Patricia J. Prince
Jun 10th 1954 - Nov 1st 2006
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Nelly Doelman
March 1st 2007
I still can't believe Patti is gone. I think about her all the time; she meant the world to me. I used to call her Mom #4 because she was my American mamma. She always told me that I needed a mom in the States to watch over me since mine is far away in Canada. She was a great momma to me, too. She loved to give advice to me about life and guys. She was always so honest about what she thought, which was so incredibly refreshing. She never said what she didn't mean.
I've been on this website so many times and it still brings tears to my eyes to think that I will never be able to see her or talk to her again. I always had so much fun talking to her. And that laugh! Oh, she had the BEST laugh. It was really more of a cackle, but still, it was great. I am going to miss going to Great Lakes with she and Dave and me and Joe. We always had such a great time. I only wish I could've had ONE more time to see her. I had so much to tell her! She never got to find out about Joe and I finally getting engaged and secretly married. She would have loved to hear all about it. It kills me that I didn't call her to tell her sooner.
I don't think my life will ever be the same without Patti in it. I am so blessed to have known her. I would have never survived at the Bookstore without her, I know that for a fact!
I love ya and miss you more than you could ever know.
Karen Toczydlowski
November 7th 2006
My dear, dear friend, how could I ever put down in words the memories of fifty years? My earliest memory is when Pat was in first grade and I was in kindergarden at Creston Christian. She was learning to read and I sat with her and was awed by the fact that she could read to me from her Dick and Jane book! From that time on we were a pair, playing with our Barbie dolls, riding my stingray bike, double (she use to make me peddle as she rode on the handlebars!) Calvinettes, church choir, make-up, boys, riding the bus downtown, our family vacations, sleep overs at my house or hers, our summers at Kent Hills Park, to her first car, a Beetle she named Vivian. It was her dad's hand me down, light blue with red seat covers. What adventures we had in that little car!! We shared our first apartment, and got married within three months of eachother. We had our first babies (both boys) four days apart, two more wonderful boys three months apart, and then Pat had another boy and three days later I had a girl, all within five years! We laughed together at our joys and cried together during our sorrows. She felt like family to me and often called me the "sister she never had". To say that I miss her does not describe what I feel in my heart. My joy is that she is in Heaven reunited with Jeffery and singing with her beautiful voice praising our Saviour in a way we can only imagine. "Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal." 2 Corinthians 4:16-18
I miss you my forever friend! I will always love you.
Deanne Casanova
November 7th 2006
We do not stop playing because we grow old; we grow old because we stop playing. And I am so glad that I could play with Pat. In the Friendship Game, I had won first prize with her. That is one of the joys of living--we are able to choose our friends. And when I met Pat, I knew that she was a gift. I loved her. I love her family. They are all the best. I love her God. Pat and I had so much fun together and what I loved so much is that I could see Jesus in her. I couldn't ask for anything more--I won the prize with Pat Prince. I will miss her greatly.
Sue Hintz
November 7th 2006
My very deepest sympathy is extended to Pat's husband Dave and children at this sudden loss in their lives. All the words have been said about Pat that can express her life and love for family and friends! She was such a bright spot in our circle of friends at the condo group where we all live and socialize. I will miss her in many ways, one of which after work arriving at the pool with her sunny yellow beach bag and kokopelli necklace ready to relax a bit before going out to dinner. We always had great conversations about the newest books she and Dave were reading and where our next dinner would be! Gosh, she leaves a serious void in our group, but sharing a friendship with her is priceless! Many blessings and prayers to Pat's family.
Laurel De Fouw
November 6th 2006
Pat was a very special person to me. I had come back to Calvin to take classes for my education degree. I met Pat while looking for some books and quickly was impressed with her. We found we had a lot in common, family, children and grandchildren. I visited her often and she always had time to talk to me, whether to encourage me in my classes or just give me that wonderful 'Pat smile'. I am very thankful to have had Pat for a friend as she touched my heart with her wonderful joy of life. Thanks Pat for being there for me. Laurel
Lori Walz
November 6th 2006
I want to share my condolences for the Prince, Van Andel and Calvin families. I am a Calvin parent whose life was touched long distance by Pat over this year’s Family Weekend. I am sitting here at prayer somewhat numbed by the news of Pat’s too soon Homegoing, and can only imagine the magnitude of your loss.
I thought if I could share this brief glimpse it might offer more comfort to you all. I never got the chance to say “thank you†again to Pat. I am sure that she is blessed in Jesus arms for the simple differences she made in people’s lives. This is how she impacted our lives last month:
A few months ago, I was supposed to be moving to Grand Rapids for employment and I thought I would be right there at Calvin watching my son sing for Family Weekend. Instead, I am finding myself over 20 hour’s away working temporarily for my home church in International Falls, MN. My heart was broken as I thought of Jon singing and my not being there to hear him, and wondering what I could do to make sure he felt my presence anyhow.
Somehow, I got the idea to call the Campus Store. I explained what I was thinking of to whomever answered the phone and they gave me to Pat. She helped me pick out a balloon with Jon’s favorite candy and a card. She wrote, “ Have fun tonight singing!-With love and prayers, Mom†on the card, and I asked her to put a gift certificate for a “hoodie†in it. Jon was able to run over from the dorm and get his surprise the same day, and I felt like I had done the best “mom thing†I could do in the circumstances. It made my weekend a little easier. Pat had said she would send the receipt, I thanked her profusely and went on with my day.
