Madeline Siehling
Sep 30th 1959 - Oct 7th 2008
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Ryan McCallum
October 26th 2010
If it wasn't for Madeline I wouldn't have my degree in Statistics! When I transferred to GVSU I wasn't sure what I wanted to do but Professor Siehling changed all of that.
Over the years, I'd stop by her office to say hi. Even during grad school and after graduation she'd always make time for a visit. I enjoyed talking to her about stats, sports, family and life in general. She was a great person and one who will be truly missed!
-Ryan
Crystal (Dymock) Farmer
September 17th 2010
Madeline was my STA 215 professor, she is the sole reason I majored in statistics. I was so fond of her, I retook 215 with her again, first in 02 and then in 04. The second time around we really got to know each other and could talk like two old friends. She had told me everything about her health and what was going on. I remember that day like it was yeterday, I skipped class so I could talk with her and 2 hours went by.
Before I graduated, I went by her office several times to see how she was and talk, but I had always missed her. I still constantly think of her and know she's the reason of where I am today. I wish so badly that I had a chance to say goodbye; I don't think I'll ever meet someone with as great a spirit as Madeline. I miss her greatly,
Crystal
Mike Bryson
January 7th 2009
Great role model!
I met Madeline some time ago as a gymnastics partent at a local high school. She was a regularily scheduled gymnastics judge and over time, I got to ge to know her. She was an inspiration to the other judges, the gymnasts and the coaches. My daughter really benefited from her guidance and appreciated her warm and charming personality. We will miss her! On January 10th, 2009 Rockford Gymnastics is having a meet and this meet will be dedicated to her for her ardent support of the high scholl gymnastics programs across the state.
Sunt Lorraine
October 12th 2008
I remember Madeline always doing her gymnastics in the dining room at home when our family would come to visit, which was usually at Thanksgiving. She was almost always smiling and helping her sisters try something new.
My regret is that I never knew her as an adult-wife, mother, teacher. I know she was wonderful in all of these rolls because she had very special role models in her loving parents, John & Charlene. If I had known she was ill I would have made an effort to comfort her and her family. My prayers are with all of you now.
Lovingly,
Aunt Lorraine & Roger
Craig Defoe
October 12th 2008
To the Siehling Family:
My condolences on your loss. I harbor many fond memories of Aunt Madeline. She was always a pleasure be around, expressed genuine concern about others, and remained upbeat even when she had reason not to be. I regret that I was unable to make it up to Michigan to pay my respects. You all have been and will be in my prayers.
Love,
Craig
Kirsten and Ludger Ramme, Germany
October 11th 2008
To Mark, John, Lisa and Cathryn,
we send you all our deepest regards and wished to have benn closer in these difficult times. We have met Madeline several times either in Germany or in Michigan. she was always making a great impression on us since she had such a mild and generous character. She was the prototype of a loving and caring mother and companion. she was aslso an excellent cook and host. For many years now we have a picture of your family on our sideboard including your first dog Jake. this picture will remain in its place and we will have a hard time to realize that Madeline will be at a different place from now on. Our thought s will be with you all as they have been in the last months. With love
Kirsten and Ludger, with Justus, Nils and Thilo
Families Suehling, Parthe and Strotmann in Germany
October 11th 2008
MISS ME - BUT LET ME GO!
When I come to the end of my road
And the sun has set for me!
I want no rites in a gloom filled room.
WHY CRY FOR A SOUL SET FREE?
Miss a little – but not too long.
And not with your head bowed low.
Remember the love that we once shared.
MISS ME - BUT LET ME GO!
For this is a journey that we all must take
And each must go alone.
It’s all a part of the Masters Plan:
A step on the road to home.
When you are lonely and sick at heart,
Go to the friends we know
And burry your sorrow in doing good deeds.
MISS ME - BUT LET ME GO!
Lieber Mark,
zu Madelines Tod sprechen wir Dir und Deinen Lieben unser tiefempfundenes Beileid aus. Stellvertretend für die Familien Sühling, Parthe und Strotmann wollte Onkel Richard Madeline persönlich die letzte Ehre erweisen und bei Euch sein, um Worte der Anteilnahme auszusprechen. Leider ist diese Absicht vereitelt worden, wie Du vermutlich erfahren hast.
Wir haben mit Euch gehofft, dass Madeline ihre schreckliche Krankheit besiegt und trauern mit Euch um diese mutige und starke Frau, die wir in den vergangenen Jahren kennen lernen durften. Sie hätte sicher noch so gern mit Euch gelebt.
Wir hoffen es tröstet Euch, dass sie nun keine Schmerzen mehr leiden muss. Sie wird Euch in dem neuen Leben, das mit ihrem Tod begann, „im Auge behalten“.
Wir haben die Zeilen oben unserem Brief vorangestellt, weil wir meinen, dass sie sehr viel Trost und Weisheit für Euch enthalten.
