Matt Rineveld
Dec 28th 1976 - Jan 9th 2010
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Kermit The Frog
February 7th 2012
Dearest Matt - December 28, 2011
Your smile and sense of humor are missed every day, but especially on this day. We hear your voice telling jokes and then your laughing at your own jokes.
Taking heart that you are there just over the threshold and not really gone.
Love to you and all the family
Kermie The Frog
January 31st 2011
Kermie@att.net
Dear MATTY,
December 28, 2010 - you would have been 34 today. How we want to have you and go out for a steak dinner with baked potato. But your chair is empty.We are comforted by the fact that you are having dinner with a heavenly host. That must be very fun.
Happy 34th birthday to you.
Love, Kermie and your family
Kermit THE Frog
December 27th 2010
Kermie@att.net
Dear Matt,
We can only wonder how great your Christmas was in heaven. It takes out some of the sting of hurt we carry as we carry on without you. Your Christmas stocking had Gummy Sharks that we left at your grave site. We also went to your grave at night and played 3-part Danny Boy on our Irish music boxes in the setting sun and light snow flurries. We could feel you with us.
Your friend, Kermie
Kermit THE Frog
December 8th 2010
Kermie@att.net
Matty-
Your mom sends a message that she missed you terribly on her birthday last week.
Kermie
Kermit THE Frog
December 1st 2010
Kermie@att.net
Your mom, dad and sisters had a nice traditional Thanksgiving at Marie's house in Ohio. Amber's family was nice to meet. There were about 30 of them. We did some shopping, went to the zoo. Marie made the green bean casserole and it turned out pretty good. Yours was better but don't tell her.
Thinking of you often as the holidays come ;-(
Your friend, Kermie
Kermit THE Frog
October 26th 2010
kermie@att.net
Halloween is coming up fast and we are all thinking about how much fun you had with this holiday. From Purple Elephant to Giant Pumpkin Head Man you enjoyed this alot. We had fun because you were having so much fun. Your mom decorated at the cemetary - there is a 3 foot white satin ghost holding a sign that says "Boo". I bet you are enjoying that. Missing you even though it's not Halloween for a week or so. Your family sends great love.
Love also, Kermie
Marie Rineveld
September 20th 2010
I received a special letter in the mail last week from one of the recipients of Matt's scholarship that I wanted to share with you all. It reads:
Dear Friends and Family of Matt Rineveld,
I am writing to thank you for your part in establishing the Matt Rineveld Scholarship at the National Puppetry Conference at the O'Neill Theater Center. Two of us received the scholarship this year and I wanted to personally thank you and let you know that I had an amazing, productive, fun-filled, magical experience that extends beyond the week of the conference. I was so happy to participate in the conference this year. It was productive and nourishing to my soul and journey as a puppet artist. The O'Neill is not just a week in the summer in Waterford, CT, it is a place in our hearts and we take it with us wherever we go, all year long.
Thanks again for being part of establishing the scholarship and lots of love.
Best wishes,
Marsian De Lellis
Los Angeles, CA
Kermit THE Frog here
September 8th 2010
Kermie@att.net
Dear Matty,
Well, we had the Labor Day picnic and we had many memories of you. Your mom did the burgers and brats. You had a good touch with the brats and you were sorely missed. No one could tell as many jokes about things as you could. There was a light rain just before the party started. You mom wonders if you were sending a message to look skyward. Also, we all wonder if you like your hanging basket of mums. The bright yellow is cheerful an the only one in the cemetary.
So, hello to you across the veil. Love and hugs to you from your familiy. You are deeply missed and on our minds.
Kermie
Kermie THE frog here
August 9th 2010
Kermie@att.com
I assume that this note will find you hale and hardy. Just a wondering what it's like to be in heaven- perfect weather, perfect sunshine, perfect friends and awesome food. This was good here also, but still incomplete without adorable you.I bet you were running all around helping to pick up dishes, baging carbage and just being free fun loving Matt.
Well, I will sign out for now. Your Mom sends you love.`
Check back soon, from your favorite Frog - Kermitt
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Kermit THE frog calling
August 9th 2010
Kermie@att.net
Matty - The next picnic is here - 4th of July. Your mom missed all your help with the brats. Wendy came over and got them done. The weather was perfect and rather warm. Grandma and Grandpa brought homemade butter pecan ice cream. There wasn't any left. You were remembered in our prayer and we contine to hold you up in our hearts. Did you get a 4th of July cookout in Heaven?.
Will write again soon. Take care of yourself And watch for us at the gate. Your friend, Kermie
Kermit THE frog here
May 31st 2010
Kermie@att.net
Memorial Day 2010 - We had our usual big picnic today in honor of those who serve our country and in remembrance of those family members that are gone from us. A big storm came in about 2 hours before the picnic. Then we had about 3 hours of calm before the next storm rolled in. Was that you Matt?
Also, there was a bittersweet moment when Marie remembered that she left her dish to pass in the refrigerator. You used to do that too, Matt. Only you usually left it at your apartment.
And one more thing, your family presented your good friend Scott with one of the Renaissance Faire swords that you had. He plans to mount it on the wall.
You were not here, but you were never far away today from many who love and miss you deeply.
Your friend, Kermit
Kermit The frog here
May 31st 2010
Kermie@att.net
May 30, 2010 - Hey Matty, your family and friends went bowling in your honor today. Many of us wore muppet shirts and remembered alot of things about you. Your Muppet Mania bowling group said you always bought two orders of fries, one for all of them and one for yourself. Your mom found your thumb salve in your bowling bag and wore your bowling shoes too. Marie and Amber danced on the lanes and Wendy must have taken several dozen pictures. John and Angela brought their kids and Maddy used the plastic dinosaur to roll her ball. Your dad's game was good. When we all checked out the people at the desk knew who we were and that we were the Muppet Group. Probably from our shirts and Kermits and Elmos everywhere. Keeping you up to date. Kermie
Kermit THE frog here
May 31st 2010
Kermie@att.net
May 9, 2010 - I've been meaning to write to you. I wanted to tell you that your mom and Wendy went on a cruise to the Western Carribbean in honor of Wendy's graduation. While they were on the cruise Mother's Day happened as it does every year. But, of course, this year was much different for your mom. The cruise line gave all the moms pink carnations and everyone talked about their kids.
It was dinner time when your mom looked out the windows from her table and saw a rainbow forming on the low horizon in the sunset. She knew it was you. She showed several other people, but she was sure it was cheer and comfort from you. It was a good end to the day.
Thanks, Kermie
Aaron Lathrop
May 14th 2010
aaronlathrop@mac.com
Hello, my name is Aaron Lathrop and I'm one of the recipients of the Matt Rinevald Memorial Puppetry Scholarship.
As I look through the page and read all the comments and stories about Matt's life I keep thinking, "Man I would have liked to hang out with this guy." It reall struck me how much I have in common with Matt, boy scouts and a love of electronics and video games, a love the Muppets and an obsession with the Transformers that totally befuddles my girlfriend, most specifically Optimus Prime.
And while I know no amount of thanks can bring Matt back all I can offer you is my thanks. Thank you so much all for providing us with this chance. I'm currently a working puppeteer in Portland, OR and this opportunity to bring my own show to the National Puppetry Conference is one of a kind and I simply would not have been able to do without all of your help and I am so grateful. I am deeply honored and humbled to be a part of Matt's memory. From the bottom of my heart thank you.
Aaron Lathrop
Kermit THE frog here-
May 5th 2010
Kermie@att.net
Matty- Well, I watched your sister Wendy graduate from nursing school on Saturday (the nursing student pinning) and Sunday (walking at WMU). I know that we all thought this day would never arrive, but it did and we partied all weekend. Your mom wore the outfit from your funeral in honor of you so that you were there with us. Wendy and Marie took a picture with a space for you in it. Your name was often mentioned and you were very much with us. About 60 people came to the picnic. We missed sending you home with all the leftovers and that big happy smile on your face. We love you Matty. Your friend, Kermie
Randi Good
May 1st 2010
randi_xo@hotmail.com
Matt (Celwind)
We used to play World of Warcraft together, and then started talking on other places. It was like I could tell you anything, and you could tell me anything. We would talk, and laugh for hours on end.
I took a break from WoW, to come back and hear the tragic news of your passing.
You are truly an amazing person and I am thankful for your acquantaince. It's weird going online now and not having you to put a smile on my face, or sending me crazy links for funny youtube videos.
We had a lot of heart to hearts, and I'm certainly going to miss them.
I love you, man.
Kermit THE Frog here-
April 6th 2010
Kermie@att.net
Matty,
Easter day has come and gone. I sat at your place at the table, but it was not the same as you being there. We really missed your green bean casserole. We prayed for you at church and at the dinner. And we prayed for us as we continue in deep sorrow from loosing you.
Grandma Doris brought her cherry and apple pies which you loved. Uncle Mark made lots of good jokes, yet it was your wit that was so obviously missing.
You probably had a great Easter up there with Jesus.
Sending love to you from Portage.
Your friend, Kermie
Kermit THE Frog here-
March 20th 2010
Kermie@att.net
Thursday, March 18, 2010: Ok Matty, so another book showed up for us. This lady who was laughing and smiling said she ordered it for your mom. It's called Meet Jim Hensen and has a good picture of me, Kermit The Frog and Jim on the cover. It is a colorful splash of pictures of my muppet family. I love it and I am sure it will be a treasured addition to our library.
And, little Henry Sandoval loved his commemorative Muppet Book given by grandma Karen and grandpa Ven. Like you Matty, the cycle of getting and giving happiness continues to circle.
You are well and truly loved and remembered... Kermie
Kermit THE Frog here-
March 17th 2010
Kermie@att.net
Just dropping in on my Green Day - March 17, to say hello to my good friend, Matt. Shinaegh Matty!
Marie Rineveld
February 26th 2010
marierineveld@gmail.com
Matt's scholarship information has been posted by the Jim Henson Foundation. Please visit the following link for more information. Thank you all for your love and support and contributions to make this happen. I think Matt would be very proud!
http://www.oneillpuppetryconference.com/scholarships.html
Matt's mom
January 31st 2010
mscloggett@att.net
We remain encouraged by the continuing calls, prayers, cards and friends who come to visit. Everything is being noted and treasured and may help to heal the great holes in our hearts and souls. There is no way we could have walked this valley without all of you and every little and big thing that you have done.
Some have asked were Matt's grave is:
South Portage Cemetary way to the end of South Westnedge on the right just before you get to Osterhout Road. Turn into the middle of the 3 driveways. Matt is approximately 2/3rd down on the right side in the 3rd row of the middle front of the cemetary. His site is currently marked with a winged cherub on a Fleur-de-lis globe. It is mounted on a tall Grecian pillar and ringed with a black wreath wrapped with gold/black ribbon. Small photo plaque for his name. Surrounded by big bouquets of yellow roses and green reed stalks.
They cannot lay his stone until winter is done. Thanks for coming into our lives, taking our hands and staying by us.
Without you all, we could not get through this.
Mom
January 22nd 2010
mscloggett@att.net
We are humbled and blessed for the outpouring of love for our Matt. To date: over 200 cards, 3 dozen plants/flowers, dozens of donations to the Jim Henson fund for students of puppetry, contributions of food, countless memories and thoughts shared. tears and hugs, phone calls, the continued visits of nearly 4,000 to this Memory Page and the Guest Book, a special handstitched quilt from his church, and a constant flow of friends who have been at our sides and are helping this broken hearted family to walk through the hours and days ahead. The loss of our son and brother will always leave a gaping hole in our hearts, but you have all had a part in even making our passage through this terrible time possible. And because of you, Matt will never be forgotten. For your love, thankyou from all of the Rineveld family.
Cousin Em
January 19th 2010
One more thing, just to remember the smiles that Matt brought. As Matt's cousin, he had so many girls to play with, he always did what we girls (Wendy, Marie and I) wanted to. He loved showing me the hamsters, jumping on the trampoline and I love even as we grew older he always had something funny to say when I saw him. He loved giving hugs and making us smile! God gave us so many awesome years with him, I know he's making people laugh in heaven now! :)
Emily Lindgren
January 19th 2010
Uncle Dan, Aunt Val, Wendy and Marie
My love, thoughts and prayers are for you each right now to cope with the loss of Matt. Thank you for the love you gave him and the ways you shaped him into such a special young man. So sorry we couldn't come home, but know that we love you and are praying for you.
All our love, Jason, Emily and Family
Beth
January 17th 2010
Matt, What can I say? I only found out today that you are gone from us. We didn't talk often but everytime we did you left a smile on my face. Every time that you met someone they couldn't help but like you. The short time that we had together taught me so much about life and love and muppets :) You truly made me the person I am today and for that along with many other things (purple elephants for one ) I will never forget you.
