoy their friendship and shared some good times at LYH. We're sad we didn't have time to get to know Julie even better. She was truly a beautiful person, inside and out, and loved to have fun! She was such an important and fun member of the "Red Hot Chili Peppers" at our Burrito Nights, as well as a member of the "BVI Fan Club" which we also count ourselves a part of. We think of Julie as a sister in her love for the water, animals, nature -- and especially people. We'll miss you, Julie! The crew of Hot Fudge sends their love.
Jenn Elenbaas
July 12th 2010
All of my memories of Julie are good ones..from the countless ski trips (petosky, lake tahoe, colorado), to hanging at the marinas on the boats in the summertime. Julie couldn't tell me enough how much she wanted Steve and I to travel to the British Virgin Islands with her and Barry to go on a boat trip-- she always said it was the best trip ever, and she knew how much we would enjoy it. I fondly remember our road trip out west when Julie and Barry so graciously let me (19 yrs old at the time) catch a ride with them in their Jeep (a ski trip I didn't want to miss)!! Julie and I discovered our mutual love of The Moody Blues on that trip.. and I swear whenever I hear one of their songs I think of her. I'm really sad I will never see you again Julie, you were the only person that ever got me to try braunschweiger (your version), and that was no easy feat, believe me. Everyone will miss you.. you were such an amazing person.. you loved animals, you loved to laugh, to have fun, you adored your husband..I would say your time here was so well spent. With a sad heart I say bye to you and wave. Your friend, Jenn
holly webber
July 11th 2010
I have so many wonderful memories of my sister-in law Julie. We were fortunenate enough to travel to many places together. Both of us not being the greatest skiers, Julie and myself buddied up in Montana while the rest of the familiy took on the big hills. And believe me at Big Sky there are not any small hills. We have traveled to N.Y.C with some family members and it was after 911 and had photos taken of us with the NYC police dept. and the NYC fire fighters. My favorite trip was with Barry and Julie in the British Virgin Islands. Julie loved to snorkle and there was great snorkling there. There were 6 of us on our Chartered boat with our own Captian. Barry and Julie celebrated their aniversary on this trip and enjoyed a nice evening at the captians restuarant.Julie will be remembered by me for her easy going spirit, open heart, and peaceful nature. You will be missed dearly by me Jules!!!! Love Holly
Joe and Diane Briggs
July 11th 2010
A memory of Julie would not be complete without a reminder of her beautiful smile and her ability to always make others smile. She was truly a beautiful person-inside and out. She was a part of many of the most memorable times we have ever had. It was an honor to be your friend.