A week ago, I got an envelope in the mail marked, P.Prince, handwritten in the corner. I thought , “What is this?†It was the receipt for Jon’s care package that Pat had taken the time and trouble from her busy day to help me with. On seeing it, I sent a special prayer of thanks for her and for all the people at Calvin who seem to touch our lives in such caring ways every time I talk to them. I had hoped to walk into the Campus store and say “thank you†in person someday, but I hope this memory will help in some small way.
My family and I will be keeping you in our prayers for the comfort of our God and for memories to bring healing until you are once again with this woman you love so much.
Blessings and Prayers for you all,
Lori Walz,
(mother of Jonathan Walz- Sophomore, Boer Hall.)
Phil de Haan
November 6th 2006
I liked Pat. She was cheerful and she could banter with the best of them. When Pat first started working at Calvin I made the mistake of telling her I had bought a book from Amazon. She told me she could serve me better and cheaper. I laughed. But I took her up on her offer. I'm not sure I've bought a book from Amazon since. In fact just a couple of weeks ago Pat ordered seven books for me for a little reading group here at Calvin. It was fun to work with Pat. I'll miss her a lot. My prayers are with all of those who loved her and will miss her dearly.
Betty Belding
November 5th 2006
It's sunday afternoon and I missed Pat's Memorial Service due to a Youth Group retreat but I rejoice in this day knowing how much Pat loved the sunshine. Pat and I went to grade school together and our paths have woven in and out of eachothers lives. I grieve for Dave and the rest of Pat's family but I also rejoice knowing that they and i will see Pat again "up there". God is gracious and I trust Him. I know He prepared a place for her but it seems like He called her home too soon. I can still hear her singing:
"No guilt in life, no fear in death,
This is the power of Christ in me.
From life's first cry til final breath,
Jesus commands my destiny.
No power of hell, no scheme of man,
Can ever pluck me from his hand;
Till He returns od=r calls me home,
Here in the power of Christ I stand"
Shannon Faasse
November 5th 2006
Pat and Dave have been regular customers at Great Lakes as long as I have been there so at least 3 years. Pat always asked me about my kids and husband and had a genuine concern about my life. She glowed when she spoke of Dave, her kids and her new Grandchild. Tuesdays were her favorite night because she could babysit and spoil Blake. She was an amazing woman, with strong values and her family was her life. I will miss Pat. I am praying for Dave and her family.
holly van slooten knapp
November 4th 2006
i knew pat for along time having gone thru creston christian school and christian high a year behind her. she was my good friend, karen's, best friend. pat was alot of fun. we shared the loss of a child together--pat was very thoughtful when i lost my son, jager. i have a chalk drawing she had made for me at my time of sorrow. it is still hanging in my room at work and it has been 12 years since she gave it to me.she was kind hearted and fun loving. i know she is in heaven enjoying her son, jeffrey, and i know she will give jager a hug and kiss for me. thank you, pat!! peace to your family! holly
Charsie Sawyer
November 4th 2006
Pat will be greatly missed. It took me almost 2 years to get Pat to join the choir at Madison and when she joined she brought two of her men with her. (David and Dave) She was always smiling and had a lovely voice. What a joy to be around her. She was an excellent musician and helped whenever and however she could. I remember times finding her in the Calvin bookstore and how we would talk about church and music. She was definitly a people person. She loved life. We loved her but God loved her best. ...Absent from the body present with the Lord..
My Love and Prayers to the family.
Linda Raetz
November 4th 2006
Pat was my Prayer Partner for the last women's DeColores #202 weekend. When I asked Pat what I could pray for her specifically, she said "Nothing really, . . . My life is wonderful right now!" with a great big smile on her face! I will always cherish that smile because it embodied how much God had blessed her in her journey.
Pat was truly a blessing to many.
Thank you for putting this Life Story together to honor a beautiful woman.
Linda Raetz
Emily Hollebeek Brechting
November 4th 2006
I have dozens of fond memories of Pat and here are a few...
Pat spending time by the pool with her family, Pat buzzing around the kitchen making homemade pizza for the whole crew, or Pat cranking up the stereo and dancing around with Dave. And I'd be remiss to not mention her laughter. Pat's laughter was captivating--the unlikely combination of a girlish giggle and hearty belly laughter that was truly infectious. She was a tremendous woman and her absence will be deeply felt by all who knew her.
Miranda toczydlowski
November 3rd 2006
HEY!
Wow pat was my mothers best friend! and she was like my aunt she was the best person in the world!!! i miss her sooo much soo does my mom! I remember my sisters wedding (sarahs) and aunt pat was dancing with me and it was so fun she always bought me little things and i remember when i was at her house and she gave me really good cookies
we miss u!!
miranda
Jerry Fondse
November 3rd 2006
Pat's grandson was born about six months before ours. Since Pat knew our daughter Kara well, I could no longer get into and out of the bookstore without Pat asking to see pictures and then sharing hers. I had not known her well before, but the joy she shared with me over our grandchildren was wonderful. I'll miss you, Pat.
Nancy Hull
November 3rd 2006
I met Pat in the bookstore at Calvin when she assisted the English Department with ordering books for the Festival of Faith & Writing and for the Youth Writing Festivals. Pat would meet with our conference committees and graciously lead us through the process of ordering appropriate books for the festivals. She was always kind and energetic--working hard to make our conferences a success. As others have said, she went out of her way to listen and respond to our needs. She made a tedious process fun and rewarding. We will miss her skills, her spirit, and her joy. Blessings to her family and friends at this time.
Jermale D. Eddie
November 3rd 2006
Dear Dave & Family:
My thoughts and prayers are with you all as we celebrate the life of an angel such a Pat. I spent many mornings in the Bookstore listening to Pat talk about this new man in her life. When I finally get to see your picture I started singing Berry Manilow. We joked that you and Berry had some facial features in common.