Valerie, Marie, Wendy, Dan and Scott,
My sincerest condolences to all of you. May God Bless you in everything that you do and help you through this most trying time.
Amanda Bernstein
January 17th 2010
bigbrat3080@comcast.net
I met Matt several years ago at Silverleaf Renaissance Faire and became instant friends. Over the years, we would loose touch and then somehow always reconnected. It is weird to say that he is gone. He could make you laugh no matter what mood you were in. He will truly be missed by all that he touched.
Katrina Keteri
January 15th 2010
gorillainterrupted@gmail.com
I only had a chance to meet Matt once, unfortunately, but.. there are some people you meet once and don't remember... there are some people you meet 20 times and don't remember much. Matt was definitely not one of those people, he was so full of character. My most sincere condolences to his family and all of his friends.
Stewart Davenport
January 15th 2010
stewart.m.davenport@pfizer.com
Dear Dan and family:
I am so saddened to hear about the sudden death of your son Matt.
Losing a child is one of the saddest life challenges and words that can give you true comfort are hard to find.
You and your family have all my strength, blessing, and prayers in this difficult time.
Again, My thoughts are with you now, and I send you my deepest sympathy.
God bless.
Stewart
CURT AND HEATHER WASHBURN
January 15th 2010
DEAR DAN, WENDY, AND MARIE
WE ARE SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS, OUR THROUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.
Christine Cherluck
January 14th 2010
carwjc95@comcast.net
Dear Val, My heart goes out to you, no words can suffice...many hugs to you! May Jesus hold you in the palm of his hand and comfort your sorrowful heart. You and your girls will be in my prayers a long while..... Chris Cherluck
Kathy Olsen
January 14th 2010
olsen@upjohn.org
Dear Val, Dan, Wendy and Marie,
I am so very sorry for your loss and can't imagine what you must be feeling right now. Most of my memories of Matt are from scouts. He was a certainly a fine young man and you must be so proud of him.
Each of you will be in my thoughts and prayers. When you experience rough moments in the days ahead, I hope that fond memories of joyous times will lift your spirits.
Please remember that God will be at your side throughout.
Sincerely,
Kathy
Kathleen Karnes
January 14th 2010
kkarnes1@gmail.com
Dearest Val,
You may not remember what I said to you in your state of numbness. I, too, have suffered the pain of the loss of a child. Please, please, call on me when you need me. Please take advantage of the grief counselling that the hospital has to offer. It takes a long, long time to be able to live without that part of your heart, but the counselling helps us to go on.
I love you. I will wait for you to reach out to the circle of friends you have in dancing, but know that I am there for you.
Kathleen
Robert Beltran
January 14th 2010
Rbeltran6@yahoo.com
Words can't even described how much I enjoyed working with Matt he was always there when I had a question or to tell me the latest joke from Sherman's lagoon, I'll truly miss him as a friend an a co-worker. May God give you comfort and peace during this time
Carolyn Schultz
January 14th 2010
ceschultz760@sbcglobal.net
Dan, It is very difficult to loose someone you love so much. Having just lost my mother in Aug. I can imagine how you must feel. Know that your friends are thinking of you and keeping you in their prayers. I will continue to lift your family up in my own personal prayers. Peace be with you
Carolyn
Gloria (Bennett) Leyda
January 14th 2010
cntrymama@fla.homeip.net
Val and family,
I am so sorry to hear of the tragic passing of your son Matt. I too know the pain so very much as we lost our son Matt (26) December 14, 2008 in a tragic auto accident. Like your Matt, he too was an Eagle Scout, and he loved the Muppets in fact his computer contact was "Kermit" There are no words that will ease the pain that you are all feeling at this moment. Just know in your heart that he is in a better place, free from all pain and in your heart are the many memories of what appears to have been a wonderful young man. God bless you all. Gloria
Carolyn Pearcy att Robin's Friend/Co-worker
January 14th 2010
cpearcy50@gmail.com
I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't even begin to imagine, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Carolyn
Martha Line
January 14th 2010
I did not know Matt personally. I do work with Beckie Bower and know how deeply saddened she was at his passing. I pray you will know the peace that only God can bring at this time of your sorrow and unexpected loss.
Michael Bova
January 14th 2010
avobekim@yahoo.com
As I was remembering Matt and reading some of the memories on here...I think we forgot that we're losing one VERY IMPORTANT thing Matt had and shared with us and the world..THE PURPLE ELEPHANT!!! ENUF SAID..
Mike
Nichaleen Phillips
January 14th 2010
nichaleen.phillips@yahoo.com
I wanted to mention the camp Matt counseled at was Crystal Lake Confrence center by Beulah Mi. as far as I know he only attended Lake Louise as a camper. While counseling at crystal lake he loaned one of my girls his tickle me Elmo cuz she was homesick. I am a very light sleeper and so every time she hugged it or rolled over on it I woke up. Needless to say Elmo was not allowed in my cabin again! lol
Debbie (Heathcote) Roschek
January 14th 2010
Dear Dan, Val, Wendy and Marie,
(I have known Dan and Val since we were 19 yrs. or so, and have had the pleasure of meeting Marie). Dan and Val, you have raised wonderful children, you should be so very proud of them.
I'm pleased to have had the opportunity to read the memories held by Matt's friends. He was obviously a remarkable young man, with enviable personal values. We should all reach out to people the way Matt did. It looks as though God has a new angel.
My heart aches for you. Please know that you are in my prayers.
Debbie
Misty Dudgeon
January 14th 2010
misty.dudgeon@owb.com
I have known Matt for four years. We started working at the bank around the same time. We used to sit next to each other, I remember he gave me a stuffed Pluto to hold onto just to keep a smile on my face. He always did that for everyone, brought a little sunshine. One day working beside him I learned we both shared the same birthday, December 28th, although he was two years older than me, we now had this common bond. It explained his fascination with the fantasy world, because I am the same way. He was a very kind hearted person, that liked to make you laugh and smile. Our birthday will never be the same. I will always think of Matt on the day of our birth and say a little prayer for him. He will stay alive in so many memories because so many people loved and cared for him. This was not an ending but a new beginning, I have to believe he is having an amazing time on his new journey.
Annette Hampton Cannon
January 14th 2010
anetpc@yahoo.com
I knew Dan from my classes with him in high school. I remember him often joking around and sharing his quirky sense of humor with us, which I didn't always get. :) Although I haven't had contact with him since high school, I see from the memories that he has continued to be the same, good person I knew then. I am very impressed that he was the person he is at such a young age. Not everyone knows who they are in high school.
I am sad to hear that we don't get to have his goodness, kindness, smiles and thoughtfulness longer on this world. One of my goals this year is to develop and show greater love and kindness to everyone. I see Dan (Matt) is a great example for me of how to BE a genuine, loving person. It sounds like he didn't need to work on that pure love like I still do; he basically had one of the most important things figured out: loving others as he loved himself.
I am sorry for you to lose him so unexpectedly and so young--that is the hardest. I will keep you guys in my prayers.
Annette Hampton Cannon
Aaron Niemi
January 13th 2010
aaron@niemi.com
(I was a counselor at Lake Louise UMC Sr High Camp when Matt was a camper.) 15+ years later, I still remember Matt as a funny teen who loved to sing. Prayers and hugs for all those who will miss him.
Heather Nicholas
January 13th 2010
geode_girl@hotmail.com
Dear Dan, Val, Marie and Wendy,
I am so sorry to hear of Matt's passing. I will always remember talking to Matt in church on Sundays about scouts and band. He always had such a fun personality. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time.
Heather
Von Berkheiser
January 13th 2010
von_b@us.aflac.com
Matt was far too young.
My thoughts and prayers...
Von
Bob Engster
January 13th 2010
bob@sspusa.com
Dan and Val,
This is one of those times that should never be. We all have grown together and watched each other's kids become fine adults. You can be proud that Matt was a very loving son; one that would make you proud.
My sincerest sympathy goes out to you.
God Bless,
Bob
Teresa Edison
January 13th 2010
teresaedison@att.net
Dear Val and Dan,
I read the obituary for your in Kalamazoo's Gazette today and am so very saddened !
You will mostly remember me from working at Borgess during years 1972-1976 and knowing you there Val.
The most important memory though ,, was our joint Lamaze classes with both of you and my ex-husband Stan Whitaker. My name has changed as we sadly divorced , & I remarried. I was just looking at the photos of our "reunion" with our babies a few weeks after all had been born & enjoying the fun of parenthood & sharing our stories. You were both such wonderful parents & I know that looking at all of the great photos of your son Matt, he always felt your love and adoration!!!!! Our daughter Angela was born a few weeks after Matt & I will always remember the great times we had with you. I am so very sorry and heartsick for you, your girls and extended family. I will keep you in prayers for some sort of peace of mind and heart...Your friend from work and wonderful Lamaze classes, Teresa (Whitaker) Edison
January 13th 2010
Dear Val and Family,
Please know how saddened I was to hear about your son Matt. Please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Kathy Brockway
Don and Cheryl Butler
January 13th 2010
We didn't know Matt well but being a neighbor, when you saw Matt he always had a great smile! Our concolence to the Rineveld family.
Diane Loftus
January 13th 2010
diloft@att.net
Matt, You were such a unique and special soul. Your humor kept even the tensest situation funny. You will surely be missed by all those who knew and appreciated you. Those that never met you will never know the wonderful person they missed meeting. At least you and Jim Henson can share story ideas.
Amy (Matlock) Schuerman
January 13th 2010
amatlock75@yahoo.com
I went to school with Matt (Dan), whom was 2 years behind me in school, I remeber him as a funny , outgoing guy , who constantly had some kind of crazy comment while we were at band practice going through set after set.
He was full of life, and always had a great smile (usually with some kind of mischeif to go with it). Even though I lost touch with him after high school as classmates do, I will miss him. I will remember the comedy and laughter he brought to my life during my senior year.
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Rineveld Family.
God Bless!
Carrianne Wilson
January 13th 2010
cwilson.ire@gmail.com
I only met Matt last year on a kayak trip, but after our day on the river, it felt like we'd been friends for years--I guess that was just the kind of person that he was.
I will always remember him, paddling down the river, making jokes, talking about the family trip to Ireland and learning how to ride a Harley. What a great day that was.
Carrie McCarter-Barnes
January 13th 2010
caremcb@aol.com
My heart aches for the loss of Matt (or as I last called him
"DanMatt"). I haven't seen Matt in years, but he is someone I would've quickly hugged and joked with if I had. Matt and I grew up in church together--sang in choir, attended youth group, and Lake Louise together. I also remember babysitting Matt, Wendy, and Marie once. They were in the bedroom jumping from the top bunk of the bunkbed to the floor. I told them all "no way, get down." Matt was the first to pipe up and tell me that his parents always let them do that---Good try, my friend was my response :) his mom told me that she had never allowed that :).
I am so very sorry for the Rinevelds and all the friends and family who Matt touched with his humor, wit, and sarcasm! Matt, you will be missed here on earth, but can't wait to see you on the other side!
May God grant us all the peace and comfort we need today and the days ahead.
Love,
Carrie
Amber Schull
January 13th 2010
amber.schull@nationalcity.com
I remember my first day at my new cubicle at IMB and I kept seeing a blur of red out of the corner of my eye- well, it was Matt, of course-he kept peeking over the wall with this silly look on his face. After getting to know him, I realized it was just his way of trying to welcome me to the cubicle row and to make me laugh. He always said the most bizarre stuff and many times I had to ask what on earth he was talking about. He used to compile emails with tons of comis clips and jokes in them that kept the day from dragging on. Many times he gave me cough drops, tyelenol, Vick's scented kleenex, and who can forget Sweet Waters donuts early on Saturday morning? I also will never forget finding little creatures at my desk when I came into work, mostly a little furry Garfield and a penguin that keep me company. I loved my hand-colored Muppet picture and the box of Twinkies one year for Christmas. I was so thrown of by the Twinkies I was literally speachless for over an hour, and looking back on it, I hope I didn't come across as rude. I also enjoyed the McDonald's toys he would give me after he ate his Happy Meals. Matt will surely be missed by many people and I can only imagine how wierd it must be without him at work. He was a great worker. I will never be as dedicated to work as he was, he did a good job each and every day and was always willing to lend a helping hand. I still can't comprehend how such a nice person like Matt won't be around to keep people smiling, but I guess that is what memories are for. Matt's memory will live on through the people's lives he touched. Never again will I look at a Muppet without thinking of him. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends. I am so sorry for you loss.
nick avitable
January 13th 2010
slicknik2@gmail.com
I became friends with matt in april when I started my training at one west bank. We had a lot of the same things in common and it was a lot of fun talking about random world of warcraft stuff or whatever was on our minds. when I moved back to connecticut we still talked on facebook. he will definitely be missed and was a great friend to me even though I didn't know him for very long.
lacresha
January 13th 2010
At a time like this, we are at a loss for words
to express our condolence to someone who has lost a loved one.