In dieser schweren Zeit wünschen wie Euch Gottes Segen und denken an Euch
Tante Margret und Onkel Richard
Livi Gilbert
October 10th 2008
Madeline was the best aunt anyone could ask for! Great sense of humor, great cook :), great person. She knitted me and my other cousins the most beautiful ponchos, socks, and even purses! She was so thoughtful. It just seems so unfair that she had to be taken away from us, especially since she was so young. (Why do the good die young?) The only explanation I can come up with is one I borrow from a Randy Travis song called "Three Wooden Crosses": It's not what you take when you leave this world behind you; it's what you leave behind you when you go. I think Aunt Madeline left her mark in everyone's heart that she met. She left the knowledge and excitement in her students' minds, constructive criticism and encouragement in the gymnasts that she judged, and left us all with a reminder to be determined in everything we do, never give up or lose hope, and to live life to the fullest.
Listen to the song "Three Wooden Crosses" and make sure to look at its lyrics. I hope it can provide some consolation to everyone, especially Uncle Mark, Lisa, Kathryn, and Johnny.
Love, Livi
Mary (Quinn) Barrett
October 10th 2008
To Madeline's family:
Madeline was my childhood friend. We were neighbors and friends. We played with Barbies, jumped rope, played hopscotch, kick the cans, red rover red rover - all the things kids do. We had a wonderful upbringing in Gladstone. I talked with Madeline at our 30th class reunion last year about living in Gladstone, her kids, (she was very proud of), and her cancer. She was so positive and upbeat about what was going on with her. That is the kind of person she was. I believe she is now in Heaven and her pain and cancer are gone. God Bless you all during this difficult time.
Mary (Quinn) Barrett
Megan (Fredericks) Hanneken
October 10th 2008
Thought I did not have the honor of meeting Madeline, I can only imagine what an amazing woman she was to have raised such wonderful children. I worked with John & Kathryn at 8th Street Grille for many years, and have fond memories of the genuine, kind & funny Siehling siblings. My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this difficult time, I am so sorry for your loss.
Joanne Jesnek
October 9th 2008
Madeline, A wonderful, full spirited woman who adored her family, God and friends. She was a ray of sunshine even through her most painful days. I will cherrish the short time that I have been blessed by Madeline. I enjoyed the phone calls and the talks after church. Thank you Madeline for being such an inspiration to me.
Jackie {LaFond} Mott
October 9th 2008
Madeline, where to begin.. She was a great person her whole life. We were friends in grade school at All Saints and although our lives took different journeys, she always remained a friend. Her smile will never be forgotten. When we spoke last year at our class reunion, it was like those years never went by. We reminisced a bit on a few adventures we took together, laughed and joked at our adolescence and immaturity. We talked about her birthday parties and the dance contests--- they were memorable times.
God Bless John and Charlene, and the whole family. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. I never got the pleasure of meeting Madeline's husband and children but I am sure they are wonderful people and will miss her dearly. she was a special person, never to be forgotten.
God Bless you all
Jackie
Kathaleen Illig
October 9th 2008
To all of Madeline's family and dear friends,
Madeline was one of my first students as I began my teaching career at GHS and probably one of the most memorable. She was so intelligent and not in a flaunting way. Her smile was infectious and she truly cared about everyone that she knew. Losing someone you love at such an early age is difficult, but as someone once told me, the Lord took her home so she would not face something much worse here on earth. God bless you all and keep her love always in your hearts.
Jim Tenbusch
October 9th 2008
It is very hard to express in words our sorrow on the death of Madeline, your Wife, Mother, daughter, sibling and friend. She was a special Lady and will truely be missed. I too am a former Techie and have lots of fond merories of the 30 years that I have known her. My wife and I believe that Madeline was that glue that has kept all of us together. We have had so many memories of great times with her and her family. As our family expanded our children also became recipients of Madelines love and hospitality. They too have fond memories of time spent at the Siehling household with her family and other the other Techies. God surely must have great plans for this kind and patient Lady. To Mark, John, Lisa, and Catherine hold your Wife and Mother close to your heart use her life as an example of what you can be and where you want to go in your own lifes journey. Love the Tenbusch's
Betty Searle
October 9th 2008
Madeline was an incredible instructor - we got into a couple of arguments about how many students she could fit in her classroom. She was the consumate educator and I will always remember her warmth and caring. I'm so very glad I got to know her.
Cassandra Wildey
October 9th 2008
Memories of my Godmother are endless. The best memory that I will always recall will be having the family Thanksgiving over at Aunt Madeline and Uncle Mark's. I will always remember all the sisters and women standing in the kitchen in envy of Madeline's cooking skills she got Grandma Savoie; while all the husband's, uncle's, and dad's, sat in the living room contently watching the Lions Thanksgiving game. She would be the one to call everyone together, and have us stand around in a giant circle, holding hands, saying the Our Father and thanking Him for the blessing he bestowed upon us.. (although we all knew the food was the little tricks she learned from Grandma over the years.) Everyday, every family gathering will not be the same with out my Godmother, but we know, when we stand around holding hands this Thanksgiving, that she will be there, watching over us; but this time she will have God by her side.
Tina McDuffie
October 9th 2008
Madeline was a great friend to me and many others. Last Sunday in church my minister, Pastor Chris, spoke about how all humans have four essential needs. As I listened to his message, I could think of only Madeline and how she had these four essential needs met first by two wonderful parents, and then by a loving husband and family. Madeline "paid it forward". She in turn blessed so many of us by giving so willingly of herself to help others have their own essential needs met.