Another funny story that I remember happened one morning when I went to the bookstore to talk about the latest sermon by TD Jakes. I was there with two other people and Pat begin to ask me if I was seeing anyone because she wanted me to marry her daughter. I said that I was seeing someone, but Pat stated that I should let her go and date her daughter. Pat did not realize that she put her foot in her mouth that day, because my girlfriend was one of the two other people that was with me in the bookstore at that time. Pat's face got read.
Dave & Family, I hope that these two stories could bring a smile to your faces and a joy to your heart. May God keep and bless you all!
--Jermale D. Eddie (Multicultural Student Development Office)
KaiLonnie Dunsmore
November 3rd 2006
I met Pat during my first month as a new faculty member at Calvin, last September 2005. I came to the bookstore to look for a book for my sister who was going through a difficult time. Somehow I found myself having a conversation with this stranger about my sister. She encouraged me, shared a bit about her life, reassured me that it would be fine and, of course, helped me select a book. Thus began my almost monthly conversations with Pat arounding the ordering or purchasing of a book. I think one of the reasons I liked to do this in person instead of via e-mail is that Pat always would have a conversation with me around the topic of whatever book I was ordering and...she would remember to ask about my sister.
What I so appreciated about Pat was that the daily tasks in her work (ordering books, stocking shelves) were merely a vehicle for entering people's lives. She was exhuberant, positive, happy (and who didn't know how much she loved being a grandma!) and interesed in the joys and struggles of the people who came in her path. Getting a book from Pat was always more than just accomplishing a task; it was an opportunity for our lives to intersect. Pat characterizes the spirit here at Calvin that has made me so cherish my time here. She does her work well but does it with an idea to touching the lives with whom she comes in contact.
Char Grasmeyer
November 3rd 2006
When I reflect on Pat so many memories come to mind from over the years I have known her- each memory different in content and text. I believe that each memory gives way to a description of who Pat was as a person. I almost always remember Pat as a person with the most wonderful smile and quick wit. She could make me laugh and seemed to be able to take a moment and make it large. I will miss Pat but am thankful that God put her in my life at different moments with different purposes unknown to her. And she, through who she was at each of those moments, made a difference to me.
Fellow Calvin employee
November 3rd 2006
To the family and friends of Pat, I’m praying that our God will grant to each of you what it is you need in this time of deep grief.
I’m a person that has been a recipient of Pat’s care and concern for those who came into the campus store or who called with a question related to the campus store. It is hard to explain but when Pat was helping me I knew she would gladly and warmly do all she could. I will miss her.
Mart Hollebeek
November 3rd 2006
Dear Dave and family
We have had you in our thoughts and prayers ever since we got the news. We wish we were there to hug you all. How we will miss her wonderful smile and sweet voice in church.
Mary has booked a ticket and will be coming back into GR on Saturday to give you all our love in person. As we drive down the road again today, we spend much of our time praying for you all that God will give you His grace and strength, not only for these next days but for the weeks and months ahead as well.
We hold you inb our hearts, He holds you in His arms
Mart
Ashley Tamminga
November 3rd 2006
Pat and I often complained about people who park in 'handicapped' spots without a permit, as we both had special people in our lives who really needed those spots. In the bookstore one day a hym with the words "I'll fly away" was playing and she said to me that she always thought of her son David when she heard it, because someday he would be free of his wheelchair and he'd fly away. I said my Mum would sing "I'll BIKE away" and we had a chuckle together. She also once said in her special way "I am a music FREAK!" I'm imagining her singing in the heavenly choir around the throne of Jesus, making everyone laugh with her antics. She flew home before we were ready for her to go, but at the same time I'm jealous that she's there with Christ, singing in the best all-time choir! Pat will be missed terribly at the Campus Store for her humour and the pizaz she added to every day events, but also for the advice,listening ear, and tolerance she always had in abundance. My heart is breaking for her family.
Barb Dykhuizen
November 2nd 2006
I was the rectoress on Weekend 184 and Pat made that Weekend. I watch her tears but I saw the love for God and people around her. She came in as a cocoon and left as a butterfly.
I saw Pat while she was working on 202 and she ran up to me and hugged me and said this is great, this is so great Barb. She was so excited and I told her how great she looked and she said I am so happy. Things are wonderful.
I am still in shock. Decolores will miss her smiling face. My heart goes out to Dave and her family, but I know she is up in Heaven singing and spreading her joy. Life is short but Pat had the chance to touch so many lives before she left this world to join her Heavenly Father.
Decolores
Susie Neckers
November 2nd 2006
I first met Pat a few months ago when we became involved in the planning of a Women's weekend for DeColores #202 on October 5-8, 2006. She impressed me with her energy, enthusiasm and warmth, but most of all with her desire to bring Christ to the women on the weekend.She sang our theme song," In Christ Alone" with conviction and joy. It is those words that she is now living with Christ.
Your Decolores 202 family
November 2nd 2006
IN CHRIST ALONE
In Christ alone my hope is found
He is my light, my strength, my song
This cornerstone, this solid ground,
Firm through the fiercest drought and storm.
What height of love, what depth of peace
When fears are stilled, when strivings cease!
My comforter, my all in all
Here in the love of Christ I stand.
In Christ alone, who took of flesh
Fullness of God in helpless babe!
This gift of love and righteousness
Scorned by the ones He came to save
Till on that cross as Jesus died
The wrath of God was satisfied
For every sin on Him was laid
Here in the death of Christ I live.
There in the ground His body lay
Light of the world by darkness slain
Then bursting forth in glorious day
Up from the grave He rose again!