How to say it to bring comfort?
How to say that we care?
How to say that we understand?
Chris Veine
January 12th 2010
I will remember you paddling down the river with your sisters and Dad; joking, laughing, smiling. Paddle on Matt; your kind hearted spirit and smile will be missed.
Scott Matteson
January 12th 2010
artisanscott@gmail.com
16 years ago, Andrea (Christie) Trantham introduced me to a young fella named Matt. It was one of the moments everyone has, the kind that changes your life completely, alters its course for all time, and you don't even realize it. Not long after, we attended camp at Lake Louise for a week in the summer. When we teamed up, along with Andrea, to sing acapella for the week's talent show, that moment happened again. Hundreds of acapella songs later, mostly on cassette in his truck, we were inseparable. Best of friends. The first time I ever moved out of my parents' house, he was my roommate. In that time when he worked for Hollywood Video, he was my favorite and most valuable employee. When I stood before my family and friends, sharing wedding vows, he had my back, following the oldest traditions of the Best Man, with a ceremonial sword on his shoulder.
Perfect was never a word to describe the course of our friendship. We fell out, we bounced back, we stumbled, we recovered. The tune became dissonant, but we always made the music. From the day we met, I never imagined a day where he would not be a phone call away. He tried to eat well, he never smoked, and seeing him drink was exceedinly rare. I always assumed that he would, as an aging jokester, plant a funny and embarrassing photo of me in plain view as he helped carry my casket to its rest. Now, as I prepare myself for the task of doing the same for him, I am struck by the unfairness of it. Matt was a man who earned his time in this world, but now he cannot spend it. Those of us who remain, to send him onward to that which is after, owe it to his memory, to each and every smile that he brought to the world, to our lives, to make the most of them. We still wake up every morning. Knowing how much he would want us to be happy, we must make every single morning our chance to change the world. To make the moments that alter the course of our lives.
Make people smile...
...and sing a song.
Eric & Jen Herman
January 12th 2010
ericherman@live.com
I met Matt when my family moved to Portage. His best friend Scott lived just a few doors down from my new home, and meeting Matt was inevitable. We became friends right away--as he did with everyone. He was probably one of the kindest people I've ever known. We performed together in Sing Out Kalamazoo for a short period, where we enjoyed each other's company along with the joy of music and performing.
But for me, Matt was more than just a fellow musician and acquaintance. One of my fondest memories is of him showing up at our front door on Halloween in full purple elephant garb. It was not to trick or treat; it was just to wish us well for the holiday. Even my parents remember that day! It made a smiling impression on them. Because that is what Matt was: He was a smiling impression. He was a positive stamp that printed itself on anyone he came into contact with. Matt was the purple elephant in the room, but no one ever complained or became uncomfortable. Because purple elephants are happy, not sad.
It's hard to think of someone so young being taken from us but I'm convinced that Matt is looking in on us from Heaven through the little eye holes in his purple elephant head. I hope what he sees makes him feel good about having lived a life that touched so many in such amazing ways.
Thank you, my friend! You accepted me as I am, no questions asked. I am forever grateful to you for that blessing you gave to me. I will miss you and think of you often.
Your Friend,
-Eric
Nichaleen (Bach) Phillips
January 12th 2010
nichaleen.phillips@yahoo.com
I first met Matt at a middle school youth group halloween dance hosted by his church. He was dressed as the Little Cesars guy. Matt was a very special guy and will always hold a special place in my heart. My absolute favorite memory was the time he showed up at my house in his purple elephant costume just to wish me a happy birthday. He also wore the same costume to a new years eve party at my house. I will miss you Matty, it doesn't seem fair that we just reconnected and now you are gone but I know you are in a better place and I will see you again!
Heather Schettner
January 12th 2010
heather.schettner@owb.com
I have worked with MattDan for the past four years and each day I knew I could look forward to MattDan making me laugh about something. Shortly after he came to work at IMB he allowed his stuffed Garfield to sit at my desk just to put a smile on my face. Matt was always looking for ways to make people happy he even went so far as to walk around the call center in a giant purple elephant costume, I will never look at a purple elephant and not see Matt. I am very honored that I knew Matt and was lucky enough to work with him so long. In the dictionary next to "good guy" I think there should be a picture of Matt! Thanks for all the memories and laughs. MattDan you will be missed! -Heather
Michael and Laura Sherrod
January 12th 2010
asimplechange@gmail.com
Mike and I both worked with Matt Dan at Indymac Bank. Matt Dan was one of the most genuine people that either of us has ever known. He never strayed from his true self and because of that was such a bright spot in this world. We will never forget his sense of humor and kind and caring heart. In closing, a little something from the Muppet Show that sums up how we are feeling and we know he would have loved.
STATLER: Boo!
WALDORF: Boooo!
STATLER: That was the worst thing I’ve ever heard!
WALDORF: It was terrible!
STATLER: Horrendous!
WALDORF: Well it wasn’t that bad.
STATLER: Oh, yeah?
WALDORF: Well, there were parts of it I liked!
STATLER: Well, I liked alot of it.
WALDORF: Yeah, it was GOOD actually.
STATLER: It was great!
WALDORF: It was wonderful!
STATLER: Yeah, bravo!
WALDORF: More!
STATLER: More!
WALDORF: More!
STATLER: More!
Michelle Brausch
January 12th 2010
michelle.brausch@owb.com
My friendship with Matt started 4 years ago when I started at OWB. A few days after I was assigned my seat I came to my desk and there was an Ode stuffed animal at my desk. That was Matt, always the welcoming committee! I knew then that he would keep me smiling. From him bringing in 20lbs of gummy worms to multiple bags of cough drops Matt always bought things in bulk to be sure he had enough 'just in case someone needs something' was what he would say. I had a period of time when I was sick often and Matt never failed to call and check on me. He always reminded us that he cared. I will miss the looks over the rims of your glasses that you gave me, the crazy random things you would say just to get a smile, and so many things that made you the Matty aka Mattdan we all know and love more than I think you knew. I miss you, things will not be the same.
Jeanne Fuce
January 12th 2010
jeanne.fuce@owb.com
Matt,
You have always been a constant light of positivity in my life even when you were feeling blue. I had the pleasure of working closely with you through On the Job training at OWB and appreciate the amazing sense of humor you have. I will always cherish the happy memories you've provided me and don't think I could ever eat another gummi worm without thinking fondly of you. You will be missed Matt, my thoughts are with your family in this time of sadness.
Much Love,
Jeanne
Patrick Moore
January 12th 2010
patdmoore1@yahoo.com
I have a lot of memories, even though I did not know him long, but one memory sticks out the most. He was my OJT trainer. On one of our off times him and I were looking at pictures of muppets and he said to me, "Look, it's me." Then he pointed at his computer screen and it was a picture of Kermit The Frog smiling. He then looked at me and smiled like Kermit. I thought it was so funny that he looked like Kermit from that picture. I actually thought that if Kermit would turn human, Matt would be what he would look like. So from that point on, I called him, "Kermit." I will always remember this forever. I will miss my buddy Kermit! I will never forget him!
Allison (Lyman) Loyd
January 12th 2010
a5loyd@wmich.edu
My thoughts and prayers go out to all of the Reinveld's right now. Matt and I worked together at Harding's for a short time. Like everyone else, I always loved his smile (much like Marie's...infectious). Once I was sick and home from work. I was just a freshman or sophomore in high school and I remember my Dad coming to my room with a bouquet of flowers saying how "a boy dressed as a purple dinosaur dropped these off for you". I begged my Dad to check my temperature one more time because I wasn't sure I had heard him right. Matt was thoughtful and kind and will be missed dearly. *Alli Lyman-Loyd*
Heather (paul)- campsmith
January 12th 2010
I went to school with Dan, whom was year behind me in school, I remeber him as a funny , outgoing guy , who would always say off the wall things to make you laugh.
he was full of life, and had such vigor for what life had in
store for him. I even though I lost touch with him after
highschool as classmates do I will miss him.my thoughts
and prayers go out to the Rineveld Family.
jim and marey lesman
January 12th 2010
we always looked forward to seeing matt at the family parties, he had a great sense of humor. we always knew when we said "good to see you" he would say "good to be seen". our deepest sympathy goes out to matt's family. all of you are in our prayers. Hey Matt--- from heaven watch over your sisters---they are so special to us!!!!!!!
Maria Arnold
January 12th 2010
maria.arnold@owb.com
Matt,
What can I say? There's so much to share even though I've only known your for 2 short years. You were always there for me, whether it's for a laugh or for some kind advise, to giving me cough drops when I needed it or headache meds when work or stress seems to try to overwhelm me. One of my 1st memories of you is you in that huge purple elephant handing out peanuts. You had me laughing so hard that I had tears running down my face.
Thank you so much for all the talks we shared, everything from talking about the cartoons that we use to listen to, to the Muppets and World of Warcraft. And how we can talk! You've always been caring and always trying to make people happy. Know that we all love you and miss you. You will be remembered and cherish! Rest peacefully and watch over us. Love you, Matt!
Uncle Mark, Johanna & Zachary
January 12th 2010
Our hearts are broken. We have no answers for anyones questions. We are trying to keep our faith. All we can think to do right now is to promise take care of your Mom and Dad and sisters. We will try to be strong for our family. We will cherish every minute of time we get to spend with each other whether it be our summer camping trips or yet another family BBQ. We love you Matt. You truely made this world a better place.
Emily Elliott
January 12th 2010
ecrashe@gmail.com
To Matt's Family
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Matt. He was such a great guy. Matt and I were on and off again friends as our lives crossed paths and then would fall out of touch. Matt was a funny, loving, caring guy that I remember meeting some 13+ years ago. I wish that I could have been better friends with him over the years and am sorry that I wasn't. No words can take away the pain you must feel but just know that Matt was loved by many and will be missed by many more.
Emily Elliott
Nancy Guthaus Hudson
January 12th 2010
nhudson11191@aol.com
Val, Dan and girls
Words can't express how my heart is breaking with Matt's passing. I remember Matt from PUMC as the kid who was always smiling, who loved to joke and loved God. My prayers are with you all, Matt and Liz also send their love and sympathy. Thank the girls for posting information on Facebook, I've read many of the things on his friends list and how liked he was in his work and personal life.
Nancy Guthaus Hudson, Kalamazoo
Elizabeth Guthaus Will, Grand Rapids
Matt Guthaus, San Francisco, CA/Santa Cruz, CA
Beth Doxtator
January 12th 2010
mamadox@charter.net
Dan and Val - You knew me as Beth Van Donselaar - I was married to Schmed. I babysat for Matt when he was just a little baby and Val worked at Borgess. I remember him as a very sweet and contented baby, red hair and blue eyes, with a sort of sweet shy smile. From reading the memories here, I see that he grew up well and made you proud, leaving many good friends that will miss him a lot. That is a tribute to you, for guiding him to be the kind of man he was to become. I can only say that my heart aches for both of you in your loss. Let God wrap you in His arms and hold you tight as you deal with the pain of this huge loss in your lives. God bless - Beth
Aneda Matteson (Scott's Mom)
January 12th 2010
anedam@chartermi.net
The first time I met Matt, Scott introduced me as 'this is Mom'. From that day on Matt always called me Mom. He was a frequent visitor to my house and generally would knock once and then walk right in explaining he didn't want to disturb me by making me get up to answer the door. Knowing Matt it's possible it was his way of teasing me about getting old. :)
One very hot summer Matt & Scott were in a play at the Renaissance Faire. Matt was wearing a heavy costume and the heat was getting to him. His face became very red and he started to sway. Just then he looked my way and mouthed the words "Mom, help me." I jumped up from the audience and grabbed him, made him lay on the ground and poured a bottle of water on him. Then said "Do you know how long I've wanted to do that?" He had a great laugh!