The first need Pastor Chris spoke of is to love and be loved. Didn't we all benefit in some measure from Madeline's love, generosity and giving spirit? I sure did.
The second need is forgiveness. At the mention of forgiveness my mind flowed back to the time Mark gave Madeline a broom for Christmas. Ouch. It was the cadillac of brooms, but it was a broom none-the-less. Madeline eventually forgave Mark, and he has since learned to give less practical gifts.
The third need we all have is to experience community. Mad not only experienced community, she built it. She built community at her church where she taught catacism and with the ladies she judged gymnastics with. I am fortunate to be a part of the Michigan Tech community she built. Mike and I were newlyweds when I met Madeline up at Tech. Even then, she was already laying the foundation of what would become annual reunions once we all graduated from Tech and went our seperate ways. I remember one particular Thanksgiving when Madeline and her college roomates hosted a holiday dinner for those of us who couldn't travel home. Mike and I, the Swamps, and Mark and his housemates were among the guests who enjoyed a delicious, traditional Thanksgiving feast. Mad was a great cook even then. She made our holiday a fun time-rather than a homesick time. Little did we know then that this was only the beginning of a string of weekend gatherings that Madeline would host to bring us "techies"(as she called us) together, year after year. Reunions hosted by Mark and Madeline "the hostest with the mostest" were always special. Mad opened her home, fed us exceptional food and accepted us as we were.
Corinthians 15:54 says "O death, where is thy sting." Today I'm feeling stung. Death has taken a dear friend from me and that hurts badly. But St. Paul wrote this verse in Corinthians to remind us that there is a God shaped hole in each of us. A hole that can only be filled once we are joined with our Maker in Heaven. Madeline is in Heaven today and she is whole again. No more pain and suffering. No sting for her - only peace. Madeline, I'll love you always. I look forward to the next great reunion you'll host - the one from Heaven.
Nick and Kristi (Schipper) Bonstell
October 9th 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all through this time. She was an amazing women and we know her smile will be missed! God Bless.
Bernie and Nina Schipper
October 9th 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of your loss. Your family is very special! It was our pleasure to meet your mother and get to know! God Bless!
Jewell Jackson
October 8th 2008
To all of Madeline's family, my deepest sympathy for your loss.
I met Madeline at MTU some 30 years ago; what a wonderful time for us all. She and Mark were quickly matched and they made for a great couple right from the start. I remember going on a double date with them early in their relationship. Apparently Mark had cotton in his ears that night because when the waitress asked if he wanted "soup or salad", he said "yes". The waitress asked again, "soup or salad?", again he said "yes". Mad was rolling with laughter, put her hand on Mark's arm, looked into his eyes and clarified "Do you want soup or do you want salad?" "Oh", he replied, "I thought she was asking if I wanted super salad." I'm not sure why that story stuck so firmly in my memories, but it is my first one of them as a couple.
She was a wonderful lady even in those days when some of us weren't all that responsible. She was someone you could aspire to be even then. And as the years progressed she was always a model of grace, strength and kindness.
Madeline, you will be sorely missed. Your life was well lived and a precious gift to us all. Be at peace with God.
Jill Tolman
October 8th 2008
We met Madeline first through our son Dainen who was really good friends with her son John. She was so good to Dainen and he loved going there. She was so kind and happy and seemed to have a smile on her face all the time. Even when she would stop at our shop and talk about the treatments she was going through. She had such awesome strength and courage. I am so blessed to have had the privilege to have met her and gotten to know her and also that she had blessed our son, Dainen as well. We can learn so much from her. I truly am sorry for your family, she will be greatly missed and always remembered.
Jill
Samantha Kuehl (Johnson)
October 8th 2008
Prof. Siehling was the best Stats professor at Grand Valley State University. I grew up in Rapid River, MI and was enlightened to have a fellow "yooper" as my professor. I was quick to relate to her as she talked about growing up in the Upper Peninsula! Come to find out she grew up in Gladstone, just a few miles away from my home town. Her parents where known by my family, and they knew of the Johnson's from Rapid River. What a small world! She was a great professor!!!! I'm deeply sorry that she had to leave GVSU and to leave her family. I know she will be missed greatly by both.
Samantha Kuehl (Johnson) GVSU Class of 2005
Ashley (Dozeman) Mitchell
October 8th 2008
I first met Madeline when I befriended Stefanie, a German high school exchange student who stayed with the Siehlings. Madeline was so friendly, always offering a welcoming smile and taking interest in what was happening in my life. A few years later, I was fortunate enough to have her as my statistics professor. I was amazed by her ability to make a subject I had deemed boring so interesting. A few months ago I saw her at the cancer clinic and we spoke at length, with her happily updating me on all of the successes of her beautiful children. Madeline was an amazing woman who deeply loved her family, her work, and her friends. She serves as my role model because of her many traits I hope to exemplify someday, including strength, compassion, and kindness. She will be missed!
Jeffery Moreau
October 8th 2008
I am very sorry for your loss. Madeline was a terrific person. I have known Madeline since the 7th grade in school. I was fortunate to see her last summer at our 30 year class reunion in Gladstone. We talked for a long time and reminisced about high school. She still couldn't figure out how I could copy her calculus homework every day and get B+'s on the exams. She was a beautiful and intelligent person. I will miss her dearly.