And as He stands in victory
Sin's curse has lost its grip on me
For I am His and He is mine
Bought with the precious blood of Christ.
No guilt in life, no fear in death,
This is the power of Christ in me!
From life's first cry to final breath
Jesus commands my destiny.
No power of hell, no scheme of man,
Can every pluck me from His hand;
Till He returns or calls me home
Here in the power of Christ I stand.
What a privilege to have shared our weekend together. Our hearts ache and rejoice for you and your family!
Decolores
Susie Neckers
November 2nd 2006
Susie Neckers - Nov 1, 2006 I'm sure that it is hard for those of you who sat at Pat's table. Even though we know that she is singing and dancing with the saints at the feet of Jesus, we are saddened by the loss felt by her family and friends.
Sue Edema
November 2nd 2006
Since Tuesday evening, as we found about about Pat's sudden death, her Decolores #202 sisters began sharing thoughts on our website. I'm sharing those here so those who loved her get a glimpse of how she touched each of us that weekend.
Pat was an auxiliary on our #202 weekend - and shared the table along with Valerie Beatty who was the Ideal rollista. Pat was recently married to Dave Prince who has been a musician with Decolores for many years. Pat was so elated to serve on the weekend. And, as Mary said this evening, there was certainly a reason for her selection to be on the team - that of healing and joy before her Homecoming. For those of us who came to know Pat on #202, she brought a wonderful smile and sense of humor to those she touched. Our sympathy is extended to Dave and her family. I am reminded of the last sentence that my dear friend, Ruth Dykstra, shared with me two days before her death last week. She said, "Life goes so quickly, Jane." How blest we are to know Jesus and to celebrate our lives each day. DeColores, dear friends - Jane Maxim
Heidi Verbrugge - Nov 1, 2006 I was at Pat's table on weekend #202. Her laughter and personality were infectious. Her family was so important to her and she couldn't say enough about her wonderful husband, children and little grandbaby. My deepest sympathy and prayers are with Dave and the rest of her family. What else can I say? I selfishly morn that we have lost her joyful spirit here on earth but rejoice that she is laughing (and singing & swaying I'm sure) with Jesus in heaven - God bless you Pat - You will be missed.
Shalom Jaconette - Nov 1, 2006 I was not prepared for this sudden news. Pat seemed so young, healthy and full of excitement about the stage of life she was in. Pat was vibrant and joyous about her life, husband,and children, and as Heidi said, her grandson, she passed his cute little picture around our sleeping room AND our table. She was enjoying being a grandma! She also had responsibilities for her son, in his early 20's, who is in a wheelchair. He sent her palanca, and as I sat reading my own items I could see her getting pretty teary over on her cot, so I sat with her, and she told me a little of the struggles they had with him and the wheelchair, but how wonderful he was and how blessed she was, and how much she loved him. She also sat through, and hugged me through some of my breakdowns over the weekend, we did a lot of singing, swaying crying,and talking, she sat on my left., right next to me at the table of St. Francis...she had a stash of soft kleenex and shared them with me :-). we became close and I can see how much she helped me on this weekend. I am so grateful I was given the chance to get to know her. She was a giving person.
I remember one day (friday, I think, she had a Life is Good t-shirt on, and when Dave came in at the Cross shaped dinner table part when Christ was our guest of honor, he had a Life is Good t-shirt on too!! I'll remember that about Pat, she had her share of struggles, like many do, but she still smiled and felt life is good, God is good!!! Pat is not sad, she is in pure glory, it is only sad for those she leaves behind. Prayers and blessings to Pat's family.
Love you Pat, see you on the other side, and until then...life is good. Shalom
Jamie Brummel - Nov 1, 2006 I, too, was shocked to hear the news tonight from friends from church who are part of the DeColores community. It seems so surreal. I guess, like Jane said, the lesson for us still on earth is that life is short -- whether we have 40 years, 50 years, 70 or more. It goes by so quickly, and tomorrow is not promised to any of us. Live life intentionally, girls, make a difference for Christ, and always tell your dear ones I love you before you part. Love to all of you, and to Pat: Sing and sway away, Friend, and save a spot for me in the choir!
Patty Becker - Nov 1, 2006 I also shared a table with Pat. It truly was my honor to get a chance to know her and to talk with her. We had a couple of connections as well (besides sharing the same name), both being newly married and I have a nephew that is in a wheelchair with the same problems that Pat's son has. My nephew is a little less advanced, however. What a shock it was to hear the news! I grieve for her husband and family.
Please, please remember to keep her husband, Dave, in your prayers. Thank God that shock takes over quickly so as to be able to do what needs to be done. As someone who was "the spouse left behind" I can tell you that as the shock begins to wear off and reality sets in, life is going to become an awful nightmare for him for quite a while! Thankfully he has God with him. I really don't know how people without faith ever survive this experience. My heart goes out to him.
Blessings, Patty
Mary DeKorte - Nov 1, 2006 With tears running down my face I write this note. How I ache for Dave and Pat's family.
Remember life is indeed so short and this is another reminder for us all. Hug your family and tell them daily you love them.
Thank you Father that we could sing, swag and cry with Pat on weekend 202.
She will indeed be missed.
Sue Edema - Nov 1, 2006 Delete | 'In Christ Alone '-- those words continue to be with all of us.
Til He returns, or calls me home -- there in the power of Christ Pat stands! What a gift we had in getting to know her on our weekend. Pray for Pat's family -- her son David and her ex-husband, Mark, work with my daughter at Rockford Christian School. Her husband, Dave and all the other children need our prayers. Jesus, wrap your arms around all of them and all of us as we mourn her passing....but celebrate her homecoming!