I'll miss you Matt but I'll see you again some day. Love Mom
Robert Lynch
January 12th 2010
robbiethompson05@sbcglobal.net
Like others I only knew Matt through work. But I can't let that stop me from sharing the Matt that I knew with everyone else who was close to him. You can tell a lot about a person not just by how they treat their family and friends, but by the way they treat others, for example co-workers like myself. My first memory is of him coloring like 15 or so Kermit the Frogs and distributing them to others in the call center, including my wife who also just started. I think my facial hair deterred him from putting the moves on me :)
Not too long ago I was chatting with him about the Sherman's Lagoon funnies and he brought up how there is one where Sherman happens to die. I said I couldn't imagine anything funny about Sherman passing (I love that Shark), but he argued that I will find it funny. So he began sending that particular set of funnies one week. Now in the end of the story Sherman ended up faking it and tragically that is not the case with our harsh reality.
The point that I am trying to make is this, even after Matt's untimely passing, we can all look back on Matt's life and remember him for the witty, funny, charming person he was. I think everyone knows what I'm talking about when you read all the memories, he was a fun person to be around, even for someone who could only share small talk with at work.
R.I.P Matt
Lord knows we need more people like you on Earth...
Kali
January 12th 2010
uberkali@gmail.com
Matt,
I am one of the fortunate people who got to have the experience of knowing you. Our friend circles seemed to overlap many times over. I always had a hard time working at IMB, and if I could tell you in person how much easier life there became once we became desk buddies, I would. Thank you for the laughter! I will never forget having Kermit The Frog as our Desk Liason, peeking over the partition. You will be sorely missed, and I truly hope you knew in your passing how very loved you were by so many people in life.
It was a pleasure. Rest well, friend!
-Kali
Carol Daly
January 12th 2010
yladlorac@msn.com
Matt I will miss you,. You were the only one who came close to being as sarcastic as I am. I'll miss your style and humor. You'll always be Matt-Dan, Cat-Dog. It was great to know you.
Carol
Jeri Noneman
January 12th 2010
jnoneman@financialfreedom.com
To Matts Family and Friends,
Although I did not get the chance to know Matt personally, we worked for the same company & I've heard a great deal about how funny, loving, caring and special he was.
To Matts Parents,
Sadly, I know the great loss you are suffering. Please know that no matter what, you will always have your beloved son in your heartrs and souls. He is above in heaven with the angels watching over you and will for the rest of your days. He is now your guardian angel.
My thoughts and prayers go out to you all during your time of grief and sadness.
God Bless,
Jeri
Jennifer Smith
January 12th 2010
babyduck103@yahoo.com
Oh Matt, where to begin.....we have shared alot, cried together laughed together, cried because we were laughing so hard....I love you very much and always will my lil' Pepe'. What I would give to hear you call me Beaker one more time. You never failed to cheer me up when I was feeling down, whether it be showing up at my apartment with soup when I was sick to coming into work with chocolate on my desk. You always knew what I loved. Your love and caringness was so infectious, and I will never ever forget or stop thinking of you. I will cherish every memory, from you walking my dog with me, bowling, and holiday celebrations. I'm the lucky one to have had a person like you care for me and be my friend. Rest in peace my friend, and tell Jim Henson I said hello, I know you two are having a ball :)
Angela Reidt
January 12th 2010
Angela.Reidt@owb.com
Matt,
you were the best friend anyone could of asked for. You were always there for me no matter what it was for and I thank you for that. Any time I needed a laugh or for someone to cheer me up I would go and see you or call you. My kids love their uncle Matt and will always love you and remember you. You will never be forgotten Matt Dan, the mupput man. I love you and always will and you will always be a part of my life.
Matt's Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Matt was a great guy and touched many people in his life and he will never be forgotten for that reason. You had a great brother and son.
Heather Woodard
January 12th 2010
Athens1997@yahoo.com
Where do I begin? I guess I can start by saying that I am thankful to have so many wonderful memories of Matt, that the task of choosing the best one to share is difficult. The first one that comes to mind is when Matt discovered the comic series "Sherman's Lagoon." He came to work one day with a single book, and I could hear him laughing between phone calls (sometimes even DURING phone calls) at the comics that he was reading. The next day, a single book had turned into purchasing the entire series. He shoved those shark comics in my face whenever I was down.... sometimes I would even bite back by saying "Damn it Matt, I don't want to smile right now!" And he would simply reply "Heather, everyone wants to smile some time." Matt, I will forever miss your insatiable ability to make us smile! You were always such a bright light amongst so much darkness, and I am truly blessed to have known you. Sleep peacefully with the angels, my special friend, and thank you for watching over us from the skies above.
Laurie Whitaker
January 12th 2010
lawhitaker@yahoo.com
Our hearts are so heavy with the loss of such a great person. Matt/Dan always had a smile and kind word for everyone. I affectionately called him Cat/Dog, thinking that show was past his time. Well to no surprise, he knew the show and every word of the theme song. I can still hear him singing it today - like an angel from heaven. May gods love help Matt/Dans friends and family through this difficult time. We all miss him.
Kelli (Winkle) Jones
January 12th 2010
kellijones_101@yahoo.com
I was saddened to hear Dan/Matt has passed away. I'll always remember his laugh, his smile, his voices. Elmo was my favorite. I'll remember his purple elephant suit and the flowers and the way he loved to sing along with every song on the radio.
I am so sorry for your loss.
Kelli
Amanda
January 12th 2010
Amanda.McNees@owb.com
Matt was a good friend. He was there for me when I needed him the most and never left me alone until I at least smiled and he knew i was ok. He always made me laugh and smile and I was always nice to be people regardless. He never had anything bad to say about anyone. And he loved purple flowers! :)
I love you matt and I will always have you in my heart and know that you are with me and watching over all who loved you.
Michelle McLandsborough
January 12th 2010
michelle.griffin@owb.com
There was never a dull moment with Matt around.....4 years ago when I met Matt, he intoduced him self to me as "MattDan the Muppet Man", that was great. Matt and I worked together side by side training people at work, bowled together as well and there wasnt a moment where I wasnt smiling from something he said or his jokes. Matt was there when ever needed and also had a very big heart of gold. Matt we will miss you very much and you will always be in our hearts.
~Michelle
Bekah Sobel
January 12th 2010
bekahnrachel@yahoo.com
Matt was a great friend, one who was always there for you no matter the circumstances. He always made me laugh when I was stressed and always listened when I needed to cry. His humor was like no other! Matt you will be missed!
Precious LORD, we come in prayer to ask for an outpouring of Your compassion, solace, and peace to the family, friends and loved ones of Matt Rineveld. The tragedy and trauma of this sudden loss of one so young is hard to comprehend much less bear – so we cry out to the One who understands and who heals broken hearts. We thank You LORD that Your Holy Word tells us that You comfort all who mourn (Isaiah 61:2). Please comfort and help these hurting souls and bring Your beautiful peace that passes all understanding. We ask this in the Name that is above all names, the true and living LORD JESUS CHRIST.
John Ley
January 12th 2010
john.ley@owb.com
Matt Dan--
He was the best friend anyone could ever ask for. He was true to his word, willing to be there in a heartbeat for you in moment's notice. He could make you smile through your tears, laugh when you needed it, and love you like no other. There are so many great memories I have of Matt that keep replaying in my mind everyday. From his amusing bowling style--throwing the bowling ball half way down the lane and then wondering why his ball had little control, to dedication to his family....never missing an event at mom's or flying with dad. And friends, he had so many honest and true people at his side. If you formed a bond with Matt, you knew that he would always be with you.
Matt, you will forever be in my heart. You will never be forgotten. I miss you each and every day. I know I have a guardian Muppet watching over me for always.
Jennifer (Sanders) Arney
January 12th 2010
jenniferarney@gmail.com
I knew Matt in junior high and high school. Our names were near each other in the alphabet, so we always had homeroom together and sat near each other in class. I just remember him as a kind person who never hesitate to strike up a conversation or answer questions. He will definitely be missed.
Michael Bova
January 12th 2010
avobekim@yahoo.com
What to say about Matt? Matt was Matt. Kind hearted,funny,a good friend,a brother,son,christan,fighter,survivor.
I've known Matt for several years..been throught thick and thin,better and worse,on speaking terms and not, But Matt,to me and many others who knew him,was Matt.
MATT...ELMO LOVES YOU!!!
Sean Williams
January 12th 2010
sean@seanandlaurawilliams.com
Words can't even begin to describe Matt, or the impact he's had on so many lives. He always had a generous soul, and was willing to do anything he could to befriend and comfort all those around him, and never had a single negative thing to say about anyone. His dry sense of humor and wit were unparalleled. Although the last time he and I saw each other was 16 years ago, we were able to immediately pick up on a friendship recently right where things left off. Again, it's that sense of belonging and inclusion that he always held close to himself, and strived for every day.
You will be missed friend, by more people than you probably ever realized you affected. Thank you for everything.
Courtney Domsic
January 12th 2010
shawtygirl79@yahoo.com
Auntie, Dan, Marie and Wendy,
I am so very sorry for you loss. I am very saddened to loose such a great cousin and a great friend. Matt always knew how to walk into a room and make someone smile. I remember a certain time when Matt, Wendy and I were on our way up to camping and he said something so funny that I had tears comming out of my eyes cause I couldn't stop laughing. The girls and I will miss him very much. Our prayers and thought are with you through this diffcult time.. We love you.
Love,
Courtney, Alexis and Natalie
Marcy (Ball) Locatis
January 11th 2010
cruisegirl74@hotmail.com
I am sad that I just found Matt's facebook page and had asked to add me as a friend but he was already gone. I remember him from Lake Louise. He was good at making you laugh. I unfortunately lost touch with him after my last year at Lake Louise. I would of loved to known how much of personality from back then he still had. Everyone will miss you Matt Dan.
Marcy (Ball) Locatis
AIMEE BLOOD-BUGGIE
January 11th 2010
BUGSTER111@AOL.COM
DAN, VAL, WENDY, AND MARIE,
I'AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSE. I KNOW THERE ARE NO WORDS TO EXPRESS THE PAIN OF LOSING MATT. HIS PRESENCE WILL BE VOID, BUT HE WILL ALWAYS LIVE ON IN YOUR MEMORIES AND STORIES. THIS TIME OF GRIEF IS SO SURREAL; I REMEMBER FEELING AS IF I WERE ON AUTO PILOT JUST GOING THROUGH THE MOTIONS. I FEEL YOUR PAIN AND I'AM SO SORRY THAT YOU HAVE TO GO THROUGH IT. HOLD ONTO EACH OTHER TIGHT AND KNOW THAT YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE YOUR BOND WITH MATT-NOTHING CAN TAKE THAT AWAY. LIFE WILL DEEFINITELY NOT BE THE SAME WITHOUT HIM BUT DON'T FORGET YOU HAVE EACH OTHER AND CELEBRATE THE WONDERFUL YEARS YOU HAD WITH HIM.
I REMEMBER WHEN MATT AND THE GIRLS PERFERED NIKKI TO WATCH THEM WHEN WERE WERE YOUNGER; SHE ALWAYS LET THEM HAVE EXTRA SNACKS, T.V. AND PHONE TIME. WE USE TO HAVE A BLAST PLAYING OUTSIDE IN THE WOODEN PLAYHOUSE. IT WAS SO COOL. ALSO, I REMEBER MATT ALWAYS HAD HIS BOYSCOUT OUTFIT ON. AGAIN, TAKE COMFORT WITH EACH OTHER . MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALL.
mysi
January 11th 2010
melissa.caswell@nationalcity.com
Matt~~
I feel so bad for not being a better friend. You were the best; I guess I thought because I always saw you that you would always be there. How wrong I was! You gave every effort to everything you undertook and you did not love or care for someone lightly. Your sense of humor, your dry sarcasm and quick wit often bit me in the butt! You were never afraid to laugh at yourself and that elephant costume was the craziest thing! I hope in some way you knew how many lives you touched. There will be a huge hole in our lives and particularly in mine. Watch out for us down here ok?
Stephanie "Secondi" Clark
January 11th 2010
steffi8575@gmial.com
I just wanted to say I am soo sorry for your loss. I knew Matt in middle school and high school. We marched next to each other in band. I have soo many good memories of him. He used to pick on me (all in fun). In recent years I would see him when he'd come in to Hardings, where I worked. It was nice keep in contact with him through the years. He was definitely one of a kind and will be missed.
My prayers are with you all.
Stephanie
Katie Dewey
January 11th 2010
katie.dewey@owb.com
Matt,
You will truly be missed. You were the one person who could always make me smile and I will never forget that!
Jennifer Benthin
January 11th 2010
Matt-Dan,
I am going to miss your goofy, fun-loving sense of humor and great personality. You would do anything for any one at a drop of a hat. Thanks for including me in the group of Sherman's Lagoon fans and keeping me updated on the Muppet specials. It is not going to be the same without you.
To Matt's family,
I am so sorry for your loss my thoughts and prayers are with you.