Marene Van Farowe
October 8th 2008
I am at peace knowing that Madeline is not suffering. I have so much to be thankful for, especially having Madeline as my friend, colleague and mentor. Her perseverance through the treatments, her positive attitude, unselfishness and brillant mind I will always admire. I will remember her beaming smile and laughter, her words of honesty, her comforting voice, and how she touched everyone's life in such a special way. She was called by God too soon and we will greatly miss her wisdom and friendship. May God bless the exquisite family members that Madeline had to leave behind. Thank you Madeline for making such a true difference in my life! I will always love you!
Cindy
October 8th 2008
Please allow me to express, on behalf of all of Sarah's many online friends, our collective, deepest sympathy in your loss of Madeline. We have all been praying and hoping for her and your whole family. May God bless you all with peace and comfort now and forever.
—Sarah's NT Friends
Sue Marris
October 8th 2008
Madeline was a rock for Michigan high school gymnastics. Her enthusiasm for the sport was felt by everyone she came into contact with. She was the person everyone turned to, including gymnasts, coaches, judges, and athletic directors to make a ruling or interpretation with the crazy rulebook we follow. She was involved in every aspect of the sport and was held in high esteem by all. She ran rules meetings, held clinics, trained new judges, scheduled the west side meets, ran our judging organization and served on the federation council for the entire state. Her smile and enthusiasm will be missed as we move forward into a new season. I, along with many others, have lost a true friend. One that will remain with me even though her physical presence is no longer with us. Many hours were spent with this amazing lady...from long car trips, after season parties, planning regionals, to sharing family stories before, during and after the judging season. WE are always and forever will be...family.
Dan Smith
October 8th 2008
As a distant and respectful friend for 30 years Madeline set a standard for clean wholesome living.
Life ; it just doesn’t seem fair when it’s taken from one such as Madeline. The only justifiable reason in my mind: The Lord has summoned her up early for a life lived sensibly well and complete. A shining example for all.
Barb and Andy Koning
October 8th 2008
Madeline was taken too soon from the world but we are blessed to have known her. We got to know Madeline when our children sang together for the German Children's Choir. We had many laughs and shared many memories of our children singing and performing.
Madeline was always upbeat, helpful, caring and fun to be around. She will be missed!
Barb and Andy Koning
Pat Rasch Cederholm
October 8th 2008
Prayers and thoughts are sent to all the family members, and especially Bernie and Brigetta at the loss of such a wonderful lady. We met only during those hectic yet fun Berlin Fair days---kids and animals and lots of excitement. God bless all.
Paul Yansak
October 8th 2008
Madeline simply is the kindest, most caring, happy, and positive person on the planet. No one ever saw Madeline without a smile on her face! I've always felt very privilaged to have met and worked with Madeline. She is a best friend to so many and Madeline certainly brought great joy to everyone who was lucky enough to know her. She simply is the greatest and has always been a highly valued friend. Truly, anyone who had the pleasure to become associated with her is very blessed. We all lose a most unique and extremely special lady. We will all cherish the memory of Madeline forever without question. As everyone knows, Madeline also has a very classy and respected family.
Paul Yansak
Jenny Sevigny
October 8th 2008
I attended Michigan Tech with Madeline and Mark. For over 25 years Mad was the "glue" that kept so many of the "Tech Group" together by organizing (or prodding others to organize) our annual "Tech" reunions. We have so many wonderful memories of Mad, but most memorable was the twinkle in her eye and the sound of her laughter. We are all so grateful for our time spent with Madeline, because we know through those encounters we have been touched by an angel.
Sarah Aviles
October 7th 2008
Madeline is one of my big sisters, I love and will miss her.
When I was little...she was trying to teach me my name..SARAH....I guess I couldnt really say that hehe..and what would come out is RAROO!! So, Madeline has called me her little Raroo for years.
On the night of May 2nd,2007, Madeline was up in the U.P. visiting...and came with others to the hospital as I was being induced for yet another baby!! Things werent happening so they decided most likely I could sleep and rest then they would get going on starting labor in the morning. Madeline decided to stay over night with me...in a big uncomfy looking chair...room not too warm...
she then was there for my daughters birth...My baby girl Maria Madeline!!! That night, knowing she was still fighting cancer...and not too comfy in that chair....when we both said good night and love yous...was the most peaceful night of my life. Thanks for letting me share my memories of a wonderful wonderful big sister!! hugss to all the family and friends, Sarah Aviles
Janet (Skrycki) Thorn, WC 1976
October 7th 2008
To Mark Siehling, their children, both parents, siblings and all those who love Madeline...
I remember meeting Madeline at church when you visited ABVM. I feel great sorrow for you and those Madeline touched. Once again, one taken much too young. My prayers for you are for strength and courage to get through these difficult days. May our Lord grant you peace of heart and mind, and realization that the sufferings of this life are nothing compared to the glory that awaits us, that which Madeline has been granted. For now and in time to come, you all remain in our hearts and prayers. To Bernie and Brigitta, special thoughts of comfort to you.