Nelly Doelman
March 1st 2007
I still can't believe Patti is gone. I think about her all the time; she meant the world to me. I used to call her Mom #4 because she was my American mamma. She always told me that I needed a mom in the States to watch over me since mine is far away in Canada. She was a great momma to me, too. She loved to give advice to me about life and guys. She was always so honest about what she thought, which was so incredibly refreshing. She never said what she didn't mean.
I've been on this website so many times and it still brings tears to my eyes to think that I will never be able to see her or talk to her again. I always had so much fun talking to her. And that laugh! Oh, she had the BEST laugh. It was really more of a cackle, but still, it was great. I am going to miss going to Great Lakes with she and Dave and me and Joe. We always had such a great time. I only wish I could've had ONE more time to see her. I had so much to tell her! She never got to find out about Joe and I finally getting engaged and secretly married. She would have loved to hear all about it. It kills me that I didn't call her to tell her sooner.
I don't think my life will ever be the same without Patti in it. I am so blessed to have known her. I would have never survived at the Bookstore without her, I know that for a fact!
I love ya and miss you more than you could ever know.
Karen Toczydlowski
November 7th 2006
My dear, dear friend, how could I ever put down in words the memories of fifty years? My earliest memory is when Pat was in first grade and I was in kindergarden at Creston Christian. She was learning to read and I sat with her and was awed by the fact that she could read to me from her Dick and Jane book! From that time on we were a pair, playing with our Barbie dolls, riding my stingray bike, double (she use to make me peddle as she rode on the handlebars!) Calvinettes, church choir, make-up, boys, riding the bus downtown, our family vacations, sleep overs at my house or hers, our summers at Kent Hills Park, to her first car, a Beetle she named Vivian. It was her dad's hand me down, light blue with red seat covers. What adventures we had in that little car!! We shared our first apartment, and got married within three months of eachother. We had our first babies (both boys) four days apart, two more wonderful boys three months apart, and then Pat had another boy and three days later I had a girl, all within five years! We laughed together at our joys and cried together during our sorrows. She felt like family to me and often called me the "sister she never had". To say that I miss her does not describe what I feel in my heart. My joy is that she is in Heaven reunited with Jeffery and singing with her beautiful voice praising our Saviour in a way we can only imagine. "Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal." 2 Corinthians 4:16-18
I miss you my forever friend! I will always love you.
Deanne Casanova
November 7th 2006
We do not stop playing because we grow old; we grow old because we stop playing. And I am so glad that I could play with Pat. In the Friendship Game, I had won first prize with her. That is one of the joys of living--we are able to choose our friends. And when I met Pat, I knew that she was a gift. I loved her. I love her family. They are all the best. I love her God. Pat and I had so much fun together and what I loved so much is that I could see Jesus in her. I couldn't ask for anything more--I won the prize with Pat Prince. I will miss her greatly.
Sue Hintz
November 7th 2006
My very deepest sympathy is extended to Pat's husband Dave and children at this sudden loss in their lives. All the words have been said about Pat that can express her life and love for family and friends! She was such a bright spot in our circle of friends at the condo group where we all live and socialize. I will miss her in many ways, one of which after work arriving at the pool with her sunny yellow beach bag and kokopelli necklace ready to relax a bit before going out to dinner. We always had great conversations about the newest books she and Dave were reading and where our next dinner would be! Gosh, she leaves a serious void in our group, but sharing a friendship with her is priceless! Many blessings and prayers to Pat's family.
Laurel De Fouw
November 6th 2006
Pat was a very special person to me. I had come back to Calvin to take classes for my education degree. I met Pat while looking for some books and quickly was impressed with her. We found we had a lot in common, family, children and grandchildren. I visited her often and she always had time to talk to me, whether to encourage me in my classes or just give me that wonderful 'Pat smile'. I am very thankful to have had Pat for a friend as she touched my heart with her wonderful joy of life. Thanks Pat for being there for me. Laurel
Lori Walz
November 6th 2006
I want to share my condolences for the Prince, Van Andel and Calvin families. I am a Calvin parent whose life was touched long distance by Pat over this year’s Family Weekend. I am sitting here at prayer somewhat numbed by the news of Pat’s too soon Homegoing, and can only imagine the magnitude of your loss.
I thought if I could share this brief glimpse it might offer more comfort to you all. I never got the chance to say “thank you†again to Pat. I am sure that she is blessed in Jesus arms for the simple differences she made in people’s lives. This is how she impacted our lives last month:
A few months ago, I was supposed to be moving to Grand Rapids for employment and I thought I would be right there at Calvin watching my son sing for Family Weekend. Instead, I am finding myself over 20 hour’s away working temporarily for my home church in International Falls, MN. My heart was broken as I thought of Jon singing and my not being there to hear him, and wondering what I could do to make sure he felt my presence anyhow.
Somehow, I got the idea to call the Campus Store. I explained what I was thinking of to whomever answered the phone and they gave me to Pat. She helped me pick out a balloon with Jon’s favorite candy and a card. She wrote, “ Have fun tonight singing!-With love and prayers, Mom†on the card, and I asked her to put a gift certificate for a “hoodie†in it. Jon was able to run over from the dorm and get his surprise the same day, and I felt like I had done the best “mom thing†I could do in the circumstances. It made my weekend a little easier. Pat had said she would send the receipt, I thanked her profusely and went on with my day.
A week ago, I got an envelope in the mail marked, P.Prince, handwritten in the corner. I thought , “What is this?†It was the receipt for Jon’s care package that Pat had taken the time and trouble from her busy day to help me with. On seeing it, I sent a special prayer of thanks for her and for all the people at Calvin who seem to touch our lives in such caring ways every time I talk to them. I had hoped to walk into the Campus store and say “thank you†in person someday, but I hope this memory will help in some small way.