~Jennifer
Kermit The Frog
February 7th 2012
Dearest Matt - December 28, 2011
Your smile and sense of humor are missed every day, but especially on this day. We hear your voice telling jokes and then your laughing at your own jokes.
Taking heart that you are there just over the threshold and not really gone.
Love to you and all the family
Kermie The Frog
January 31st 2011
Kermie@att.net
Dear MATTY,
December 28, 2010 - you would have been 34 today. How we want to have you and go out for a steak dinner with baked potato. But your chair is empty.We are comforted by the fact that you are having dinner with a heavenly host. That must be very fun.
Happy 34th birthday to you.
Love, Kermie and your family
Kermit THE Frog
December 27th 2010
Kermie@att.net
Dear Matt,
We can only wonder how great your Christmas was in heaven. It takes out some of the sting of hurt we carry as we carry on without you. Your Christmas stocking had Gummy Sharks that we left at your grave site. We also went to your grave at night and played 3-part Danny Boy on our Irish music boxes in the setting sun and light snow flurries. We could feel you with us.
Your friend, Kermie
Kermit THE Frog
December 8th 2010
Kermie@att.net
Matty-
Your mom sends a message that she missed you terribly on her birthday last week.
Kermie
Kermit THE Frog
December 1st 2010
Kermie@att.net
Your mom, dad and sisters had a nice traditional Thanksgiving at Marie's house in Ohio. Amber's family was nice to meet. There were about 30 of them. We did some shopping, went to the zoo. Marie made the green bean casserole and it turned out pretty good. Yours was better but don't tell her.
Thinking of you often as the holidays come ;-(
Your friend, Kermie
Kermit THE Frog
October 26th 2010
kermie@att.net
Halloween is coming up fast and we are all thinking about how much fun you had with this holiday. From Purple Elephant to Giant Pumpkin Head Man you enjoyed this alot. We had fun because you were having so much fun. Your mom decorated at the cemetary - there is a 3 foot white satin ghost holding a sign that says "Boo". I bet you are enjoying that. Missing you even though it's not Halloween for a week or so. Your family sends great love.
Love also, Kermie
Marie Rineveld
September 20th 2010
I received a special letter in the mail last week from one of the recipients of Matt's scholarship that I wanted to share with you all. It reads:
Dear Friends and Family of Matt Rineveld,
I am writing to thank you for your part in establishing the Matt Rineveld Scholarship at the National Puppetry Conference at the O'Neill Theater Center. Two of us received the scholarship this year and I wanted to personally thank you and let you know that I had an amazing, productive, fun-filled, magical experience that extends beyond the week of the conference. I was so happy to participate in the conference this year. It was productive and nourishing to my soul and journey as a puppet artist. The O'Neill is not just a week in the summer in Waterford, CT, it is a place in our hearts and we take it with us wherever we go, all year long.
Thanks again for being part of establishing the scholarship and lots of love.
Best wishes,
Marsian De Lellis
Los Angeles, CA
Kermit THE Frog here
September 8th 2010
Kermie@att.net
Dear Matty,
Well, we had the Labor Day picnic and we had many memories of you. Your mom did the burgers and brats. You had a good touch with the brats and you were sorely missed. No one could tell as many jokes about things as you could. There was a light rain just before the party started. You mom wonders if you were sending a message to look skyward. Also, we all wonder if you like your hanging basket of mums. The bright yellow is cheerful an the only one in the cemetary.
So, hello to you across the veil. Love and hugs to you from your familiy. You are deeply missed and on our minds.
Kermie
Kermie THE frog here
August 9th 2010
Kermie@att.com
I assume that this note will find you hale and hardy. Just a wondering what it's like to be in heaven- perfect weather, perfect sunshine, perfect friends and awesome food. This was good here also, but still incomplete without adorable you.I bet you were running all around helping to pick up dishes, baging carbage and just being free fun loving Matt.
Well, I will sign out for now. Your Mom sends you love.`
Check back soon, from your favorite Frog - Kermitt
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Kermit THE frog calling
August 9th 2010
Kermie@att.net
Matty - The next picnic is here - 4th of July. Your mom missed all your help with the brats. Wendy came over and got them done. The weather was perfect and rather warm. Grandma and Grandpa brought homemade butter pecan ice cream. There wasn't any left. You were remembered in our prayer and we contine to hold you up in our hearts. Did you get a 4th of July cookout in Heaven?.
Will write again soon. Take care of yourself And watch for us at the gate. Your friend, Kermie
Kermit THE frog here
May 31st 2010
Kermie@att.net
Memorial Day 2010 - We had our usual big picnic today in honor of those who serve our country and in remembrance of those family members that are gone from us. A big storm came in about 2 hours before the picnic. Then we had about 3 hours of calm before the next storm rolled in. Was that you Matt?
Also, there was a bittersweet moment when Marie remembered that she left her dish to pass in the refrigerator. You used to do that too, Matt. Only you usually left it at your apartment.
And one more thing, your family presented your good friend Scott with one of the Renaissance Faire swords that you had. He plans to mount it on the wall.
You were not here, but you were never far away today from many who love and miss you deeply.
Your friend, Kermit
Kermit The frog here
May 31st 2010
Kermie@att.net
May 30, 2010 - Hey Matty, your family and friends went bowling in your honor today. Many of us wore muppet shirts and remembered alot of things about you. Your Muppet Mania bowling group said you always bought two orders of fries, one for all of them and one for yourself. Your mom found your thumb salve in your bowling bag and wore your bowling shoes too. Marie and Amber danced on the lanes and Wendy must have taken several dozen pictures. John and Angela brought their kids and Maddy used the plastic dinosaur to roll her ball. Your dad's game was good. When we all checked out the people at the desk knew who we were and that we were the Muppet Group. Probably from our shirts and Kermits and Elmos everywhere. Keeping you up to date. Kermie
Kermit THE frog here
May 31st 2010
Kermie@att.net
May 9, 2010 - I've been meaning to write to you. I wanted to tell you that your mom and Wendy went on a cruise to the Western Carribbean in honor of Wendy's graduation. While they were on the cruise Mother's Day happened as it does every year. But, of course, this year was much different for your mom. The cruise line gave all the moms pink carnations and everyone talked about their kids.
It was dinner time when your mom looked out the windows from her table and saw a rainbow forming on the low horizon in the sunset. She knew it was you. She showed several other people, but she was sure it was cheer and comfort from you. It was a good end to the day.
Thanks, Kermie
Aaron Lathrop
May 14th 2010
aaronlathrop@mac.com
Hello, my name is Aaron Lathrop and I'm one of the recipients of the Matt Rinevald Memorial Puppetry Scholarship.
As I look through the page and read all the comments and stories about Matt's life I keep thinking, "Man I would have liked to hang out with this guy." It reall struck me how much I have in common with Matt, boy scouts and a love of electronics and video games, a love the Muppets and an obsession with the Transformers that totally befuddles my girlfriend, most specifically Optimus Prime.
And while I know no amount of thanks can bring Matt back all I can offer you is my thanks. Thank you so much all for providing us with this chance. I'm currently a working puppeteer in Portland, OR and this opportunity to bring my own show to the National Puppetry Conference is one of a kind and I simply would not have been able to do without all of your help and I am so grateful. I am deeply honored and humbled to be a part of Matt's memory. From the bottom of my heart thank you.
Aaron Lathrop
Kermit THE frog here-
May 5th 2010
Kermie@att.net
Matty- Well, I watched your sister Wendy graduate from nursing school on Saturday (the nursing student pinning) and Sunday (walking at WMU). I know that we all thought this day would never arrive, but it did and we partied all weekend. Your mom wore the outfit from your funeral in honor of you so that you were there with us. Wendy and Marie took a picture with a space for you in it. Your name was often mentioned and you were very much with us. About 60 people came to the picnic. We missed sending you home with all the leftovers and that big happy smile on your face. We love you Matty. Your friend, Kermie
Randi Good
May 1st 2010
randi_xo@hotmail.com
Matt (Celwind)
We used to play World of Warcraft together, and then started talking on other places. It was like I could tell you anything, and you could tell me anything. We would talk, and laugh for hours on end.
I took a break from WoW, to come back and hear the tragic news of your passing.
You are truly an amazing person and I am thankful for your acquantaince. It's weird going online now and not having you to put a smile on my face, or sending me crazy links for funny youtube videos.
We had a lot of heart to hearts, and I'm certainly going to miss them.
I love you, man.
Kermit THE Frog here-
April 6th 2010
Kermie@att.net
Matty,
Easter day has come and gone. I sat at your place at the table, but it was not the same as you being there. We really missed your green bean casserole. We prayed for you at church and at the dinner. And we prayed for us as we continue in deep sorrow from loosing you.
Grandma Doris brought her cherry and apple pies which you loved. Uncle Mark made lots of good jokes, yet it was your wit that was so obviously missing.
You probably had a great Easter up there with Jesus.
Sending love to you from Portage.
Your friend, Kermie
Kermit THE Frog here-
March 20th 2010
Kermie@att.net
Thursday, March 18, 2010: Ok Matty, so another book showed up for us. This lady who was laughing and smiling said she ordered it for your mom. It's called Meet Jim Hensen and has a good picture of me, Kermit The Frog and Jim on the cover. It is a colorful splash of pictures of my muppet family. I love it and I am sure it will be a treasured addition to our library.
And, little Henry Sandoval loved his commemorative Muppet Book given by grandma Karen and grandpa Ven. Like you Matty, the cycle of getting and giving happiness continues to circle.
You are well and truly loved and remembered... Kermie
Kermit THE Frog here-
March 17th 2010
Kermie@att.net
Just dropping in on my Green Day - March 17, to say hello to my good friend, Matt. Shinaegh Matty!
Marie Rineveld
February 26th 2010
marierineveld@gmail.com
Matt's scholarship information has been posted by the Jim Henson Foundation. Please visit the following link for more information. Thank you all for your love and support and contributions to make this happen. I think Matt would be very proud!
http://www.oneillpuppetryconference.com/scholarships.html
Matt's mom
January 31st 2010
mscloggett@att.net
We remain encouraged by the continuing calls, prayers, cards and friends who come to visit. Everything is being noted and treasured and may help to heal the great holes in our hearts and souls. There is no way we could have walked this valley without all of you and every little and big thing that you have done.
Some have asked were Matt's grave is:
South Portage Cemetary way to the end of South Westnedge on the right just before you get to Osterhout Road. Turn into the middle of the 3 driveways. Matt is approximately 2/3rd down on the right side in the 3rd row of the middle front of the cemetary. His site is currently marked with a winged cherub on a Fleur-de-lis globe. It is mounted on a tall Grecian pillar and ringed with a black wreath wrapped with gold/black ribbon. Small photo plaque for his name. Surrounded by big bouquets of yellow roses and green reed stalks.
They cannot lay his stone until winter is done. Thanks for coming into our lives, taking our hands and staying by us.
Without you all, we could not get through this.
Mom
January 22nd 2010
mscloggett@att.net
We are humbled and blessed for the outpouring of love for our Matt. To date: over 200 cards, 3 dozen plants/flowers, dozens of donations to the Jim Henson fund for students of puppetry, contributions of food, countless memories and thoughts shared. tears and hugs, phone calls, the continued visits of nearly 4,000 to this Memory Page and the Guest Book, a special handstitched quilt from his church, and a constant flow of friends who have been at our sides and are helping this broken hearted family to walk through the hours and days ahead. The loss of our son and brother will always leave a gaping hole in our hearts, but you have all had a part in even making our passage through this terrible time possible. And because of you, Matt will never be forgotten. For your love, thankyou from all of the Rineveld family.
Cousin Em
January 19th 2010
One more thing, just to remember the smiles that Matt brought. As Matt's cousin, he had so many girls to play with, he always did what we girls (Wendy, Marie and I) wanted to. He loved showing me the hamsters, jumping on the trampoline and I love even as we grew older he always had something funny to say when I saw him. He loved giving hugs and making us smile! God gave us so many awesome years with him, I know he's making people laugh in heaven now! :)
Emily Lindgren
January 19th 2010
Uncle Dan, Aunt Val, Wendy and Marie
My love, thoughts and prayers are for you each right now to cope with the loss of Matt. Thank you for the love you gave him and the ways you shaped him into such a special young man. So sorry we couldn't come home, but know that we love you and are praying for you.
All our love, Jason, Emily and Family
Beth
January 17th 2010
Matt, What can I say? I only found out today that you are gone from us. We didn't talk often but everytime we did you left a smile on my face. Every time that you met someone they couldn't help but like you. The short time that we had together taught me so much about life and love and muppets :) You truly made me the person I am today and for that along with many other things (purple elephants for one ) I will never forget you.