Janet & Dave Thorn Family
Ryan McCallum
October 26th 2010
If it wasn't for Madeline I wouldn't have my degree in Statistics! When I transferred to GVSU I wasn't sure what I wanted to do but Professor Siehling changed all of that.
Over the years, I'd stop by her office to say hi. Even during grad school and after graduation she'd always make time for a visit. I enjoyed talking to her about stats, sports, family and life in general. She was a great person and one who will be truly missed!
-Ryan
Crystal (Dymock) Farmer
September 17th 2010
Madeline was my STA 215 professor, she is the sole reason I majored in statistics. I was so fond of her, I retook 215 with her again, first in 02 and then in 04. The second time around we really got to know each other and could talk like two old friends. She had told me everything about her health and what was going on. I remember that day like it was yeterday, I skipped class so I could talk with her and 2 hours went by.
Before I graduated, I went by her office several times to see how she was and talk, but I had always missed her. I still constantly think of her and know she's the reason of where I am today. I wish so badly that I had a chance to say goodbye; I don't think I'll ever meet someone with as great a spirit as Madeline. I miss her greatly,
Crystal
Mike Bryson
January 7th 2009
Great role model!
I met Madeline some time ago as a gymnastics partent at a local high school. She was a regularily scheduled gymnastics judge and over time, I got to ge to know her. She was an inspiration to the other judges, the gymnasts and the coaches. My daughter really benefited from her guidance and appreciated her warm and charming personality. We will miss her! On January 10th, 2009 Rockford Gymnastics is having a meet and this meet will be dedicated to her for her ardent support of the high scholl gymnastics programs across the state.
Sunt Lorraine
October 12th 2008
I remember Madeline always doing her gymnastics in the dining room at home when our family would come to visit, which was usually at Thanksgiving. She was almost always smiling and helping her sisters try something new.
My regret is that I never knew her as an adult-wife, mother, teacher. I know she was wonderful in all of these rolls because she had very special role models in her loving parents, John & Charlene. If I had known she was ill I would have made an effort to comfort her and her family. My prayers are with all of you now.
Lovingly,
Aunt Lorraine & Roger
Craig Defoe
October 12th 2008
To the Siehling Family:
My condolences on your loss. I harbor many fond memories of Aunt Madeline. She was always a pleasure be around, expressed genuine concern about others, and remained upbeat even when she had reason not to be. I regret that I was unable to make it up to Michigan to pay my respects. You all have been and will be in my prayers.
Love,
Craig
Kirsten and Ludger Ramme, Germany
October 11th 2008
To Mark, John, Lisa and Cathryn,
we send you all our deepest regards and wished to have benn closer in these difficult times. We have met Madeline several times either in Germany or in Michigan. she was always making a great impression on us since she had such a mild and generous character. She was the prototype of a loving and caring mother and companion. she was aslso an excellent cook and host. For many years now we have a picture of your family on our sideboard including your first dog Jake. this picture will remain in its place and we will have a hard time to realize that Madeline will be at a different place from now on. Our thought s will be with you all as they have been in the last months. With love
Kirsten and Ludger, with Justus, Nils and Thilo
Families Suehling, Parthe and Strotmann in Germany
October 11th 2008
MISS ME - BUT LET ME GO!
When I come to the end of my road
And the sun has set for me!
I want no rites in a gloom filled room.
WHY CRY FOR A SOUL SET FREE?
Miss a little – but not too long.
And not with your head bowed low.
Remember the love that we once shared.
MISS ME - BUT LET ME GO!
For this is a journey that we all must take
And each must go alone.
It’s all a part of the Masters Plan:
A step on the road to home.
When you are lonely and sick at heart,
Go to the friends we know
And burry your sorrow in doing good deeds.
MISS ME - BUT LET ME GO!
Lieber Mark,
zu Madelines Tod sprechen wir Dir und Deinen Lieben unser tiefempfundenes Beileid aus. Stellvertretend für die Familien Sühling, Parthe und Strotmann wollte Onkel Richard Madeline persönlich die letzte Ehre erweisen und bei Euch sein, um Worte der Anteilnahme auszusprechen. Leider ist diese Absicht vereitelt worden, wie Du vermutlich erfahren hast.
Wir haben mit Euch gehofft, dass Madeline ihre schreckliche Krankheit besiegt und trauern mit Euch um diese mutige und starke Frau, die wir in den vergangenen Jahren kennen lernen durften. Sie hätte sicher noch so gern mit Euch gelebt.
Wir hoffen es tröstet Euch, dass sie nun keine Schmerzen mehr leiden muss. Sie wird Euch in dem neuen Leben, das mit ihrem Tod begann, „im Auge behalten“.
Wir haben die Zeilen oben unserem Brief vorangestellt, weil wir meinen, dass sie sehr viel Trost und Weisheit für Euch enthalten.