My family and I will be keeping you in our prayers for the comfort of our God and for memories to bring healing until you are once again with this woman you love so much.
Blessings and Prayers for you all,
Lori Walz,
(mother of Jonathan Walz- Sophomore, Boer Hall.)
Phil de Haan
November 6th 2006
I liked Pat. She was cheerful and she could banter with the best of them. When Pat first started working at Calvin I made the mistake of telling her I had bought a book from Amazon. She told me she could serve me better and cheaper. I laughed. But I took her up on her offer. I'm not sure I've bought a book from Amazon since. In fact just a couple of weeks ago Pat ordered seven books for me for a little reading group here at Calvin. It was fun to work with Pat. I'll miss her a lot. My prayers are with all of those who loved her and will miss her dearly.
Betty Belding
November 5th 2006
It's sunday afternoon and I missed Pat's Memorial Service due to a Youth Group retreat but I rejoice in this day knowing how much Pat loved the sunshine. Pat and I went to grade school together and our paths have woven in and out of eachothers lives. I grieve for Dave and the rest of Pat's family but I also rejoice knowing that they and i will see Pat again "up there". God is gracious and I trust Him. I know He prepared a place for her but it seems like He called her home too soon. I can still hear her singing:
"No guilt in life, no fear in death,
This is the power of Christ in me.
From life's first cry til final breath,
Jesus commands my destiny.
No power of hell, no scheme of man,
Can ever pluck me from his hand;
Till He returns od=r calls me home,
Here in the power of Christ I stand"
Shannon Faasse
November 5th 2006
Pat and Dave have been regular customers at Great Lakes as long as I have been there so at least 3 years. Pat always asked me about my kids and husband and had a genuine concern about my life. She glowed when she spoke of Dave, her kids and her new Grandchild. Tuesdays were her favorite night because she could babysit and spoil Blake. She was an amazing woman, with strong values and her family was her life. I will miss Pat. I am praying for Dave and her family.
holly van slooten knapp
November 4th 2006
i knew pat for along time having gone thru creston christian school and christian high a year behind her. she was my good friend, karen's, best friend. pat was alot of fun. we shared the loss of a child together--pat was very thoughtful when i lost my son, jager. i have a chalk drawing she had made for me at my time of sorrow. it is still hanging in my room at work and it has been 12 years since she gave it to me.she was kind hearted and fun loving. i know she is in heaven enjoying her son, jeffrey, and i know she will give jager a hug and kiss for me. thank you, pat!! peace to your family! holly
Charsie Sawyer
November 4th 2006
Pat will be greatly missed. It took me almost 2 years to get Pat to join the choir at Madison and when she joined she brought two of her men with her. (David and Dave) She was always smiling and had a lovely voice. What a joy to be around her. She was an excellent musician and helped whenever and however she could. I remember times finding her in the Calvin bookstore and how we would talk about church and music. She was definitly a people person. She loved life. We loved her but God loved her best. ...Absent from the body present with the Lord..
My Love and Prayers to the family.
Linda Raetz
November 4th 2006
Pat was my Prayer Partner for the last women's DeColores #202 weekend. When I asked Pat what I could pray for her specifically, she said "Nothing really, . . . My life is wonderful right now!" with a great big smile on her face! I will always cherish that smile because it embodied how much God had blessed her in her journey.
Pat was truly a blessing to many.
Thank you for putting this Life Story together to honor a beautiful woman.
Linda Raetz
Emily Hollebeek Brechting
November 4th 2006
I have dozens of fond memories of Pat and here are a few...
Pat spending time by the pool with her family, Pat buzzing around the kitchen making homemade pizza for the whole crew, or Pat cranking up the stereo and dancing around with Dave. And I'd be remiss to not mention her laughter. Pat's laughter was captivating--the unlikely combination of a girlish giggle and hearty belly laughter that was truly infectious. She was a tremendous woman and her absence will be deeply felt by all who knew her.
Miranda toczydlowski
November 3rd 2006
HEY!
Wow pat was my mothers best friend! and she was like my aunt she was the best person in the world!!! i miss her sooo much soo does my mom! I remember my sisters wedding (sarahs) and aunt pat was dancing with me and it was so fun she always bought me little things and i remember when i was at her house and she gave me really good cookies
we miss u!!
miranda
Jerry Fondse
November 3rd 2006
Pat's grandson was born about six months before ours. Since Pat knew our daughter Kara well, I could no longer get into and out of the bookstore without Pat asking to see pictures and then sharing hers. I had not known her well before, but the joy she shared with me over our grandchildren was wonderful. I'll miss you, Pat.
Nancy Hull
November 3rd 2006
I met Pat in the bookstore at Calvin when she assisted the English Department with ordering books for the Festival of Faith & Writing and for the Youth Writing Festivals. Pat would meet with our conference committees and graciously lead us through the process of ordering appropriate books for the festivals. She was always kind and energetic--working hard to make our conferences a success. As others have said, she went out of her way to listen and respond to our needs. She made a tedious process fun and rewarding. We will miss her skills, her spirit, and her joy. Blessings to her family and friends at this time.
Jermale D. Eddie
November 3rd 2006
Dear Dave & Family:
My thoughts and prayers are with you all as we celebrate the life of an angel such a Pat. I spent many mornings in the Bookstore listening to Pat talk about this new man in her life. When I finally get to see your picture I started singing Berry Manilow. We joked that you and Berry had some facial features in common.