Valerie, Marie, Wendy, Dan and Scott,
My sincerest condolences to all of you. May God Bless you in everything that you do and help you through this most trying time.
Amanda Bernstein
January 17th 2010
bigbrat3080@comcast.net
I met Matt several years ago at Silverleaf Renaissance Faire and became instant friends. Over the years, we would loose touch and then somehow always reconnected. It is weird to say that he is gone. He could make you laugh no matter what mood you were in. He will truly be missed by all that he touched.
Katrina Keteri
January 15th 2010
gorillainterrupted@gmail.com
I only had a chance to meet Matt once, unfortunately, but.. there are some people you meet once and don't remember... there are some people you meet 20 times and don't remember much. Matt was definitely not one of those people, he was so full of character. My most sincere condolences to his family and all of his friends.
Stewart Davenport
January 15th 2010
stewart.m.davenport@pfizer.com
Dear Dan and family:
I am so saddened to hear about the sudden death of your son Matt.
Losing a child is one of the saddest life challenges and words that can give you true comfort are hard to find.
You and your family have all my strength, blessing, and prayers in this difficult time.
Again, My thoughts are with you now, and I send you my deepest sympathy.
God bless.
Stewart
CURT AND HEATHER WASHBURN
January 15th 2010
DEAR DAN, WENDY, AND MARIE
WE ARE SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS, OUR THROUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.
Christine Cherluck
January 14th 2010
carwjc95@comcast.net
Dear Val, My heart goes out to you, no words can suffice...many hugs to you! May Jesus hold you in the palm of his hand and comfort your sorrowful heart. You and your girls will be in my prayers a long while..... Chris Cherluck
Kathy Olsen
January 14th 2010
olsen@upjohn.org
Dear Val, Dan, Wendy and Marie,
I am so very sorry for your loss and can't imagine what you must be feeling right now. Most of my memories of Matt are from scouts. He was a certainly a fine young man and you must be so proud of him.
Each of you will be in my thoughts and prayers. When you experience rough moments in the days ahead, I hope that fond memories of joyous times will lift your spirits.
Please remember that God will be at your side throughout.
Sincerely,
Kathy
Kathleen Karnes
January 14th 2010
kkarnes1@gmail.com
Dearest Val,
You may not remember what I said to you in your state of numbness. I, too, have suffered the pain of the loss of a child. Please, please, call on me when you need me. Please take advantage of the grief counselling that the hospital has to offer. It takes a long, long time to be able to live without that part of your heart, but the counselling helps us to go on.
I love you. I will wait for you to reach out to the circle of friends you have in dancing, but know that I am there for you.
Kathleen
Robert Beltran
January 14th 2010
Rbeltran6@yahoo.com
Words can't even described how much I enjoyed working with Matt he was always there when I had a question or to tell me the latest joke from Sherman's lagoon, I'll truly miss him as a friend an a co-worker. May God give you comfort and peace during this time
Carolyn Schultz
January 14th 2010
ceschultz760@sbcglobal.net
Dan, It is very difficult to loose someone you love so much. Having just lost my mother in Aug. I can imagine how you must feel. Know that your friends are thinking of you and keeping you in their prayers. I will continue to lift your family up in my own personal prayers. Peace be with you
Carolyn
Gloria (Bennett) Leyda
January 14th 2010
cntrymama@fla.homeip.net
Val and family,
I am so sorry to hear of the tragic passing of your son Matt. I too know the pain so very much as we lost our son Matt (26) December 14, 2008 in a tragic auto accident. Like your Matt, he too was an Eagle Scout, and he loved the Muppets in fact his computer contact was "Kermit" There are no words that will ease the pain that you are all feeling at this moment. Just know in your heart that he is in a better place, free from all pain and in your heart are the many memories of what appears to have been a wonderful young man. God bless you all. Gloria
Carolyn Pearcy att Robin's Friend/Co-worker
January 14th 2010
cpearcy50@gmail.com
I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't even begin to imagine, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Carolyn
Martha Line
January 14th 2010
I did not know Matt personally. I do work with Beckie Bower and know how deeply saddened she was at his passing. I pray you will know the peace that only God can bring at this time of your sorrow and unexpected loss.
Michael Bova
January 14th 2010
avobekim@yahoo.com
As I was remembering Matt and reading some of the memories on here...I think we forgot that we're losing one VERY IMPORTANT thing Matt had and shared with us and the world..THE PURPLE ELEPHANT!!! ENUF SAID..
Mike
Nichaleen Phillips
January 14th 2010
nichaleen.phillips@yahoo.com
I wanted to mention the camp Matt counseled at was Crystal Lake Confrence center by Beulah Mi. as far as I know he only attended Lake Louise as a camper. While counseling at crystal lake he loaned one of my girls his tickle me Elmo cuz she was homesick. I am a very light sleeper and so every time she hugged it or rolled over on it I woke up. Needless to say Elmo was not allowed in my cabin again! lol
Debbie (Heathcote) Roschek
January 14th 2010
Dear Dan, Val, Wendy and Marie,
(I have known Dan and Val since we were 19 yrs. or so, and have had the pleasure of meeting Marie). Dan and Val, you have raised wonderful children, you should be so very proud of them.
I'm pleased to have had the opportunity to read the memories held by Matt's friends. He was obviously a remarkable young man, with enviable personal values. We should all reach out to people the way Matt did. It looks as though God has a new angel.
My heart aches for you. Please know that you are in my prayers.
Debbie
Misty Dudgeon
January 14th 2010
misty.dudgeon@owb.com
I have known Matt for four years. We started working at the bank around the same time. We used to sit next to each other, I remember he gave me a stuffed Pluto to hold onto just to keep a smile on my face. He always did that for everyone, brought a little sunshine. One day working beside him I learned we both shared the same birthday, December 28th, although he was two years older than me, we now had this common bond. It explained his fascination with the fantasy world, because I am the same way. He was a very kind hearted person, that liked to make you laugh and smile. Our birthday will never be the same. I will always think of Matt on the day of our birth and say a little prayer for him. He will stay alive in so many memories because so many people loved and cared for him. This was not an ending but a new beginning, I have to believe he is having an amazing time on his new journey.
Annette Hampton Cannon
January 14th 2010
anetpc@yahoo.com
I knew Dan from my classes with him in high school. I remember him often joking around and sharing his quirky sense of humor with us, which I didn't always get. :) Although I haven't had contact with him since high school, I see from the memories that he has continued to be the same, good person I knew then. I am very impressed that he was the person he is at such a young age. Not everyone knows who they are in high school.
I am sad to hear that we don't get to have his goodness, kindness, smiles and thoughtfulness longer on this world. One of my goals this year is to develop and show greater love and kindness to everyone. I see Dan (Matt) is a great example for me of how to BE a genuine, loving person. It sounds like he didn't need to work on that pure love like I still do; he basically had one of the most important things figured out: loving others as he loved himself.
I am sorry for you to lose him so unexpectedly and so young--that is the hardest. I will keep you guys in my prayers.
Annette Hampton Cannon
Aaron Niemi
January 13th 2010
aaron@niemi.com
(I was a counselor at Lake Louise UMC Sr High Camp when Matt was a camper.) 15+ years later, I still remember Matt as a funny teen who loved to sing. Prayers and hugs for all those who will miss him.
Heather Nicholas
January 13th 2010
geode_girl@hotmail.com
Dear Dan, Val, Marie and Wendy,
I am so sorry to hear of Matt's passing. I will always remember talking to Matt in church on Sundays about scouts and band. He always had such a fun personality. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time.
Heather
Von Berkheiser
January 13th 2010
von_b@us.aflac.com
Matt was far too young.
My thoughts and prayers...
Von
Bob Engster
January 13th 2010
bob@sspusa.com
Dan and Val,
This is one of those times that should never be. We all have grown together and watched each other's kids become fine adults. You can be proud that Matt was a very loving son; one that would make you proud.
My sincerest sympathy goes out to you.
God Bless,
Bob
Teresa Edison
January 13th 2010
teresaedison@att.net
Dear Val and Dan,
I read the obituary for your in Kalamazoo's Gazette today and am so very saddened !
You will mostly remember me from working at Borgess during years 1972-1976 and knowing you there Val.
The most important memory though ,, was our joint Lamaze classes with both of you and my ex-husband Stan Whitaker. My name has changed as we sadly divorced , & I remarried. I was just looking at the photos of our "reunion" with our babies a few weeks after all had been born & enjoying the fun of parenthood & sharing our stories. You were both such wonderful parents & I know that looking at all of the great photos of your son Matt, he always felt your love and adoration!!!!! Our daughter Angela was born a few weeks after Matt & I will always remember the great times we had with you. I am so very sorry and heartsick for you, your girls and extended family. I will keep you in prayers for some sort of peace of mind and heart...Your friend from work and wonderful Lamaze classes, Teresa (Whitaker) Edison
January 13th 2010
Dear Val and Family,
Please know how saddened I was to hear about your son Matt. Please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Kathy Brockway
Don and Cheryl Butler
January 13th 2010
We didn't know Matt well but being a neighbor, when you saw Matt he always had a great smile! Our concolence to the Rineveld family.
Diane Loftus
January 13th 2010
diloft@att.net
Matt, You were such a unique and special soul. Your humor kept even the tensest situation funny. You will surely be missed by all those who knew and appreciated you. Those that never met you will never know the wonderful person they missed meeting. At least you and Jim Henson can share story ideas.
Amy (Matlock) Schuerman
January 13th 2010
amatlock75@yahoo.com
I went to school with Matt (Dan), whom was 2 years behind me in school, I remeber him as a funny , outgoing guy , who constantly had some kind of crazy comment while we were at band practice going through set after set.
He was full of life, and always had a great smile (usually with some kind of mischeif to go with it). Even though I lost touch with him after high school as classmates do, I will miss him. I will remember the comedy and laughter he brought to my life during my senior year.
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Rineveld Family.
God Bless!
Carrianne Wilson
January 13th 2010
cwilson.ire@gmail.com
I only met Matt last year on a kayak trip, but after our day on the river, it felt like we'd been friends for years--I guess that was just the kind of person that he was.
I will always remember him, paddling down the river, making jokes, talking about the family trip to Ireland and learning how to ride a Harley. What a great day that was.
Carrie McCarter-Barnes
January 13th 2010
caremcb@aol.com
My heart aches for the loss of Matt (or as I last called him
"DanMatt"). I haven't seen Matt in years, but he is someone I would've quickly hugged and joked with if I had. Matt and I grew up in church together--sang in choir, attended youth group, and Lake Louise together. I also remember babysitting Matt, Wendy, and Marie once. They were in the bedroom jumping from the top bunk of the bunkbed to the floor. I told them all "no way, get down." Matt was the first to pipe up and tell me that his parents always let them do that---Good try, my friend was my response :) his mom told me that she had never allowed that :).
I am so very sorry for the Rinevelds and all the friends and family who Matt touched with his humor, wit, and sarcasm! Matt, you will be missed here on earth, but can't wait to see you on the other side!
May God grant us all the peace and comfort we need today and the days ahead.
Love,
Carrie
Amber Schull
January 13th 2010
amber.schull@nationalcity.com
I remember my first day at my new cubicle at IMB and I kept seeing a blur of red out of the corner of my eye- well, it was Matt, of course-he kept peeking over the wall with this silly look on his face. After getting to know him, I realized it was just his way of trying to welcome me to the cubicle row and to make me laugh. He always said the most bizarre stuff and many times I had to ask what on earth he was talking about. He used to compile emails with tons of comis clips and jokes in them that kept the day from dragging on. Many times he gave me cough drops, tyelenol, Vick's scented kleenex, and who can forget Sweet Waters donuts early on Saturday morning? I also will never forget finding little creatures at my desk when I came into work, mostly a little furry Garfield and a penguin that keep me company. I loved my hand-colored Muppet picture and the box of Twinkies one year for Christmas. I was so thrown of by the Twinkies I was literally speachless for over an hour, and looking back on it, I hope I didn't come across as rude. I also enjoyed the McDonald's toys he would give me after he ate his Happy Meals. Matt will surely be missed by many people and I can only imagine how wierd it must be without him at work. He was a great worker. I will never be as dedicated to work as he was, he did a good job each and every day and was always willing to lend a helping hand. I still can't comprehend how such a nice person like Matt won't be around to keep people smiling, but I guess that is what memories are for. Matt's memory will live on through the people's lives he touched. Never again will I look at a Muppet without thinking of him. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends. I am so sorry for you loss.
nick avitable
January 13th 2010
slicknik2@gmail.com
I became friends with matt in april when I started my training at one west bank. We had a lot of the same things in common and it was a lot of fun talking about random world of warcraft stuff or whatever was on our minds. when I moved back to connecticut we still talked on facebook. he will definitely be missed and was a great friend to me even though I didn't know him for very long.
lacresha
January 13th 2010
At a time like this, we are at a loss for words
to express our condolence to someone who has lost a loved one.