In dieser schweren Zeit wünschen wie Euch Gottes Segen und denken an Euch
Tante Margret und Onkel Richard
Livi Gilbert
October 10th 2008
Madeline was the best aunt anyone could ask for! Great sense of humor, great cook :), great person. She knitted me and my other cousins the most beautiful ponchos, socks, and even purses! She was so thoughtful. It just seems so unfair that she had to be taken away from us, especially since she was so young. (Why do the good die young?) The only explanation I can come up with is one I borrow from a Randy Travis song called "Three Wooden Crosses": It's not what you take when you leave this world behind you; it's what you leave behind you when you go. I think Aunt Madeline left her mark in everyone's heart that she met. She left the knowledge and excitement in her students' minds, constructive criticism and encouragement in the gymnasts that she judged, and left us all with a reminder to be determined in everything we do, never give up or lose hope, and to live life to the fullest.
Listen to the song "Three Wooden Crosses" and make sure to look at its lyrics. I hope it can provide some consolation to everyone, especially Uncle Mark, Lisa, Kathryn, and Johnny.
Love, Livi
Mary (Quinn) Barrett
October 10th 2008
To Madeline's family:
Madeline was my childhood friend. We were neighbors and friends. We played with Barbies, jumped rope, played hopscotch, kick the cans, red rover red rover - all the things kids do. We had a wonderful upbringing in Gladstone. I talked with Madeline at our 30th class reunion last year about living in Gladstone, her kids, (she was very proud of), and her cancer. She was so positive and upbeat about what was going on with her. That is the kind of person she was. I believe she is now in Heaven and her pain and cancer are gone. God Bless you all during this difficult time.
Mary (Quinn) Barrett
Megan (Fredericks) Hanneken
October 10th 2008
Thought I did not have the honor of meeting Madeline, I can only imagine what an amazing woman she was to have raised such wonderful children. I worked with John & Kathryn at 8th Street Grille for many years, and have fond memories of the genuine, kind & funny Siehling siblings. My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this difficult time, I am so sorry for your loss.
Joanne Jesnek
October 9th 2008
Madeline, A wonderful, full spirited woman who adored her family, God and friends. She was a ray of sunshine even through her most painful days. I will cherrish the short time that I have been blessed by Madeline. I enjoyed the phone calls and the talks after church. Thank you Madeline for being such an inspiration to me.
Jackie {LaFond} Mott
October 9th 2008
Madeline, where to begin.. She was a great person her whole life. We were friends in grade school at All Saints and although our lives took different journeys, she always remained a friend. Her smile will never be forgotten. When we spoke last year at our class reunion, it was like those years never went by. We reminisced a bit on a few adventures we took together, laughed and joked at our adolescence and immaturity. We talked about her birthday parties and the dance contests--- they were memorable times.
God Bless John and Charlene, and the whole family. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. I never got the pleasure of meeting Madeline's husband and children but I am sure they are wonderful people and will miss her dearly. she was a special person, never to be forgotten.
God Bless you all
Jackie
Kathaleen Illig
October 9th 2008
To all of Madeline's family and dear friends,
Madeline was one of my first students as I began my teaching career at GHS and probably one of the most memorable. She was so intelligent and not in a flaunting way. Her smile was infectious and she truly cared about everyone that she knew. Losing someone you love at such an early age is difficult, but as someone once told me, the Lord took her home so she would not face something much worse here on earth. God bless you all and keep her love always in your hearts.
Jim Tenbusch
October 9th 2008
It is very hard to express in words our sorrow on the death of Madeline, your Wife, Mother, daughter, sibling and friend. She was a special Lady and will truely be missed. I too am a former Techie and have lots of fond merories of the 30 years that I have known her. My wife and I believe that Madeline was that glue that has kept all of us together. We have had so many memories of great times with her and her family. As our family expanded our children also became recipients of Madelines love and hospitality. They too have fond memories of time spent at the Siehling household with her family and other the other Techies. God surely must have great plans for this kind and patient Lady. To Mark, John, Lisa, and Catherine hold your Wife and Mother close to your heart use her life as an example of what you can be and where you want to go in your own lifes journey. Love the Tenbusch's
Betty Searle
October 9th 2008
Madeline was an incredible instructor - we got into a couple of arguments about how many students she could fit in her classroom. She was the consumate educator and I will always remember her warmth and caring. I'm so very glad I got to know her.
Cassandra Wildey
October 9th 2008
Memories of my Godmother are endless. The best memory that I will always recall will be having the family Thanksgiving over at Aunt Madeline and Uncle Mark's. I will always remember all the sisters and women standing in the kitchen in envy of Madeline's cooking skills she got Grandma Savoie; while all the husband's, uncle's, and dad's, sat in the living room contently watching the Lions Thanksgiving game. She would be the one to call everyone together, and have us stand around in a giant circle, holding hands, saying the Our Father and thanking Him for the blessing he bestowed upon us.. (although we all knew the food was the little tricks she learned from Grandma over the years.) Everyday, every family gathering will not be the same with out my Godmother, but we know, when we stand around holding hands this Thanksgiving, that she will be there, watching over us; but this time she will have God by her side.
Tina McDuffie
October 9th 2008
Madeline was a great friend to me and many others. Last Sunday in church my minister, Pastor Chris, spoke about how all humans have four essential needs. As I listened to his message, I could think of only Madeline and how she had these four essential needs met first by two wonderful parents, and then by a loving husband and family. Madeline "paid it forward". She in turn blessed so many of us by giving so willingly of herself to help others have their own essential needs met.