Another funny story that I remember happened one morning when I went to the bookstore to talk about the latest sermon by TD Jakes. I was there with two other people and Pat begin to ask me if I was seeing anyone because she wanted me to marry her daughter. I said that I was seeing someone, but Pat stated that I should let her go and date her daughter. Pat did not realize that she put her foot in her mouth that day, because my girlfriend was one of the two other people that was with me in the bookstore at that time. Pat's face got read.
Dave & Family, I hope that these two stories could bring a smile to your faces and a joy to your heart. May God keep and bless you all!
--Jermale D. Eddie (Multicultural Student Development Office)
KaiLonnie Dunsmore
November 3rd 2006
I met Pat during my first month as a new faculty member at Calvin, last September 2005. I came to the bookstore to look for a book for my sister who was going through a difficult time. Somehow I found myself having a conversation with this stranger about my sister. She encouraged me, shared a bit about her life, reassured me that it would be fine and, of course, helped me select a book. Thus began my almost monthly conversations with Pat arounding the ordering or purchasing of a book. I think one of the reasons I liked to do this in person instead of via e-mail is that Pat always would have a conversation with me around the topic of whatever book I was ordering and...she would remember to ask about my sister.
What I so appreciated about Pat was that the daily tasks in her work (ordering books, stocking shelves) were merely a vehicle for entering people's lives. She was exhuberant, positive, happy (and who didn't know how much she loved being a grandma!) and interesed in the joys and struggles of the people who came in her path. Getting a book from Pat was always more than just accomplishing a task; it was an opportunity for our lives to intersect. Pat characterizes the spirit here at Calvin that has made me so cherish my time here. She does her work well but does it with an idea to touching the lives with whom she comes in contact.
Char Grasmeyer
November 3rd 2006
When I reflect on Pat so many memories come to mind from over the years I have known her- each memory different in content and text. I believe that each memory gives way to a description of who Pat was as a person. I almost always remember Pat as a person with the most wonderful smile and quick wit. She could make me laugh and seemed to be able to take a moment and make it large. I will miss Pat but am thankful that God put her in my life at different moments with different purposes unknown to her. And she, through who she was at each of those moments, made a difference to me.
Fellow Calvin employee
November 3rd 2006
To the family and friends of Pat, I’m praying that our God will grant to each of you what it is you need in this time of deep grief.
I’m a person that has been a recipient of Pat’s care and concern for those who came into the campus store or who called with a question related to the campus store. It is hard to explain but when Pat was helping me I knew she would gladly and warmly do all she could. I will miss her.
Mart Hollebeek
November 3rd 2006
Dear Dave and family
We have had you in our thoughts and prayers ever since we got the news. We wish we were there to hug you all. How we will miss her wonderful smile and sweet voice in church.
Mary has booked a ticket and will be coming back into GR on Saturday to give you all our love in person. As we drive down the road again today, we spend much of our time praying for you all that God will give you His grace and strength, not only for these next days but for the weeks and months ahead as well.
We hold you inb our hearts, He holds you in His arms
Mart
Ashley Tamminga
November 3rd 2006
Pat and I often complained about people who park in 'handicapped' spots without a permit, as we both had special people in our lives who really needed those spots. In the bookstore one day a hym with the words "I'll fly away" was playing and she said to me that she always thought of her son David when she heard it, because someday he would be free of his wheelchair and he'd fly away. I said my Mum would sing "I'll BIKE away" and we had a chuckle together. She also once said in her special way "I am a music FREAK!" I'm imagining her singing in the heavenly choir around the throne of Jesus, making everyone laugh with her antics. She flew home before we were ready for her to go, but at the same time I'm jealous that she's there with Christ, singing in the best all-time choir! Pat will be missed terribly at the Campus Store for her humour and the pizaz she added to every day events, but also for the advice,listening ear, and tolerance she always had in abundance. My heart is breaking for her family.
Barb Dykhuizen
November 2nd 2006
I was the rectoress on Weekend 184 and Pat made that Weekend. I watch her tears but I saw the love for God and people around her. She came in as a cocoon and left as a butterfly.
I saw Pat while she was working on 202 and she ran up to me and hugged me and said this is great, this is so great Barb. She was so excited and I told her how great she looked and she said I am so happy. Things are wonderful.
I am still in shock. Decolores will miss her smiling face. My heart goes out to Dave and her family, but I know she is up in Heaven singing and spreading her joy. Life is short but Pat had the chance to touch so many lives before she left this world to join her Heavenly Father.
Decolores
Susie Neckers
November 2nd 2006
I first met Pat a few months ago when we became involved in the planning of a Women's weekend for DeColores #202 on October 5-8, 2006. She impressed me with her energy, enthusiasm and warmth, but most of all with her desire to bring Christ to the women on the weekend.She sang our theme song," In Christ Alone" with conviction and joy. It is those words that she is now living with Christ.
Your Decolores 202 family
November 2nd 2006
IN CHRIST ALONE
In Christ alone my hope is found
He is my light, my strength, my song
This cornerstone, this solid ground,
Firm through the fiercest drought and storm.
What height of love, what depth of peace
When fears are stilled, when strivings cease!
My comforter, my all in all
Here in the love of Christ I stand.
In Christ alone, who took of flesh
Fullness of God in helpless babe!
This gift of love and righteousness
Scorned by the ones He came to save
Till on that cross as Jesus died
The wrath of God was satisfied
For every sin on Him was laid
Here in the death of Christ I live.
There in the ground His body lay
Light of the world by darkness slain
Then bursting forth in glorious day
Up from the grave He rose again!