How to say it to bring comfort?
How to say that we care?
How to say that we understand?
Chris Veine
January 12th 2010
I will remember you paddling down the river with your sisters and Dad; joking, laughing, smiling. Paddle on Matt; your kind hearted spirit and smile will be missed.
Scott Matteson
January 12th 2010
artisanscott@gmail.com
16 years ago, Andrea (Christie) Trantham introduced me to a young fella named Matt. It was one of the moments everyone has, the kind that changes your life completely, alters its course for all time, and you don't even realize it. Not long after, we attended camp at Lake Louise for a week in the summer. When we teamed up, along with Andrea, to sing acapella for the week's talent show, that moment happened again. Hundreds of acapella songs later, mostly on cassette in his truck, we were inseparable. Best of friends. The first time I ever moved out of my parents' house, he was my roommate. In that time when he worked for Hollywood Video, he was my favorite and most valuable employee. When I stood before my family and friends, sharing wedding vows, he had my back, following the oldest traditions of the Best Man, with a ceremonial sword on his shoulder.
Perfect was never a word to describe the course of our friendship. We fell out, we bounced back, we stumbled, we recovered. The tune became dissonant, but we always made the music. From the day we met, I never imagined a day where he would not be a phone call away. He tried to eat well, he never smoked, and seeing him drink was exceedinly rare. I always assumed that he would, as an aging jokester, plant a funny and embarrassing photo of me in plain view as he helped carry my casket to its rest. Now, as I prepare myself for the task of doing the same for him, I am struck by the unfairness of it. Matt was a man who earned his time in this world, but now he cannot spend it. Those of us who remain, to send him onward to that which is after, owe it to his memory, to each and every smile that he brought to the world, to our lives, to make the most of them. We still wake up every morning. Knowing how much he would want us to be happy, we must make every single morning our chance to change the world. To make the moments that alter the course of our lives.
Make people smile...
...and sing a song.
Eric & Jen Herman
January 12th 2010
ericherman@live.com
I met Matt when my family moved to Portage. His best friend Scott lived just a few doors down from my new home, and meeting Matt was inevitable. We became friends right away--as he did with everyone. He was probably one of the kindest people I've ever known. We performed together in Sing Out Kalamazoo for a short period, where we enjoyed each other's company along with the joy of music and performing.
But for me, Matt was more than just a fellow musician and acquaintance. One of my fondest memories is of him showing up at our front door on Halloween in full purple elephant garb. It was not to trick or treat; it was just to wish us well for the holiday. Even my parents remember that day! It made a smiling impression on them. Because that is what Matt was: He was a smiling impression. He was a positive stamp that printed itself on anyone he came into contact with. Matt was the purple elephant in the room, but no one ever complained or became uncomfortable. Because purple elephants are happy, not sad.
It's hard to think of someone so young being taken from us but I'm convinced that Matt is looking in on us from Heaven through the little eye holes in his purple elephant head. I hope what he sees makes him feel good about having lived a life that touched so many in such amazing ways.
Thank you, my friend! You accepted me as I am, no questions asked. I am forever grateful to you for that blessing you gave to me. I will miss you and think of you often.
Your Friend,
-Eric
Nichaleen (Bach) Phillips
January 12th 2010
nichaleen.phillips@yahoo.com
I first met Matt at a middle school youth group halloween dance hosted by his church. He was dressed as the Little Cesars guy. Matt was a very special guy and will always hold a special place in my heart. My absolute favorite memory was the time he showed up at my house in his purple elephant costume just to wish me a happy birthday. He also wore the same costume to a new years eve party at my house. I will miss you Matty, it doesn't seem fair that we just reconnected and now you are gone but I know you are in a better place and I will see you again!
Heather Schettner
January 12th 2010
heather.schettner@owb.com
I have worked with MattDan for the past four years and each day I knew I could look forward to MattDan making me laugh about something. Shortly after he came to work at IMB he allowed his stuffed Garfield to sit at my desk just to put a smile on my face. Matt was always looking for ways to make people happy he even went so far as to walk around the call center in a giant purple elephant costume, I will never look at a purple elephant and not see Matt. I am very honored that I knew Matt and was lucky enough to work with him so long. In the dictionary next to "good guy" I think there should be a picture of Matt! Thanks for all the memories and laughs. MattDan you will be missed! -Heather
Michael and Laura Sherrod
January 12th 2010
asimplechange@gmail.com
Mike and I both worked with Matt Dan at Indymac Bank. Matt Dan was one of the most genuine people that either of us has ever known. He never strayed from his true self and because of that was such a bright spot in this world. We will never forget his sense of humor and kind and caring heart. In closing, a little something from the Muppet Show that sums up how we are feeling and we know he would have loved.
STATLER: Boo!
WALDORF: Boooo!
STATLER: That was the worst thing I’ve ever heard!
WALDORF: It was terrible!
STATLER: Horrendous!
WALDORF: Well it wasn’t that bad.
STATLER: Oh, yeah?
WALDORF: Well, there were parts of it I liked!
STATLER: Well, I liked alot of it.
WALDORF: Yeah, it was GOOD actually.
STATLER: It was great!
WALDORF: It was wonderful!
STATLER: Yeah, bravo!
WALDORF: More!
STATLER: More!
WALDORF: More!
STATLER: More!
Michelle Brausch
January 12th 2010
michelle.brausch@owb.com
My friendship with Matt started 4 years ago when I started at OWB. A few days after I was assigned my seat I came to my desk and there was an Ode stuffed animal at my desk. That was Matt, always the welcoming committee! I knew then that he would keep me smiling. From him bringing in 20lbs of gummy worms to multiple bags of cough drops Matt always bought things in bulk to be sure he had enough 'just in case someone needs something' was what he would say. I had a period of time when I was sick often and Matt never failed to call and check on me. He always reminded us that he cared. I will miss the looks over the rims of your glasses that you gave me, the crazy random things you would say just to get a smile, and so many things that made you the Matty aka Mattdan we all know and love more than I think you knew. I miss you, things will not be the same.
Jeanne Fuce
January 12th 2010
jeanne.fuce@owb.com
Matt,
You have always been a constant light of positivity in my life even when you were feeling blue. I had the pleasure of working closely with you through On the Job training at OWB and appreciate the amazing sense of humor you have. I will always cherish the happy memories you've provided me and don't think I could ever eat another gummi worm without thinking fondly of you. You will be missed Matt, my thoughts are with your family in this time of sadness.
Much Love,
Jeanne
Patrick Moore
January 12th 2010
patdmoore1@yahoo.com
I have a lot of memories, even though I did not know him long, but one memory sticks out the most. He was my OJT trainer. On one of our off times him and I were looking at pictures of muppets and he said to me, "Look, it's me." Then he pointed at his computer screen and it was a picture of Kermit The Frog smiling. He then looked at me and smiled like Kermit. I thought it was so funny that he looked like Kermit from that picture. I actually thought that if Kermit would turn human, Matt would be what he would look like. So from that point on, I called him, "Kermit." I will always remember this forever. I will miss my buddy Kermit! I will never forget him!
Allison (Lyman) Loyd
January 12th 2010
a5loyd@wmich.edu
My thoughts and prayers go out to all of the Reinveld's right now. Matt and I worked together at Harding's for a short time. Like everyone else, I always loved his smile (much like Marie's...infectious). Once I was sick and home from work. I was just a freshman or sophomore in high school and I remember my Dad coming to my room with a bouquet of flowers saying how "a boy dressed as a purple dinosaur dropped these off for you". I begged my Dad to check my temperature one more time because I wasn't sure I had heard him right. Matt was thoughtful and kind and will be missed dearly. *Alli Lyman-Loyd*
Heather (paul)- campsmith
January 12th 2010
I went to school with Dan, whom was year behind me in school, I remeber him as a funny , outgoing guy , who would always say off the wall things to make you laugh.
he was full of life, and had such vigor for what life had in
store for him. I even though I lost touch with him after
highschool as classmates do I will miss him.my thoughts
and prayers go out to the Rineveld Family.
jim and marey lesman
January 12th 2010
we always looked forward to seeing matt at the family parties, he had a great sense of humor. we always knew when we said "good to see you" he would say "good to be seen". our deepest sympathy goes out to matt's family. all of you are in our prayers. Hey Matt--- from heaven watch over your sisters---they are so special to us!!!!!!!
Maria Arnold
January 12th 2010
maria.arnold@owb.com
Matt,
What can I say? There's so much to share even though I've only known your for 2 short years. You were always there for me, whether it's for a laugh or for some kind advise, to giving me cough drops when I needed it or headache meds when work or stress seems to try to overwhelm me. One of my 1st memories of you is you in that huge purple elephant handing out peanuts. You had me laughing so hard that I had tears running down my face.
Thank you so much for all the talks we shared, everything from talking about the cartoons that we use to listen to, to the Muppets and World of Warcraft. And how we can talk! You've always been caring and always trying to make people happy. Know that we all love you and miss you. You will be remembered and cherish! Rest peacefully and watch over us. Love you, Matt!
Uncle Mark, Johanna & Zachary
January 12th 2010
Our hearts are broken. We have no answers for anyones questions. We are trying to keep our faith. All we can think to do right now is to promise take care of your Mom and Dad and sisters. We will try to be strong for our family. We will cherish every minute of time we get to spend with each other whether it be our summer camping trips or yet another family BBQ. We love you Matt. You truely made this world a better place.
Emily Elliott
January 12th 2010
ecrashe@gmail.com
To Matt's Family
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Matt. He was such a great guy. Matt and I were on and off again friends as our lives crossed paths and then would fall out of touch. Matt was a funny, loving, caring guy that I remember meeting some 13+ years ago. I wish that I could have been better friends with him over the years and am sorry that I wasn't. No words can take away the pain you must feel but just know that Matt was loved by many and will be missed by many more.
Emily Elliott
Nancy Guthaus Hudson
January 12th 2010
nhudson11191@aol.com
Val, Dan and girls
Words can't express how my heart is breaking with Matt's passing. I remember Matt from PUMC as the kid who was always smiling, who loved to joke and loved God. My prayers are with you all, Matt and Liz also send their love and sympathy. Thank the girls for posting information on Facebook, I've read many of the things on his friends list and how liked he was in his work and personal life.
Nancy Guthaus Hudson, Kalamazoo
Elizabeth Guthaus Will, Grand Rapids
Matt Guthaus, San Francisco, CA/Santa Cruz, CA
Beth Doxtator
January 12th 2010
mamadox@charter.net
Dan and Val - You knew me as Beth Van Donselaar - I was married to Schmed. I babysat for Matt when he was just a little baby and Val worked at Borgess. I remember him as a very sweet and contented baby, red hair and blue eyes, with a sort of sweet shy smile. From reading the memories here, I see that he grew up well and made you proud, leaving many good friends that will miss him a lot. That is a tribute to you, for guiding him to be the kind of man he was to become. I can only say that my heart aches for both of you in your loss. Let God wrap you in His arms and hold you tight as you deal with the pain of this huge loss in your lives. God bless - Beth
Aneda Matteson (Scott's Mom)
January 12th 2010
anedam@chartermi.net
The first time I met Matt, Scott introduced me as 'this is Mom'. From that day on Matt always called me Mom. He was a frequent visitor to my house and generally would knock once and then walk right in explaining he didn't want to disturb me by making me get up to answer the door. Knowing Matt it's possible it was his way of teasing me about getting old. :)
One very hot summer Matt & Scott were in a play at the Renaissance Faire. Matt was wearing a heavy costume and the heat was getting to him. His face became very red and he started to sway. Just then he looked my way and mouthed the words "Mom, help me." I jumped up from the audience and grabbed him, made him lay on the ground and poured a bottle of water on him. Then said "Do you know how long I've wanted to do that?" He had a great laugh!