The first need Pastor Chris spoke of is to love and be loved. Didn't we all benefit in some measure from Madeline's love, generosity and giving spirit? I sure did.
The second need is forgiveness. At the mention of forgiveness my mind flowed back to the time Mark gave Madeline a broom for Christmas. Ouch. It was the cadillac of brooms, but it was a broom none-the-less. Madeline eventually forgave Mark, and he has since learned to give less practical gifts.
The third need we all have is to experience community. Mad not only experienced community, she built it. She built community at her church where she taught catacism and with the ladies she judged gymnastics with. I am fortunate to be a part of the Michigan Tech community she built. Mike and I were newlyweds when I met Madeline up at Tech. Even then, she was already laying the foundation of what would become annual reunions once we all graduated from Tech and went our seperate ways. I remember one particular Thanksgiving when Madeline and her college roomates hosted a holiday dinner for those of us who couldn't travel home. Mike and I, the Swamps, and Mark and his housemates were among the guests who enjoyed a delicious, traditional Thanksgiving feast. Mad was a great cook even then. She made our holiday a fun time-rather than a homesick time. Little did we know then that this was only the beginning of a string of weekend gatherings that Madeline would host to bring us "techies"(as she called us) together, year after year. Reunions hosted by Mark and Madeline "the hostest with the mostest" were always special. Mad opened her home, fed us exceptional food and accepted us as we were.
Corinthians 15:54 says "O death, where is thy sting." Today I'm feeling stung. Death has taken a dear friend from me and that hurts badly. But St. Paul wrote this verse in Corinthians to remind us that there is a God shaped hole in each of us. A hole that can only be filled once we are joined with our Maker in Heaven. Madeline is in Heaven today and she is whole again. No more pain and suffering. No sting for her - only peace. Madeline, I'll love you always. I look forward to the next great reunion you'll host - the one from Heaven.
Nick and Kristi (Schipper) Bonstell
October 9th 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all through this time. She was an amazing women and we know her smile will be missed! God Bless.
Bernie and Nina Schipper
October 9th 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of your loss. Your family is very special! It was our pleasure to meet your mother and get to know! God Bless!
Jewell Jackson
October 8th 2008
To all of Madeline's family, my deepest sympathy for your loss.
I met Madeline at MTU some 30 years ago; what a wonderful time for us all. She and Mark were quickly matched and they made for a great couple right from the start. I remember going on a double date with them early in their relationship. Apparently Mark had cotton in his ears that night because when the waitress asked if he wanted "soup or salad", he said "yes". The waitress asked again, "soup or salad?", again he said "yes". Mad was rolling with laughter, put her hand on Mark's arm, looked into his eyes and clarified "Do you want soup or do you want salad?" "Oh", he replied, "I thought she was asking if I wanted super salad." I'm not sure why that story stuck so firmly in my memories, but it is my first one of them as a couple.
She was a wonderful lady even in those days when some of us weren't all that responsible. She was someone you could aspire to be even then. And as the years progressed she was always a model of grace, strength and kindness.
Madeline, you will be sorely missed. Your life was well lived and a precious gift to us all. Be at peace with God.
Jill Tolman
October 8th 2008
We met Madeline first through our son Dainen who was really good friends with her son John. She was so good to Dainen and he loved going there. She was so kind and happy and seemed to have a smile on her face all the time. Even when she would stop at our shop and talk about the treatments she was going through. She had such awesome strength and courage. I am so blessed to have had the privilege to have met her and gotten to know her and also that she had blessed our son, Dainen as well. We can learn so much from her. I truly am sorry for your family, she will be greatly missed and always remembered.
Jill
Samantha Kuehl (Johnson)
October 8th 2008
Prof. Siehling was the best Stats professor at Grand Valley State University. I grew up in Rapid River, MI and was enlightened to have a fellow "yooper" as my professor. I was quick to relate to her as she talked about growing up in the Upper Peninsula! Come to find out she grew up in Gladstone, just a few miles away from my home town. Her parents where known by my family, and they knew of the Johnson's from Rapid River. What a small world! She was a great professor!!!! I'm deeply sorry that she had to leave GVSU and to leave her family. I know she will be missed greatly by both.
Samantha Kuehl (Johnson) GVSU Class of 2005
Ashley (Dozeman) Mitchell
October 8th 2008
I first met Madeline when I befriended Stefanie, a German high school exchange student who stayed with the Siehlings. Madeline was so friendly, always offering a welcoming smile and taking interest in what was happening in my life. A few years later, I was fortunate enough to have her as my statistics professor. I was amazed by her ability to make a subject I had deemed boring so interesting. A few months ago I saw her at the cancer clinic and we spoke at length, with her happily updating me on all of the successes of her beautiful children. Madeline was an amazing woman who deeply loved her family, her work, and her friends. She serves as my role model because of her many traits I hope to exemplify someday, including strength, compassion, and kindness. She will be missed!
Jeffery Moreau
October 8th 2008
I am very sorry for your loss. Madeline was a terrific person. I have known Madeline since the 7th grade in school. I was fortunate to see her last summer at our 30 year class reunion in Gladstone. We talked for a long time and reminisced about high school. She still couldn't figure out how I could copy her calculus homework every day and get B+'s on the exams. She was a beautiful and intelligent person. I will miss her dearly.