And as He stands in victory
Sin's curse has lost its grip on me
For I am His and He is mine
Bought with the precious blood of Christ.
No guilt in life, no fear in death,
This is the power of Christ in me!
From life's first cry to final breath
Jesus commands my destiny.
No power of hell, no scheme of man,
Can every pluck me from His hand;
Till He returns or calls me home
Here in the power of Christ I stand.
What a privilege to have shared our weekend together. Our hearts ache and rejoice for you and your family!
Decolores
Susie Neckers
November 2nd 2006
Susie Neckers - Nov 1, 2006 I'm sure that it is hard for those of you who sat at Pat's table. Even though we know that she is singing and dancing with the saints at the feet of Jesus, we are saddened by the loss felt by her family and friends.
Sue Edema
November 2nd 2006
Since Tuesday evening, as we found about about Pat's sudden death, her Decolores #202 sisters began sharing thoughts on our website. I'm sharing those here so those who loved her get a glimpse of how she touched each of us that weekend.
Pat was an auxiliary on our #202 weekend - and shared the table along with Valerie Beatty who was the Ideal rollista. Pat was recently married to Dave Prince who has been a musician with Decolores for many years. Pat was so elated to serve on the weekend. And, as Mary said this evening, there was certainly a reason for her selection to be on the team - that of healing and joy before her Homecoming. For those of us who came to know Pat on #202, she brought a wonderful smile and sense of humor to those she touched. Our sympathy is extended to Dave and her family. I am reminded of the last sentence that my dear friend, Ruth Dykstra, shared with me two days before her death last week. She said, "Life goes so quickly, Jane." How blest we are to know Jesus and to celebrate our lives each day. DeColores, dear friends - Jane Maxim
Heidi Verbrugge - Nov 1, 2006 I was at Pat's table on weekend #202. Her laughter and personality were infectious. Her family was so important to her and she couldn't say enough about her wonderful husband, children and little grandbaby. My deepest sympathy and prayers are with Dave and the rest of her family. What else can I say? I selfishly morn that we have lost her joyful spirit here on earth but rejoice that she is laughing (and singing & swaying I'm sure) with Jesus in heaven - God bless you Pat - You will be missed.
Shalom Jaconette - Nov 1, 2006 I was not prepared for this sudden news. Pat seemed so young, healthy and full of excitement about the stage of life she was in. Pat was vibrant and joyous about her life, husband,and children, and as Heidi said, her grandson, she passed his cute little picture around our sleeping room AND our table. She was enjoying being a grandma! She also had responsibilities for her son, in his early 20's, who is in a wheelchair. He sent her palanca, and as I sat reading my own items I could see her getting pretty teary over on her cot, so I sat with her, and she told me a little of the struggles they had with him and the wheelchair, but how wonderful he was and how blessed she was, and how much she loved him. She also sat through, and hugged me through some of my breakdowns over the weekend, we did a lot of singing, swaying crying,and talking, she sat on my left., right next to me at the table of St. Francis...she had a stash of soft kleenex and shared them with me :-). we became close and I can see how much she helped me on this weekend. I am so grateful I was given the chance to get to know her. She was a giving person.
I remember one day (friday, I think, she had a Life is Good t-shirt on, and when Dave came in at the Cross shaped dinner table part when Christ was our guest of honor, he had a Life is Good t-shirt on too!! I'll remember that about Pat, she had her share of struggles, like many do, but she still smiled and felt life is good, God is good!!! Pat is not sad, she is in pure glory, it is only sad for those she leaves behind. Prayers and blessings to Pat's family.
Love you Pat, see you on the other side, and until then...life is good. Shalom
Jamie Brummel - Nov 1, 2006 I, too, was shocked to hear the news tonight from friends from church who are part of the DeColores community. It seems so surreal. I guess, like Jane said, the lesson for us still on earth is that life is short -- whether we have 40 years, 50 years, 70 or more. It goes by so quickly, and tomorrow is not promised to any of us. Live life intentionally, girls, make a difference for Christ, and always tell your dear ones I love you before you part. Love to all of you, and to Pat: Sing and sway away, Friend, and save a spot for me in the choir!
Patty Becker - Nov 1, 2006 I also shared a table with Pat. It truly was my honor to get a chance to know her and to talk with her. We had a couple of connections as well (besides sharing the same name), both being newly married and I have a nephew that is in a wheelchair with the same problems that Pat's son has. My nephew is a little less advanced, however. What a shock it was to hear the news! I grieve for her husband and family.
Please, please remember to keep her husband, Dave, in your prayers. Thank God that shock takes over quickly so as to be able to do what needs to be done. As someone who was "the spouse left behind" I can tell you that as the shock begins to wear off and reality sets in, life is going to become an awful nightmare for him for quite a while! Thankfully he has God with him. I really don't know how people without faith ever survive this experience. My heart goes out to him.
Blessings, Patty
Mary DeKorte - Nov 1, 2006 With tears running down my face I write this note. How I ache for Dave and Pat's family.
Remember life is indeed so short and this is another reminder for us all. Hug your family and tell them daily you love them.
Thank you Father that we could sing, swag and cry with Pat on weekend 202.
She will indeed be missed.
Sue Edema - Nov 1, 2006 Delete | 'In Christ Alone '-- those words continue to be with all of us.
Til He returns, or calls me home -- there in the power of Christ Pat stands! What a gift we had in getting to know her on our weekend. Pray for Pat's family -- her son David and her ex-husband, Mark, work with my daughter at Rockford Christian School. Her husband, Dave and all the other children need our prayers. Jesus, wrap your arms around all of them and all of us as we mourn her passing....but celebrate her homecoming!