I'll miss you Matt but I'll see you again some day. Love Mom
Robert Lynch
January 12th 2010
robbiethompson05@sbcglobal.net
Like others I only knew Matt through work. But I can't let that stop me from sharing the Matt that I knew with everyone else who was close to him. You can tell a lot about a person not just by how they treat their family and friends, but by the way they treat others, for example co-workers like myself. My first memory is of him coloring like 15 or so Kermit the Frogs and distributing them to others in the call center, including my wife who also just started. I think my facial hair deterred him from putting the moves on me :)
Not too long ago I was chatting with him about the Sherman's Lagoon funnies and he brought up how there is one where Sherman happens to die. I said I couldn't imagine anything funny about Sherman passing (I love that Shark), but he argued that I will find it funny. So he began sending that particular set of funnies one week. Now in the end of the story Sherman ended up faking it and tragically that is not the case with our harsh reality.
The point that I am trying to make is this, even after Matt's untimely passing, we can all look back on Matt's life and remember him for the witty, funny, charming person he was. I think everyone knows what I'm talking about when you read all the memories, he was a fun person to be around, even for someone who could only share small talk with at work.
R.I.P Matt
Lord knows we need more people like you on Earth...
Kali
January 12th 2010
uberkali@gmail.com
Matt,
I am one of the fortunate people who got to have the experience of knowing you. Our friend circles seemed to overlap many times over. I always had a hard time working at IMB, and if I could tell you in person how much easier life there became once we became desk buddies, I would. Thank you for the laughter! I will never forget having Kermit The Frog as our Desk Liason, peeking over the partition. You will be sorely missed, and I truly hope you knew in your passing how very loved you were by so many people in life.
It was a pleasure. Rest well, friend!
-Kali
Carol Daly
January 12th 2010
yladlorac@msn.com
Matt I will miss you,. You were the only one who came close to being as sarcastic as I am. I'll miss your style and humor. You'll always be Matt-Dan, Cat-Dog. It was great to know you.
Carol
Jeri Noneman
January 12th 2010
jnoneman@financialfreedom.com
To Matts Family and Friends,
Although I did not get the chance to know Matt personally, we worked for the same company & I've heard a great deal about how funny, loving, caring and special he was.
To Matts Parents,
Sadly, I know the great loss you are suffering. Please know that no matter what, you will always have your beloved son in your heartrs and souls. He is above in heaven with the angels watching over you and will for the rest of your days. He is now your guardian angel.
My thoughts and prayers go out to you all during your time of grief and sadness.
God Bless,
Jeri
Jennifer Smith
January 12th 2010
babyduck103@yahoo.com
Oh Matt, where to begin.....we have shared alot, cried together laughed together, cried because we were laughing so hard....I love you very much and always will my lil' Pepe'. What I would give to hear you call me Beaker one more time. You never failed to cheer me up when I was feeling down, whether it be showing up at my apartment with soup when I was sick to coming into work with chocolate on my desk. You always knew what I loved. Your love and caringness was so infectious, and I will never ever forget or stop thinking of you. I will cherish every memory, from you walking my dog with me, bowling, and holiday celebrations. I'm the lucky one to have had a person like you care for me and be my friend. Rest in peace my friend, and tell Jim Henson I said hello, I know you two are having a ball :)
Angela Reidt
January 12th 2010
Angela.Reidt@owb.com
Matt,
you were the best friend anyone could of asked for. You were always there for me no matter what it was for and I thank you for that. Any time I needed a laugh or for someone to cheer me up I would go and see you or call you. My kids love their uncle Matt and will always love you and remember you. You will never be forgotten Matt Dan, the mupput man. I love you and always will and you will always be a part of my life.
Matt's Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Matt was a great guy and touched many people in his life and he will never be forgotten for that reason. You had a great brother and son.
Heather Woodard
January 12th 2010
Athens1997@yahoo.com
Where do I begin? I guess I can start by saying that I am thankful to have so many wonderful memories of Matt, that the task of choosing the best one to share is difficult. The first one that comes to mind is when Matt discovered the comic series "Sherman's Lagoon." He came to work one day with a single book, and I could hear him laughing between phone calls (sometimes even DURING phone calls) at the comics that he was reading. The next day, a single book had turned into purchasing the entire series. He shoved those shark comics in my face whenever I was down.... sometimes I would even bite back by saying "Damn it Matt, I don't want to smile right now!" And he would simply reply "Heather, everyone wants to smile some time." Matt, I will forever miss your insatiable ability to make us smile! You were always such a bright light amongst so much darkness, and I am truly blessed to have known you. Sleep peacefully with the angels, my special friend, and thank you for watching over us from the skies above.
Laurie Whitaker
January 12th 2010
lawhitaker@yahoo.com
Our hearts are so heavy with the loss of such a great person. Matt/Dan always had a smile and kind word for everyone. I affectionately called him Cat/Dog, thinking that show was past his time. Well to no surprise, he knew the show and every word of the theme song. I can still hear him singing it today - like an angel from heaven. May gods love help Matt/Dans friends and family through this difficult time. We all miss him.
Kelli (Winkle) Jones
January 12th 2010
kellijones_101@yahoo.com
I was saddened to hear Dan/Matt has passed away. I'll always remember his laugh, his smile, his voices. Elmo was my favorite. I'll remember his purple elephant suit and the flowers and the way he loved to sing along with every song on the radio.
I am so sorry for your loss.
Kelli
Amanda
January 12th 2010
Amanda.McNees@owb.com
Matt was a good friend. He was there for me when I needed him the most and never left me alone until I at least smiled and he knew i was ok. He always made me laugh and smile and I was always nice to be people regardless. He never had anything bad to say about anyone. And he loved purple flowers! :)
I love you matt and I will always have you in my heart and know that you are with me and watching over all who loved you.
Michelle McLandsborough
January 12th 2010
michelle.griffin@owb.com
There was never a dull moment with Matt around.....4 years ago when I met Matt, he intoduced him self to me as "MattDan the Muppet Man", that was great. Matt and I worked together side by side training people at work, bowled together as well and there wasnt a moment where I wasnt smiling from something he said or his jokes. Matt was there when ever needed and also had a very big heart of gold. Matt we will miss you very much and you will always be in our hearts.
~Michelle
Bekah Sobel
January 12th 2010
bekahnrachel@yahoo.com
Matt was a great friend, one who was always there for you no matter the circumstances. He always made me laugh when I was stressed and always listened when I needed to cry. His humor was like no other! Matt you will be missed!
Precious LORD, we come in prayer to ask for an outpouring of Your compassion, solace, and peace to the family, friends and loved ones of Matt Rineveld. The tragedy and trauma of this sudden loss of one so young is hard to comprehend much less bear – so we cry out to the One who understands and who heals broken hearts. We thank You LORD that Your Holy Word tells us that You comfort all who mourn (Isaiah 61:2). Please comfort and help these hurting souls and bring Your beautiful peace that passes all understanding. We ask this in the Name that is above all names, the true and living LORD JESUS CHRIST.
John Ley
January 12th 2010
john.ley@owb.com
Matt Dan--
He was the best friend anyone could ever ask for. He was true to his word, willing to be there in a heartbeat for you in moment's notice. He could make you smile through your tears, laugh when you needed it, and love you like no other. There are so many great memories I have of Matt that keep replaying in my mind everyday. From his amusing bowling style--throwing the bowling ball half way down the lane and then wondering why his ball had little control, to dedication to his family....never missing an event at mom's or flying with dad. And friends, he had so many honest and true people at his side. If you formed a bond with Matt, you knew that he would always be with you.
Matt, you will forever be in my heart. You will never be forgotten. I miss you each and every day. I know I have a guardian Muppet watching over me for always.
Jennifer (Sanders) Arney
January 12th 2010
jenniferarney@gmail.com
I knew Matt in junior high and high school. Our names were near each other in the alphabet, so we always had homeroom together and sat near each other in class. I just remember him as a kind person who never hesitate to strike up a conversation or answer questions. He will definitely be missed.
Michael Bova
January 12th 2010
avobekim@yahoo.com
What to say about Matt? Matt was Matt. Kind hearted,funny,a good friend,a brother,son,christan,fighter,survivor.
I've known Matt for several years..been throught thick and thin,better and worse,on speaking terms and not, But Matt,to me and many others who knew him,was Matt.
MATT...ELMO LOVES YOU!!!
Sean Williams
January 12th 2010
sean@seanandlaurawilliams.com
Words can't even begin to describe Matt, or the impact he's had on so many lives. He always had a generous soul, and was willing to do anything he could to befriend and comfort all those around him, and never had a single negative thing to say about anyone. His dry sense of humor and wit were unparalleled. Although the last time he and I saw each other was 16 years ago, we were able to immediately pick up on a friendship recently right where things left off. Again, it's that sense of belonging and inclusion that he always held close to himself, and strived for every day.
You will be missed friend, by more people than you probably ever realized you affected. Thank you for everything.
Courtney Domsic
January 12th 2010
shawtygirl79@yahoo.com
Auntie, Dan, Marie and Wendy,
I am so very sorry for you loss. I am very saddened to loose such a great cousin and a great friend. Matt always knew how to walk into a room and make someone smile. I remember a certain time when Matt, Wendy and I were on our way up to camping and he said something so funny that I had tears comming out of my eyes cause I couldn't stop laughing. The girls and I will miss him very much. Our prayers and thought are with you through this diffcult time.. We love you.
Love,
Courtney, Alexis and Natalie
Marcy (Ball) Locatis
January 11th 2010
cruisegirl74@hotmail.com
I am sad that I just found Matt's facebook page and had asked to add me as a friend but he was already gone. I remember him from Lake Louise. He was good at making you laugh. I unfortunately lost touch with him after my last year at Lake Louise. I would of loved to known how much of personality from back then he still had. Everyone will miss you Matt Dan.
Marcy (Ball) Locatis
AIMEE BLOOD-BUGGIE
January 11th 2010
BUGSTER111@AOL.COM
DAN, VAL, WENDY, AND MARIE,
I'AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSE. I KNOW THERE ARE NO WORDS TO EXPRESS THE PAIN OF LOSING MATT. HIS PRESENCE WILL BE VOID, BUT HE WILL ALWAYS LIVE ON IN YOUR MEMORIES AND STORIES. THIS TIME OF GRIEF IS SO SURREAL; I REMEMBER FEELING AS IF I WERE ON AUTO PILOT JUST GOING THROUGH THE MOTIONS. I FEEL YOUR PAIN AND I'AM SO SORRY THAT YOU HAVE TO GO THROUGH IT. HOLD ONTO EACH OTHER TIGHT AND KNOW THAT YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE YOUR BOND WITH MATT-NOTHING CAN TAKE THAT AWAY. LIFE WILL DEEFINITELY NOT BE THE SAME WITHOUT HIM BUT DON'T FORGET YOU HAVE EACH OTHER AND CELEBRATE THE WONDERFUL YEARS YOU HAD WITH HIM.
I REMEMBER WHEN MATT AND THE GIRLS PERFERED NIKKI TO WATCH THEM WHEN WERE WERE YOUNGER; SHE ALWAYS LET THEM HAVE EXTRA SNACKS, T.V. AND PHONE TIME. WE USE TO HAVE A BLAST PLAYING OUTSIDE IN THE WOODEN PLAYHOUSE. IT WAS SO COOL. ALSO, I REMEBER MATT ALWAYS HAD HIS BOYSCOUT OUTFIT ON. AGAIN, TAKE COMFORT WITH EACH OTHER . MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALL.
mysi
January 11th 2010
melissa.caswell@nationalcity.com
Matt~~
I feel so bad for not being a better friend. You were the best; I guess I thought because I always saw you that you would always be there. How wrong I was! You gave every effort to everything you undertook and you did not love or care for someone lightly. Your sense of humor, your dry sarcasm and quick wit often bit me in the butt! You were never afraid to laugh at yourself and that elephant costume was the craziest thing! I hope in some way you knew how many lives you touched. There will be a huge hole in our lives and particularly in mine. Watch out for us down here ok?
Stephanie "Secondi" Clark
January 11th 2010
steffi8575@gmial.com
I just wanted to say I am soo sorry for your loss. I knew Matt in middle school and high school. We marched next to each other in band. I have soo many good memories of him. He used to pick on me (all in fun). In recent years I would see him when he'd come in to Hardings, where I worked. It was nice keep in contact with him through the years. He was definitely one of a kind and will be missed.
My prayers are with you all.
Stephanie
Katie Dewey
January 11th 2010
katie.dewey@owb.com
Matt,
You will truly be missed. You were the one person who could always make me smile and I will never forget that!
Jennifer Benthin
January 11th 2010
Matt-Dan,
I am going to miss your goofy, fun-loving sense of humor and great personality. You would do anything for any one at a drop of a hat. Thanks for including me in the group of Sherman's Lagoon fans and keeping me updated on the Muppet specials. It is not going to be the same without you.
To Matt's family,
I am so sorry for your loss my thoughts and prayers are with you.
~Jennifer