Marene Van Farowe
October 8th 2008
I am at peace knowing that Madeline is not suffering. I have so much to be thankful for, especially having Madeline as my friend, colleague and mentor. Her perseverance through the treatments, her positive attitude, unselfishness and brillant mind I will always admire. I will remember her beaming smile and laughter, her words of honesty, her comforting voice, and how she touched everyone's life in such a special way. She was called by God too soon and we will greatly miss her wisdom and friendship. May God bless the exquisite family members that Madeline had to leave behind. Thank you Madeline for making such a true difference in my life! I will always love you!
Cindy
October 8th 2008
Please allow me to express, on behalf of all of Sarah's many online friends, our collective, deepest sympathy in your loss of Madeline. We have all been praying and hoping for her and your whole family. May God bless you all with peace and comfort now and forever.
—Sarah's NT Friends
Sue Marris
October 8th 2008
Madeline was a rock for Michigan high school gymnastics. Her enthusiasm for the sport was felt by everyone she came into contact with. She was the person everyone turned to, including gymnasts, coaches, judges, and athletic directors to make a ruling or interpretation with the crazy rulebook we follow. She was involved in every aspect of the sport and was held in high esteem by all. She ran rules meetings, held clinics, trained new judges, scheduled the west side meets, ran our judging organization and served on the federation council for the entire state. Her smile and enthusiasm will be missed as we move forward into a new season. I, along with many others, have lost a true friend. One that will remain with me even though her physical presence is no longer with us. Many hours were spent with this amazing lady...from long car trips, after season parties, planning regionals, to sharing family stories before, during and after the judging season. WE are always and forever will be...family.
Dan Smith
October 8th 2008
As a distant and respectful friend for 30 years Madeline set a standard for clean wholesome living.
Life ; it just doesn’t seem fair when it’s taken from one such as Madeline. The only justifiable reason in my mind: The Lord has summoned her up early for a life lived sensibly well and complete. A shining example for all.
Barb and Andy Koning
October 8th 2008
Madeline was taken too soon from the world but we are blessed to have known her. We got to know Madeline when our children sang together for the German Children's Choir. We had many laughs and shared many memories of our children singing and performing.
Madeline was always upbeat, helpful, caring and fun to be around. She will be missed!
Barb and Andy Koning
Pat Rasch Cederholm
October 8th 2008
Prayers and thoughts are sent to all the family members, and especially Bernie and Brigetta at the loss of such a wonderful lady. We met only during those hectic yet fun Berlin Fair days---kids and animals and lots of excitement. God bless all.
Paul Yansak
October 8th 2008
Madeline simply is the kindest, most caring, happy, and positive person on the planet. No one ever saw Madeline without a smile on her face! I've always felt very privilaged to have met and worked with Madeline. She is a best friend to so many and Madeline certainly brought great joy to everyone who was lucky enough to know her. She simply is the greatest and has always been a highly valued friend. Truly, anyone who had the pleasure to become associated with her is very blessed. We all lose a most unique and extremely special lady. We will all cherish the memory of Madeline forever without question. As everyone knows, Madeline also has a very classy and respected family.
Paul Yansak
Jenny Sevigny
October 8th 2008
I attended Michigan Tech with Madeline and Mark. For over 25 years Mad was the "glue" that kept so many of the "Tech Group" together by organizing (or prodding others to organize) our annual "Tech" reunions. We have so many wonderful memories of Mad, but most memorable was the twinkle in her eye and the sound of her laughter. We are all so grateful for our time spent with Madeline, because we know through those encounters we have been touched by an angel.
Sarah Aviles
October 7th 2008
Madeline is one of my big sisters, I love and will miss her.
When I was little...she was trying to teach me my name..SARAH....I guess I couldnt really say that hehe..and what would come out is RAROO!! So, Madeline has called me her little Raroo for years.
On the night of May 2nd,2007, Madeline was up in the U.P. visiting...and came with others to the hospital as I was being induced for yet another baby!! Things werent happening so they decided most likely I could sleep and rest then they would get going on starting labor in the morning. Madeline decided to stay over night with me...in a big uncomfy looking chair...room not too warm...
she then was there for my daughters birth...My baby girl Maria Madeline!!! That night, knowing she was still fighting cancer...and not too comfy in that chair....when we both said good night and love yous...was the most peaceful night of my life. Thanks for letting me share my memories of a wonderful wonderful big sister!! hugss to all the family and friends, Sarah Aviles
Janet (Skrycki) Thorn, WC 1976
October 7th 2008
To Mark Siehling, their children, both parents, siblings and all those who love Madeline...
I remember meeting Madeline at church when you visited ABVM. I feel great sorrow for you and those Madeline touched. Once again, one taken much too young. My prayers for you are for strength and courage to get through these difficult days. May our Lord grant you peace of heart and mind, and realization that the sufferings of this life are nothing compared to the glory that awaits us, that which Madeline has been granted. For now and in time to come, you all remain in our hearts and prayers. To Bernie and Brigitta, special thoughts of comfort to you.
Janet & Dave Thorn Family
